If you let a guy start to finger you, but then stop it almost immediately, would it still be considered cheating?

[Anonymous]

If you were chillin' with a guy, and the conversation was going a certain way and you were both turned on, and you let him touch you but you didn't reciprocate.. but you did let him put a finger inside, but then stopped it a moment later.
Is that still considered full on cheating?

[Napoli]

It depends on what you see as "full on cheating"
It's not the worst thing that can happen. If he barely had chance to get the tip wet before you stopped it, in your mind that was too far.

There are many people who get turned on by someone else, and maybe a little carried away who go a lot further. They not always admit it, but it happens.

The best thing you can take from this is to not let it happen again.

[noone89]

Yes girl, it’s not about just the fingers it’s also about you were still turned on talking with another man you wanted that shit girl soo yeah you’re majorly wrong for it. You deserve to get left tbh.

[RHK36]

Yes it's cheating. If you had a boyfriend and he started to get turned on by another girl he was "chillin" with and fingered her, would you think he cheated on you. From you chilling to getting hot and heavy before the fingering should have been the sign of "oh this is going too far". Yes fingering is crossing the line.

[Lliam]

Why would you be in that situation in the first place if you were in a relationship with someone else? If you were my girl, I would consider it cheating.

[Trolloween]

Yes you cheated on your boyfriend. Tell him the truth of what happened.

[AzureGirl]

Obviously.

[EriFrancis1994]

I think that's up to the individual. For me it would be.

I guess it also depends how you feel about it. If you feel guilty, then it's likely you think it was cheating

[R4vedave]

Of fucking course. You let it happen, jfc.

[BrexitAteMyLobster]

Yes, it's cheating. There is no two ways about it.

[Dargil]

Yes, it is. Cheating as also about intent. You let it get that far.

[idkwhattoputherelolz]

I don't consider that cheating

[idkwhattoputherelolz]

You stopped him so all is good

[Ripper_E]

Yes, because you allowed it.

[templar7188]

You cheated before he even touched you

[Asker]

Well no, because it's not like I went looking for it. There was no intent there before anything happened. There was a minute when I was caught in a moment, and then it was over.

[worldscolide]

Lol look at your mental gymnastics.. You can't accept responsibility loke most women..

[Asker]

@worldscolide I'm not saying that. It wasn't an excuse. It's just something that I don't know how it happened. It's not the "real" me... I don't go looking for that. It wasn't something that was even on my mind. ... I don't know. I just keep thinking about it.

[worldscolide]

All of that is what we in psychology call thinking errors.. It's irrelevant, what happened happened, you cheated, you need to deal with the consequences of that..

[worldscolide]

Uh yeah.. Any sex act outside of your relationship with someone else is cheating regardless of reciprocating.. Next time keep your damn legs closed.. Smh.. And you wonder why men don't trust women any more..

[genericname85]

well if cheating doesn't start with "touching someone elses genitals", then i don't know when...

[whitehide]

I'm not letting any guy finger me.
In all seriousness, you allowed it to happen, so yes, you cheated.

[Klitschko88]

Yes its cheating

[COMMODOREII]

You did stop yourself. I would say you were giving into temptation but stopped before it got too far. Thats good actually.

[Shamalien]

Of course it is cheating another man’s finger was inside u r u nuts?

[Twalli]

Letting him do it is cheating, if he does it unexpectedly and then you tell him to take it out then it's not even if you don't mind that he did it.

[Nigjt]

I would say yes because u let it happen in your mind as long as he didn't force u to let him.
God Bless

[andy530]

I mean your partner probably would want to know about that

[simplelikeme]

Absolutely, that's cheating.

[MissGeorgia]

Not really. She didn't get finger fucked by this guy, it was stopped before it could happen. It'as almost cheating it's not actual cheating

[simplelikeme]

He still slipped a finger in her for a second, it should not have happened at all. Yes really it's still cheating

[MissGeorgia]

If my partner told me that some girl had pulled his dick out and proceeded to do whatever, but he stopped it, I wouldn't be thinking "He cheated on me" , I'd think "He could have, but he didn't" but i get that people see cheating in different ways.

[simplelikeme]

If some chick pulled his dick out, that's already cheating. As soon as she reached for his pants he should have pushed her away. That's just how I look at it, I'm just old-fashioned LOL

[MissGeorgia]

I see what you mean, but there is temptation when inhibition is lowered, and going through with it then dealing with the consequences, and/or your conscience later, but then there is temptation, losing yourself in it, and still coming to your senses. I think it's probably even harder once you're through the gate. It's forgivable. That's just what I think. I knows it's not for everyone.

[simplelikeme]

I have been lied and cheated to several times. So for that I have zero tolerance LOL I'm truly a good man I would never want to mess something up that was good. Even if I didn't think she would find out, is still wouldn't happen in any way because I'm a true man that respects women, i grew up with 3 sisters lol

[MissGeorgia]

I'm sorry to hear that happened. I hope you find ( or have) a good woman. There are many out there, honestly.

[simplelikeme]

I know there is, I'm just being patient for the right one.:-) don't worry about it things happen lol I keep plugging along

[MissGeorgia]

The right person will make it all worth it. It sounds cliche, but it's true

[simplelikeme]

Agreed...

[engel23]

Yes is cheating