Guys, Would you expect a lady on the 3rd date has to already be experienced in having good sex?

Lets say the lady lost her virginity to you but you and her dont have sex that often and lets say you wll see each other for a 3rd sex date (the 2nd time you also had sex). So still everything is fresh to the lady and new to her so fo rher to enjoy more and get used to it she has to have mroe sex with you. But then you expect on the 3rd time she has to have more experience so you wotn be that turn off like the last time, or do you think still is too soon for that?

Will it be a turn off if a lady still is jumpy as she begins her experience in havign sex?
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  • I think this guy would. I think a decent guy would be understanding and some, would help you become more comfortable.

    The problem here is this guy is selfish and seems not doing a good job seducing you and guiding you. To me he's a user, not a lover. There's a difference in how he views the lady.

    I'm sorry, I don't like this guy as I read him... I think you deserve better. But I also understand, a person makes the best of what they have. My guidance is just... don't take any perceived flaws as failure, take what good you can from it.

    I've know a women terribly hurt by her husband who ridiculed her in bed, and she was quite traumatized. Not saying that is him.

  • First off. I would allow her to explore what she needs to get more confident and practice more. Second we would have more sex than that. Third it's ok if she's jumpy and learning the idea is for her trust me and have me patient so she can learn from the experiences together. Fourth it help me learn how to be more patient and get more sex. 😎😎

    • and a guy who expects a lady not be jumpy even before sex on the 3rd date could be a turn off foro any guy?

    • You would not be a turn off no.

    • i mean i beleive a 3rd date is too soon for a guy to expect the lady has to stop being nervpous and jumpy even before penetration, why would a guy says it is a boredome if alayd gets jumpy just on a 3rd date? I mean the layd has to get use to it being comfrotable and confident about the sex to really enjoy it. Why would some guys dont think like that? What kind of guys are these kind of guys?

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  • Girls are good at sex by wanting to do it and wanting to learn how. That's something even a girl with no experience can accomplish.

  • No, not the third time

    • So onthe 3rd time is still too soon u believe?

    • Yeah, it's reasonable to expect more time for her to feel comfortable. Even sexually experienced couples need more time than that to feel totally comfortable with each other.

    • I agre and what do you think when a guy asumes on teh 3rd date the lady has to be alraeyd comfortable and less jumpy?

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  • I wouldn't care about that. I'm dating her not her vagina.
    If it's a problem, it would be a problem for her, and one we would work on together.

    • Why would be a problem for her and not the guy? But what if for the guy is a problem for her to be that way

    • I'm saying for me, she does not need to be very experienced or good or whatever. If she feels it's a problem because she wants to be or whatever the case may be, then we would work on that together.

  • I don't find it much of a turn off. As long as she is willing and wants to be there, and gets to enjoy herself in the end.

  • Xant say it's up to what you both decide on

  • Wt actual fuck?

  • No I wouldn't. I'd expect the woman to wait until marriage to have sex.

    • I did not mean to wait until sex I mean to learn thigs abotu sex so quickly and that takes several dates