Guys, Be Honest! Are you attracted to girls based on their Appearance rather than their Personality?

[Crystal03]

Curvy body, Thick, Big Boobs, Popularity, and Attractive face? Why?

[smb930]

Unfortunately, looks always start the surface level. But when personality in a relationship is there, but the relationship doesn't work out, it hurts. A lot.

I cannot begin to tell you how many girls have approached me that I never had physical attraction to that have tried to talk to me, and I never realized they were dropping hints.

I have missed countless genuine opportunities to build potential friendships, and I believe I have unintentionally broken at least 3 girls' hearts, all because of my lack of acting on opportunities. You cannot imagine how terrible I feel, both for myself and the girls in question.

[pajamasam]

I do often decide whether I like a girl or not solely on their appearance, but I also can change my mind. I've been extremely attracted to girls who had terrible personalities that just killed the connection for me. I've also been with girls who I wouldn't normally have considered attractive who grew on me over time because they were just wonderful people.

[EpicIrishman]

Are their looks a contributing factor? Absolutely. Are they the most important factor? Absolutely not.

[cheapshotbob]

im not because some of the most beautiful women are egotists and they dont really want a boy friend they just want a guy who will gravel at there feet, so i go for the personality. i mean some guys might go for the beautiful bitch type but im not into arrogant women who think they that have a right to someone that is less than better or more than over the top arrogant.

[hellionthesagereborn]

I can say a woman is objectively attractive based upon looks but if she has a crap personality that will not save her. If her personality is bad I will not want anything to do with her and I know that is the case with many guys (my friend went on two dates with a girl who as he put it was as hot as she was dumb, but he couldn't continue because he couldn't have a conversation with her he couldn't really do much but look at her). So yeah, she can be attractive but that doesn't mean he will want her.

[ohshee]

I am attracted to a girl who is happy confedent independent loving with a good heart the bonus is what see looks like. But the real beauty comes from With in

[i1T2daty]

The initial attraction is almost always a matter of appearance. Not always in a completely shallow way since I often find people interesting seeming based on clues like book/magazine/paper being read. Music listened to, etc. but physical beauty is a large element. Even there, though, I'll often choose an unconventional rather than a "porn star" appearance.
After the initial reaction other factors become more important. I'm not sure if personality is the right word. Not being afraid to not hold the same opinions as their peer group and a level of critical thought or level of intelligence becomes very important. One of the best measures of intelligence - rather than simply knowledge- is by her sense of humor. A good sense of humor indicates many other positive traits about someone- or at least traits I find attractive. "Nice" isn't even that big of a deal. I know many nice and boring people but cruel is an immediate turnoff

[Truthatanycost]

Yep, just as much as I'm turned off by a dull, self serving, narcissistic personality once I get to know them beyond looks.

[Matthew2222]

It is a mixture of both. Physical appearance helps to draw a guy in, but it takes personality to sustain it after that.

[normalice]

Usually, its not really something anyone considers an "admission." Guys are usually happy to say they are intensely attracted to whatever they consider hot. The "curvy thic" thing is far from universal, though..

[ecfresh]

Yes my initial attraction is based on her physically.

[R4vedave]

50/50 looks & personality.