Is it normal to be frustrated because you can't masturbate?

- Reading your conversation below, I believe that if you don't want to masturbate and you don't want to have sex, you may be sol at the moment. I'd recommend, though, to at least try and open yourself up to new relationship experiences and you may be able to find someone (s) to help fulfill the desires with or without the commitment depending on how you feel on the subject0|00|0Is this still revelant?
If you aren't interested in relationships, then there are definitely many people that reciprocate this feeling and would be willing to have a no connections hookup with you. And if you're just super opposed to this, then you can try taking a week long break from masturbation, or try new ways of masturbating. Try and buy some new toys, explore new fetishes and find what you do and don't like. Sexuality is more complicated than "masturbation and orgasm"
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It's not like I masturbate often, the last time I tried was probably some time last year. The main thing that makes me frustrated is that I desire the touch of someone else, but I can't get that. I'm not really attracted to people, like at all. I don't want any toys. I want to feel someone's body on mine and that's why it's frustrating
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If all you want is the physical touch of someone, you could definitely find someone to cuddle with. Cuddling is great and I guarantee there's plenty of people in your community who would be glad to give you the attention you desire :)
You could always get a weighted blanket and a body pillow, it helps many people feel like they're being held when they're uninterested or too shy to interact with real people
Don't knock it until you try it, sometimes the most unorthodox methods end up working the best
- why would a female need or want a sex doll?
ur a girl... ur attractive... jus go out the front door and ask any guy to fuck u,.. and u will have urself a fuck... 1 that is real0|00|0Is this still revelant?u even said ur frustrated it doesn't feel real so i dont understand why u would prefer plastic to the real thing
well i can't help u, u are complaining that ur plastic doesn't feel as good as the real thing, but u also dont want the real thing... the only option u have is to continue to do what u do or try to find some sort of advanced doll that feels more realistic
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and how is having sex with a random any more disgusting than having it with a sex doll anyway?
when u first bought the doll u didn't know who he was, he was jus some stranger,,, and u had sex with it...
but if all of a sudden u replaced it with a real human it becomes disgusting to you... why?
whats the difference?u even said u wish sex dolls were advanced enough to where it feels like a real person.
but if it was a real person.. u wouldn't like it?
wtf? that makes no sense, literallyso u dont want to have sex with a real guy,
u jus want to have sex with some masturbatory aid that feels realthat kinda baffles me that u wanna have sex with a doll that looks and feels so much like a real guy,
but you dont wanna make that leap from doll to human, i dont think there would be really much difference and the real real thing would be better than a very real doll... but each to their own i guess, if that is what u want ,, your choicewell a real penis could also used for masturbation, u dont have to get pregnant,
you could also say that masturbating with a dildo is having sex... cos you are basically fucking yourself with an artifical limb... but ok whatever u say loli was gonna say that no girl is so unnatractive that u can get no guy to **** you,
u may see yourself as unnatractive n can't get the real thing, but trust me some guy somewhere would love to do that with you,
jus being female makes u attractive, i would **** you, i dont care if you're ugly or not great looking, lol, every female is hot to me,
but i dont think you would like to do that with me lolok i dont understand that because u also dont know the sex doll, as the doll has no personality and, u may create what he's like in ur head, but u dont really know him,
i dont understand that difference between a doll and real human since u dont know both and could learn from the real human,,, but ok... if u only want to fuck dolls and not human then that is finejus know i would love to fulfil ur desire fantasy of where ur naked with a guy and he's on top of me and u are grinding our privates together,,,, i would love to do that if u want... we dont have to know each other, its jus for the pleasure n good feeling... thats basically what masturbation is and u dont need to know the dolls personality cos he has none,
but if you dont want to then ok :) lol
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- Yes I'd love one that was better then a pillow
The best I get now is a fun sexting time. I rarely get me time. I don't have hours to get just the right spot. I wish a toy could just come over and do it with me.
I hope to find a new girl soon but still painfully single.0|00|0Is this still revelant?
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310- If you’re in the middle of it and keep getting interrupted yeah. That can be frustrating. If you physically can’t then definitely0|00|0
- You'll feel touched once you've experienced it... It's not only sex the love the feel the warmness the touch the smell everything has it's own pleasure0|00|0
- Why can't you masturbate if it doesn't feel good try getting your fingers wet and rub your clit0|00|0
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- Yes that is normal. Why can’t you masturbate though?0|00|0
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I’m sorry to hear that! That sucks! Tell me about your desire to mastrubate... why do you want to?
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- Not trolling.
Have you had any luck with toys?0|00|0But they are inanimate. You can't just lay back and be indulged Sexual intimacy can only come from another human being. But there are inexpensive devices now that are claimed to deliver an orgasm in minutes.
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I've taken an interest in these. The reviews are overwhelmingly favorable. Embedded in many are first time orgasms where the users thought they'd never have one. They are compact and inexpensive, if a little rattly. Perhaps a doll for fantasy effect augmented with one of these.
www.adameve.com/.../...next-generation-104151.aspx
The posting says 150,000 sold. They must be doing something right.
- no because i can masturbate xD0|00|0
- It is very frustration. Lol0|00|0
- Yes it is normal, why can't you masturbate?0|00|0
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- Normal! Absolutely!0|00|0
- Welcome to the club0|00|0
I do but it's not satisfying anymore, and the more I do it the more it gets boring and less pleasurable. I need my crush (or any woman at this point)
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