Do you think doggystyle is slutty?

[Anonymous]

[OlderAndWiser]

My idea of a slut is a girl who wants to have recreational sex just for fun with no emotional involvement. (Guys can be sluts, too, but I've never had sex with a guy and never will.) A slut would probably be promiscuous - multiple partners in a short time - but not necessarily.

If I got in bed with a girl the first time and she immediately got up in doggy position and said "fuck me doggy style," I would question whether she was just looking for sex at the moment. But if we had been intimate on several occasions and she suggested doggy style for the sake of doing something different, I would never think of her as a slut.

The other possibility is that people think this is slutty because a guy sees a girl's butthole in doggy position. Some women who do not engage in anal sex believe that a guy should never see their butthole. They think that the best way to discourage a guy from asking for anal sex is to never let him see her butthole. Of course, if a guy does 69 with a girl, he will see back there and it is a silly game to play. So, some women think revealing your butthole is an invitation to have anal sex and they view that as slutty.

In my opinion, that is all quite silly. I have had sex in the doggy position with a number of women and never had anal sex with them. "Bottom" line: not slutty.

[Anonymous]

Yes, that's why it's so awesome. It's nice to fuck a girl from behind, pull her hair and call her a slut.

[Asker]

It makes sense

[Opinion Owner]

I read every comment on your thread. The only conclusion is that most people are stupid. I totally gave up asking questions on this site because it's just not worth the energy. People will pick apart a question and even try and rewrite it to fit their own needs. But will they just write their own fucking questions? Nope. It's more fun for them to critique other people's questions. I totally get what you meant when you asked your question. It's not rocket science. One guy on your thread attempted to define what slutty is. He said it was having sex with a lot of partners. If this were my question... this would be my update: "Can someone explain to me what this saying means?" "A lady in the streets, a slut in the sheets?" LOL This will bring out the proverbial deer in headlights. :)

[Asker]

What's your answer to this question then? Just curious...

[Asker]

I guess you were the one who answered before. Not easy to say with the anonymous profile sometimes...

[CindyRuns]

To me, Doggy Style is more like a guy is just mating with me rather than making love to me.

I enjoy the closeness... being able to look into the guys eyes, to kiss him and to hold him while we're doing it !!!

[Asker]

Agree So what's your vote?

[CindyRuns]

Not sure what I'd call it !!! I just hate doing it that way !!!

[Asker]

I feel you

[Moonchild714]

No!! It's a Position. Positions aren't Slutty by any means!!! Also, I don't believe in Slut or Whore.

[Asker]

Those are not religions lol

[Moonchild714]

Where did religion come into play. I'm not one that shouts God during Sex... I keep Religion and Sex Separate, maybe that's your problem if you consider a Position Slutty!!!

[Moonchild714]

Thank you for MHO.

[Trolloween]

How can a position be slutty? Slutty means you're having sex with multiple people casually. If you mean is it disrespectful then also no, it's just a different way to have sex and if you don't like it then don't do it

[Asker]

That's your definition of slutty lol.

[Trolloween]

OK well if you're going to use your own definitions of words you should maybe explain what you mean. Imagine I called you a whore but to me a whore just meant pretty, I should probably explain I use the wrong definition before I said that

[Asker]

You're already using yours so...

[Trolloween]

I'm just going by the definition of a slut, which is a promiscuous person.

[Asker]

with reference to a woman) sexually promiscuous or provocative in a way that is considered in bad taste.

[pajamasam]

I dont see how it would be? Slutty is kinda acceptable in the bedroom though so even if it is who cares? Like I get that there isn't as much face to face contact, but everytime I've had sex it's been in multiple positions. Only like one or two exceptions was sex entirely one position.

[Warmapplecrumble]

Isn't the whole act of sex slutty I mean how do you make it innocent 😂😂😂🤣?

[Asker]

Obviously, you can't lol

[Warmapplecrumble]

So therefore all positions will be slutty lol 😂

[Asker]

I mean YOU can't

[ArrowheadSW]

No, it isn't slutty. It is a very normal position. Lots of couples love it.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

No, the sexual position is not relevant sexual status.

[zoeadams3]

When I am in my third trimester, it’s the only way to have sex.

[normalice]

Slutty is a state of mind, not a sex position, nor even a sexual behavior.

[Asker]

Or not

[normalice]

I was with one girl who was conservative about sex. She gave me lots of blow jobs, but had really weird rules, and one of them was no sex from behind. I suspect she found it degrading in some way to be taken from behind? She never said as much, but her opposition to the idea had that "tone" to it. Anyway, I can see how people might associate an acceptance of being degraded with sluttiness. But I don't understand how sex from behind could be perceived as degrading, unless a girl is very protective of her ass or something.

[Asker]

I do believe that it actually is. Most comments I see don't make me change my mind at all honestly.

[normalice]

It's all subjective, so it's not something that you could be convinced of, otherwise. But I suspect if you end up with a guy you trust to not degrade you, you'll probably learn to enjoy immensely - perhaps even in part due to the tension about it you have imagined building up. Indeed, I would even suggest that as a viable litmus test of how much you like a guy - if you can secretly imagine enjoying him taking you from behind, even if he has no intention of doing anything of the sort, then you are in love. Otherwise, you're likely settling..

[Asker]

Or I'm simply not into any stuff I consider as degrading. It's as simple as that lol.

[normalice]

We're a species that has been mating from behind for millions of years. You thinking it is degrading is not an instinct - it is something you learned. Some connection you made with not being able to see what's happening rendering you an outsider to be shunned, if I had to guess. But whatever. I'm not suggesting you try to imagine enjoying being degraded. I'm suggesting you imagine each guy you are with taking you from behind, and don't settle for anyone you would feel degraded by. It may be a tall order, but I think disappointment is otherwise inevitable.

[Asker]

How do you know "we're a species that has been mating from behind"? Any proof? Some actual scientific facts? Anything?

[normalice]

All the other animals do it? I mean, I could be wrong, but it's the impression I was given in all the anthropology lectures I sat through. The idea is that it is the most enticing for most men (can confirm), and what exactly would pre-civilization women do about it besides adapt?

[Asker]

So no proof

[normalice]

I mean.. what would qualify as proof, anyway? But really it doesn't matter. Even if it was somehow proven to you, that's no reason to suddenly stop finding it degrading. Indeed, you could argue that because it was so common when we were uncivilized, it is animal behavior, and it is the definition of degrading to be treated like an animal. Like, surely you don't think blow jobs and anal sex are things that are historically new to our species, right? And loads of people find those degrading. Even if you don't, you can imagine why others might, right? Discovering sex from behind to be historically common in our species is no reason to stop finding it degrading. The only reason you should ever stop believing it is degrading is because you've found a guy you don't believe would ever try to degrade you. That's all I'm trying to get at, here.

[Asker]

I would always believe being spit on, slapped, spanked, used as a sextoy, etc. is degrading no matter who does it. Same goes here. Stop believing women are inherently submissive and willing to do anything with the "right man". It simply isn't true.

[normalice]

It isn't about believing that you secretly want to be submissive. It's about finding a guy with whom you no longer believe the act is one of submission. Not because he has convinced you otherwise, but because you are convinced he doesn't judge that way.

[Asker]

People will always judge. Stop kidding yourself.

[normalice]

I mean, I don't. If you feel like you're being judged, I would suspect it's only because you are used to feeling like you are being judged. The problem is, indeed, that you are usually right, but that you are usually very wrong when it comes to what people are judging you for. It's always far more mundane than you imagine, because people aren't paying enough attention to you to notice the things you don't want them to see - they're too busy hiding their own secrets.

[Asker]

I'm not here for some low-cost psychoanalysis.

[normalice]

Well, shit. That's pretty much all I do on this site 😶

[Asker]

Do you have any ability as psychologist lol? Any degree?

[normalice]

Lol, no. Just a lot of introspection and selfscrutiny. Granted, it doesn't help me understanding, any..

[normalice]

*doesn't help me understand women, any This thing is horrible for typing on..

[Asker]

Obviously I do happen to have some psychological education I was just curious about your interest for psychoanalyzing people.

[normalice]

I just think it's important to understand what people are saying, but even more important to understand why they are saying it. But the Most Important Thing is to understand why they aren't being honest with themselves about why they are saying what they are saying. This gets to the heart of what people Want, which is a critical component of knowing who you can trust and who is only comfortable with mutual use.

[Asker]

Knowing why is just the second piece of the puzzle lol

[normalice]

It could be, but few enough people have enough depth that anything beyond that matters much. Yes, I'm aware that that sounds like a judgement, but it is only intended as observation: I don't think much about human nature is bad - not even our inherent bias towards the shallow.

[msss98]

If u consider sex slutty then yeah otherwise no its just sex

[Asker]

It's not just sex here it's something in particular

[R4vedave]

Who the hell thinks sex positions are slutty? What a strange way of thinking

[Asker]

Nothing weird about it. It's about social perception and norms.

[R4vedave]

I'd make me question everything a person said if they honestly thought this way, this is so backwards in my opinion.

[Asker]

If someone believes it's slutty?

[R4vedave]

Yeah, that'd be a red flag to me that they've got some seriously antiquated or backwards ideas/opinions.

[Asker]

Well I do consider it as inherently submissive and degrading with masochistic tendencies.

[R4vedave]

Yeeeeeah we probably wouldn't get on too well I don't think lmao

[Asker]

Obviously I think you're more on the dominant side anyway and I'm not seeking for anyone here either so... Lol

[boggboss]

Only a idiot would think it is no postion is inherently slutty

[Asker]

That's your opinion, it's not the ultimate truth.

[boggboss]

That sex positions themself have no level of sluttyness in itself that's not my opinion that is a fact

[Asker]

That's an opinion. Some don't believe that way. Period.

[boggboss]

Lol what some believe is irrelavent the level of how slutty it is is somthing we people decide it has I. e it's subjective there for its has no inherent value of sluttyness itself

[Asker]

Do you have any proof it is a fact?

[boggboss]

If you are not able to understand basic concepts then I guess there is no such things as facts for you meh

[Asker]

Just say you don't have any lol

[boggboss]

Please explain what makes a fact a fact

[Asker]

Experimental evidence such as scientific data either based on observational or experimental studies for instance.

[Smccoy217]

It's actually one of the preferred techniques for average to less than average penis size.

[Asker]

Which doesn't answer the question at all

[Smccoy217]

Then no. Not even a little bit slutty.

[Dargil]

I think it's trashy and simulates rape.

[Asker]

Really?

[Dargil]

Yep.

[archiz]

No it's hot😅

[gagsucs]

all sex is slutty... according to the mass majority, jus dont listen to their opinions, they shame a perfectly nature part of human nature... the sex drive

[Asker]

Not everything about it is slutty. Some obviously are though.

[gagsucs]

dont listen to anyone, u can't have sex at all without someone calling u a perv or a slut, its jus stupid people, jus do what u want, no one is a pervert, except sexual harrassers

[Asker]

And rapists, pedophiles,... LMAO

[gagsucs]

yea lol

[CasaNorba]

is drinking rum alcoholic?

[Meropatrick]

isn't slutty like sleeping around? Since when a sex position is equal to sleeping around? People really have their ideas mixed up

[Warmapplecrumble]

😂😂😂😂🤣

[wisefool]

it's not slutty but it's sluttier.

[Asker]

Why?

[wisefool]

because the girl is faced away from the guy and being fucked like a dog. it's a more animalistic and pleasurable method of sex.

[Asker]

And it's not slutty lol?

[wisefool]

i only fuck goddesses. not sure what every other guy is fucking...

[Asker]

Like a dog... Doesn't it make of them female dogs aka bitches then lol?

[wisefool]

females are bitches. since males are stronger and invent everything, you girls should bend over for us. we love to see and feel a girl's butt during sex.

[Asker]

All right. You've actually answered the question and made it very clear. Nothing else to say 😂

[genericname85]

You can't have sex but not be slutty in that moment. It's what sex is...

[Asker]

That's your opinion...

[genericname85]

Well how are you having sex? Are your genitals neither touching his nor are you showing yourself naked during sex? This has nothing to do with opinion but with how sex works.

[Asker]

Sex doesn't have to be slutty lol

[genericname85]

Well sex works how I previously described and that description perfectly fits with what is slutty. Now the difference between being called slutty overall or not is just determined by how many people you do that with. And how many people would constitute the threshold between slutty and not slutty that is up to opinion.

[Asker]

Or not

[Creepazoid]

Why would it be slutty?

[FýrdracaDócincel]

Who gives a fuck? Slutty doesn't have a definition anyway. It's really just an excuse for low-key cunts to claim they're more moral than other women.

[Asker]

There's definitely a definition. Do your research.

[FýrdracaDócincel]

A bullshit definition. Spend a day out from under that rock.

[Asker]

Try and be logical lol

[FýrdracaDócincel]

You sound like just the kind of lady to start literal fights with your friends over a guy and then call her a whore when you lose. 😊

[Asker]

It never happened. I guess you believe you're funny...

[FýrdracaDócincel]

Bitch, I'm hilarious.

[Asker]

You're being insulting cause you don't have any argument.