Oral on Girls, Yay or Nay?

If Nay, do you expect blowjobs?
So I have encountered guys who have said they do not really like performing oral. Which is of course okay, however one of them not only told me this after I'd given him a blowjob, he automatically assumed I would never refuse. I explained to him that although I was happy to give blowjobs, I'm not gonna do them constantly as its not always pleasant.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I am not mainstream. I believe Cunnilingus to be the end point of making out. While I believe intercourse should be delayed for good reasons, I do not oppose advancing into cunnilingus if a make out session affords it. A women can learn more about a man from a session of cunnilingus than from guarded conversation. Cunnilingus almost guarantees he LIKES you right from the start. If he steps into it with zero expectation of you giving oral back, a relationship looking a lot like "love at first sight" can actually happen.

    When I did exactly this with a girl, going to passionate oral sex, she sat back afterward, blinking, and said: "Geez! You must really LIKE me!" I said: "You noticed."

  • im not really fussed about getting sucked off... its nice ocassionally but i dont expect it... i would however be dissapointed if she didn't like me licking her as part of any sex session

    • Why disappointed?

    • because i love going down on a woman and giving her pleasure that way... i gain pleasure from it myself fo that reason

Most Helpful Girls

  • i had an 8 year relationship where my boyfriend only received blowjobs he thought giving was gross and disgusting... but you get used to it and he loved his blowjobs sometimes on the weekend he'd get 5 a day and all without receprication... although he was very good with $$$ he'd buy anything I wanted and/or needed

  • oral on girls - nay
    oral on boys - nay

    my life is so much easier when I don't have to humiliate myself to doing things that are detrimental to my health.

    • ... and no, of course I am not expecting anything from either girls or boys.

    • Do you find it arkward telling partners your boundary?

    • No, it is better to be open from the start rather than to be giving a false impression and then be disappointed or worse, angry.

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  • Yay. Absolutely. If she enjoys oral, I'm more than happy to oblige. Anything that makes her O is my pleasure. :-)

  • Yay. I think oral should be both ways. It is wrong for a guy to expect it from a gal, but not do it to her. Besides, I find giving it to her extremely arousing to me.

  • Complete and utter nay. Ugh.

    • Do you object to all oral?

    • Not at all, I just don't personally like it for myself.

  • Yay, I love to give and receive. Fun times!

  • I will always give my guy oral whether he does or not, but I'm not sure I'd stay in a relationship with a guy who didn't do oral on me.

  • I love giving oral

  • Yay and by culture I know many from the Caribbean have that type of mindset of not giving head but receiving it

    • Never realised that could be a cultural mindset

    • Well off it can as with anything that becomes the norm within a culture off its not what everyone thinks but I have seen it from a majority of guys from there in the UK at least

  • Yay...

  • It’s a yay for me. :) I personally enjoy it. I don’t need it reciprocated but it’s always nice.

    • Also welcome to gag :)

  • I love giving and receiving. So yay

  • Never done it... my exes, one didn't do oral either way and the other did give head but never wanted it reciprocated

  • Yes, I love giving a woman oral. It's a turn on for me.

  • No longer sexually active , as I 'm a single dad , but was always more than willing to give in the past... but did NOT want to receive , never liked BJ's.

  • As long as she is clean down there and likes it, why not? Xd

  • Yay cause why not

  • I absolutely enjoy giving oral. Just about as much as I enjoy receiving it.

  • No and no; too disgusting for my taste and a deal-breaker for me.

    • So you oppose all oral? Why do you feel its disgusting? (curiosity, not shaming)

    • Because the whole idea of mouth on genitals revolts me.

  • I love going down on girls. 😜😎

  • I love giving oral and kinda expect BJs

  • @Ellenrocks2001 depends on the girl but if she is as cute as you then yeah ill give her oral? do u like getting oral? also can u explain by "its not always pleasant"? what makes it pleasant and not pleasant for u?

    • Oral can be fun to give but like anything sexual you have to be in the mood. And I have also had bruising due to guys not being careful, so there's the health element to it

    • @Ellenrocks2001 yeah true mood is important. what gets u in the mood or triggers you? what kinda dick u like? wow bruising? you need a better man lol.

    • @Ellenrocks2001 can u follow me back?

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