Oral on Girls, Yay or Nay?

Question

If Nay, do you expect blowjobs?
So I have encountered guys who have said they do not really like performing oral. Which is of course okay, however one of them not only told me this after I'd given him a blowjob, he automatically assumed I would never refuse. I explained to him that although I was happy to give blowjobs, I'm not gonna do them constantly as its not always pleasant.

Answer 1

Dargil | 30.1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

I am not mainstream. I believe Cunnilingus to be the end point of making out. While I believe intercourse should be delayed for good reasons, I do not oppose advancing into cunnilingus if a make out session affords it. A women can learn more about a man from a session of cunnilingus than from guarded conversation. Cunnilingus almost guarantees he LIKES you right from the start. If he steps into it with zero expectation of you giving oral back, a relationship looking a lot like "love at first sight" can actually happen.

When I did exactly this with a girl, going to passionate oral sex, she sat back afterward, blinking, and said: "Geez! You must really LIKE me!" I said: "You noticed."

Answer 2

wankiam | 8.8K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

im not really fussed about getting sucked off... its nice ocassionally but i dont expect it... i would however be dissapointed if she didn't like me licking her as part of any sex session

Ellenrocks2001

1 y
Why disappointed?
wankiam

1 y
because i love going down on a woman and giving her pleasure that way... i gain pleasure from it myself fo that reason

Answer 3

Ellenrocks2001

Why disappointed?

Answer 4

wankiam

because i love going down on a woman and giving her pleasure that way... i gain pleasure from it myself fo that reason

Answer 5

chrissykerdock | 1.6K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

i had an 8 year relationship where my boyfriend only received blowjobs he thought giving was gross and disgusting... but you get used to it and he loved his blowjobs sometimes on the weekend he'd get 5 a day and all without receprication... although he was very good with $$$ he'd buy anything I wanted and/or needed

Answer 6

SueShe | 4.4K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

oral on girls - nay
oral on boys - nay

my life is so much easier when I don't have to humiliate myself to doing things that are detrimental to my health.

SueShe

1 y
... and no, of course I am not expecting anything from either girls or boys.
Ellenrocks2001

1 y
Do you find it arkward telling partners your boundary?
SueShe

1 y
No, it is better to be open from the start rather than to be giving a false impression and then be disappointed or worse, angry.

Answer 7

SueShe

... and no, of course I am not expecting anything from either girls or boys.

Answer 8

Ellenrocks2001

Do you find it arkward telling partners your boundary?

Answer 9

SueShe

No, it is better to be open from the start rather than to be giving a false impression and then be disappointed or worse, angry.

Answer 10

boggboss | 5.9K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

Yay and by culture I know many from the Caribbean have that type of mindset of not giving head but receiving it

Ellenrocks2001

1 y
Never realised that could be a cultural mindset
boggboss

1 y
Well off it can as with anything that becomes the norm within a culture off its not what everyone thinks but I have seen it from a majority of guys from there in the UK at least

Answer 11

Ellenrocks2001

Never realised that could be a cultural mindset

Answer 12

boggboss

Well off it can as with anything that becomes the norm within a culture off its not what everyone thinks but I have seen it from a majority of guys from there in the UK at least

Answer 13

Red_Arrow | 9.7K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

Yay. I think oral should be both ways. It is wrong for a guy to expect it from a gal, but not do it to her. Besides, I find giving it to her extremely arousing to me.

Answer 14

DrippingHoney

Yoda

I will always give my guy oral whether he does or not, but I'm not sure I'd stay in a relationship with a guy who didn't do oral on me.

Answer 15

Lliam | 2.2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Yay. Absolutely. If she enjoys oral, I'm more than happy to oblige. Anything that makes her O is my pleasure. :-)

Answer 16

jamesgoldman | 825 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Never done it... my exes, one didn't do oral either way and the other did give head but never wanted it reciprocated

Answer 17

FatherJack | 1.5K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

No longer sexually active , as I 'm a single dad , but was always more than willing to give in the past... but did NOT want to receive , never liked BJ's.

Answer 18

jason222

Xper 6

@Ellenrocks2001 depends on the girl but if she is as cute as you then yeah ill give her oral? do u like getting oral? also can u explain by "its not always pleasant"? what makes it pleasant and not pleasant for u?

Ellenrocks2001

11 mo
Oral can be fun to give but like anything sexual you have to be in the mood. And I have also had bruising due to guys not being careful, so there's the health element to it
jason222

11 mo
@Ellenrocks2001 yeah true mood is important. what gets u in the mood or triggers you? what kinda dick u like? wow bruising? you need a better man lol.
jason222

11 mo
@Ellenrocks2001 can u follow me back?

Answer 19

Ellenrocks2001

Oral can be fun to give but like anything sexual you have to be in the mood. And I have also had bruising due to guys not being careful, so there's the health element to it

Answer 20

jason222

@Ellenrocks2001 yeah true mood is important. what gets u in the mood or triggers you? what kinda dick u like? wow bruising? you need a better man lol.

Answer 21

jason222

@Ellenrocks2001 can u follow me back?

Answer 22

John83 | 6.9K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Yes, I love giving a woman oral. It's a turn on for me.

Answer 23

Agape93 | 4.4K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

It’s a yay for me. :) I personally enjoy it. I don’t need it reciprocated but it’s always nice.

Agape93

1 y
Also welcome to gag :)

Answer 24

Agape93

Also welcome to gag :)

Answer 25

Dchrls78104 | 3K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

No and no; too disgusting for my taste and a deal-breaker for me.

Ellenrocks2001

11 mo
So you oppose all oral? Why do you feel its disgusting? (curiosity, not shaming)
Dchrls78104

11 mo
Because the whole idea of mouth on genitals revolts me.

Answer 26

Ellenrocks2001

So you oppose all oral? Why do you feel its disgusting? (curiosity, not shaming)

Answer 27

Dchrls78104

Because the whole idea of mouth on genitals revolts me.

Answer 28

605alt

Xper 1

I absolutely enjoy giving oral. Just about as much as I enjoy receiving it.

Answer 29

Silent_Eyes

Xper 7

As long as she is clean down there and likes it, why not? Xd

Answer 30

_Stefan_

Xper 3

I personally don't like it, so I don't expect any less. It definitely is nice when I get sucked on though 😉

Ellenrocks2001

1 y
Do you tell a girl you won't before or after things have started?
_Stefan_

1 y
When/if we get to that part. I normally just play with her using my hands for a bit...

Answer 31

Ellenrocks2001

Do you tell a girl you won't before or after things have started?

Answer 32

_Stefan_

When/if we get to that part. I normally just play with her using my hands for a bit...

Answer 33

dany018

Xper 4

Yay, I love to give and receive. Fun times!

Answer 34

jellyroo | 356 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 7

Complete and utter nay. Ugh.

Ellenrocks2001

1 y
Do you object to all oral?
jellyroo

1 y
Not at all, I just don't personally like it for myself.

Answer 35

Ellenrocks2001

Do you object to all oral?

Answer 36

jellyroo

Not at all, I just don't personally like it for myself.

Answer 37

Anonymous

i think if she is clean and shaved down there it should not be an issue for most guys

Ellenrocks2001

1 y
Some guys dont find it enjoyable, just as some girls find blowjobs unpleasant. I think its more each to their own

Answer 38

Ellenrocks2001

Some guys dont find it enjoyable, just as some girls find blowjobs unpleasant. I think its more each to their own

Answer 39

COMMODOREII | 14.2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

I love going down on girls. 😜😎

Answer 40

sahil77

Xper 4

Actually it depends on individual's

Answer 41

curiousmale1955 | 122 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 3

nothing better than eating pussy

Answer 42

Steve37

Yoda

I love giving oral and kinda expect BJs

Answer 43

Sarah_77

Xper 7

I love giving and receiving. So yay

Answer 44

thenewcollegestudent | 199 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 4

Yay. I like to give her oral😝

Answer 45

Avicenna | 6.2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

Yay...

Answer 46

hemo821 | 57 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 4

Yay cause why not

Answer 47

bananathunder | 3.6K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

yay alllll day lol

Answer 48

FrenchyRomain

Guru

100% yay

Answer 49

R4vedave | 1.5K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

I love giving oral

Answer 50

Slim57 | 4.4K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Of course

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