Why do most men believe all women want to be sexually submissive and have masochistic tendencies?

Question

It seems to be what they think they will want when they find the "right man"... 🤔

Answer 1

hellionthesagereborn | 1.7K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Well, according to surveys and data 70% of women have a rape fantasy and 80% of violent porn (rape/forced sex, gangbangs, bdsm etc.) are consumed by women not men. So technically having that assumption isn't incorrect. Obviously that isn't every woman but it is the overwhelming majority.

Answer 2

Anonymous

Luckily I'm not most men... I spend the rest of my life being a dominant leader with negotiations and sales along with the protective demeanor I carry publicly so I draw back in relationships as it is easier to find a motivated woman

Answer 3

Disguise

Xper 7

Because its Man instinct.
And it is correct. (With right man)

But i dont know about those tendencies...

Asker

11 mo
Nothing correct about it.
You believe it is. That's it
Disguise

11 mo
I dont believe it.
I can make it happen.

The word ' believe' you used is not strong enough.
Asker

11 mo
Make what happen?
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Disguise

11 mo
Make any kind of women submissive.
(Not forcefully ofc!)
Asker

11 mo
Well you won't LMAO
Disguise

11 mo
I know i can.

But i have other priorities...
Asker

11 mo
Just admit you can't 😄
Disguise

11 mo
Sorry i cannot admit something as false, which i know for sure.
Asker

11 mo
No proof though ha ha!
Disguise

11 mo
If you were to meet me, i could have changed your mind.
(Looking forward...)

Also spending that much energy & time on some women who does not mean a lot to me is worthless.
It is not a competition you see; coz such women i intend to make my own.
Asker

11 mo
You wouldn't
End of the story
Disguise

11 mo
If that satisfies you...
Asker

11 mo
It does
Hasta la vista baby !
Disguise

11 mo
So be it.

And i dont know what is that second sentence.

Answer 4

Asker

Nothing correct about it.
You believe it is. That's it

Answer 5

Disguise

I dont believe it.
I can make it happen.

The word ' believe' you used is not strong enough.

Answer 6

Asker

Make what happen?

Answer 7

Disguise

Make any kind of women submissive.
(Not forcefully ofc!)

Answer 8

Asker

Well you won't LMAO

Answer 9

Disguise

I know i can.

But i have other priorities...

Answer 10

Asker

Just admit you can't 😄

Answer 11

Disguise

Sorry i cannot admit something as false, which i know for sure.

Answer 12

Asker

No proof though ha ha!

Answer 13

Disguise

If you were to meet me, i could have changed your mind.
(Looking forward...)

Also spending that much energy & time on some women who does not mean a lot to me is worthless.
It is not a competition you see; coz such women i intend to make my own.

Answer 14

Asker

You wouldn't
End of the story

Answer 15

Disguise

If that satisfies you...

Answer 16

Asker

It does
Hasta la vista baby !

Answer 17

Disguise

So be it.

And i dont know what is that second sentence.

Answer 18

OneManOnly

Xper 5

I’m into dominant ones but there’s very few of them in number

Asker

11 mo
So what?
OneManOnly

11 mo
So it’s hard to find them
Asker

11 mo
I happen to be one of them and I'm tired of this assumption that *all women are sub*. Not true, some are dominant and some are purely vanilla.
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OneManOnly

11 mo
It’s good that your kind exists
Asker

11 mo
Thanks
OneManOnly

11 mo
Welcome any time

Answer 19

Asker

So what?

Answer 20

OneManOnly

So it’s hard to find them

Answer 21

Asker

I happen to be one of them and I'm tired of this assumption that *all women are sub*. Not true, some are dominant and some are purely vanilla.

Answer 22

OneManOnly

It’s good that your kind exists

Answer 23

Asker

Thanks

Answer 24

OneManOnly

Welcome any time

Answer 25

FakeName123 | 3.6K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Because the majority of women _DO_ have sexually submissive fantasies.

Answer 26

hemo821 | 57 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 4

Its their DNA they wanna be dominant, frankly i dont care either way like you do you baby girl imma chill

Asker

11 mo
Very uninteresting answer
hemo821

11 mo
Well whats an interesting answer?
Asker

11 mo
One that provides clarification on the topic, which is not what you've done.
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hemo821

11 mo
Ay ya yay
Look guys are hardwired by mother nature to be dominant, and the social viewpoint on guys demands that guys be dominant in all aspects thats why guys are competitive... also we can see from history that men tend to always want to be more dominant in all aspects like in wars, Olympics , sports in general etc etc
Asker

11 mo
This doesn't answer the question.

Answer 27

Asker

Very uninteresting answer

Answer 28

hemo821

Well whats an interesting answer?

Answer 29

Asker

One that provides clarification on the topic, which is not what you've done.

Answer 30

hemo821

Ay ya yay
Look guys are hardwired by mother nature to be dominant, and the social viewpoint on guys demands that guys be dominant in all aspects thats why guys are competitive... also we can see from history that men tend to always want to be more dominant in all aspects like in wars, Olympics , sports in general etc etc

Answer 31

Asker

This doesn't answer the question.

Answer 32

Steve37

Yoda

I don't think most men believe that but those that do are heavily influenced by things like 50 Shades of Grey.

Answer 33

Juxtapose | 2.3K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Most women are like that.

Trust me, I'm into dommies, I *WANT* more dominant women.

Asker

11 mo
I happen to be one of them and I'm tired of the assumption that since I'm a girl, I'm a sub. That's really annoying...
Juxtapose

11 mo
People love to generalize, but it's intellectually lazy to make assumptions.
Asker

11 mo
What kinda stuff are you into btw?
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Juxtapose

11 mo
Being sat on, talked down to (within reason), spanked, tickled, "blackmailed", forced to cum inside and then made to eat my own cum, bondage, leash play, etc.

Yourself?
Asker

11 mo
Body worship, bondage, hypersexuality/chastity, spanking, slapping, flapping, petplay, Waxplay, ravishment play, confinement, service, objectif cation, latex/leather, knifeplay, scratching, biting, hair pulling,...
Juxtapose

11 mo
A lot of what you listed sounds prettt fun! Especially bondage, pet play and ravishment.

I imagine ravishment scenarios where I am blackmailed into it and slowly seduced and broken into the dommie's adored pet.
Juxtapose

11 mo
*pretty fun
Asker

11 mo
I know 😌

Answer 34

Asker

I happen to be one of them and I'm tired of the assumption that since I'm a girl, I'm a sub. That's really annoying...

Answer 35

Juxtapose

People love to generalize, but it's intellectually lazy to make assumptions.

Answer 36

Asker

What kinda stuff are you into btw?

Answer 37

Juxtapose

Being sat on, talked down to (within reason), spanked, tickled, "blackmailed", forced to cum inside and then made to eat my own cum, bondage, leash play, etc.

Yourself?

Answer 38

Asker

Body worship, bondage, hypersexuality/chastity, spanking, slapping, flapping, petplay, Waxplay, ravishment play, confinement, service, objectif cation, latex/leather, knifeplay, scratching, biting, hair pulling,...

Answer 39

Juxtapose

A lot of what you listed sounds prettt fun! Especially bondage, pet play and ravishment.

I imagine ravishment scenarios where I am blackmailed into it and slowly seduced and broken into the dommie's adored pet.

Answer 40

Juxtapose

*pretty fun

Answer 41

Asker

I know 😌

Answer 42

boredhubby2020

Xper 2

We don't just hope you be submissive every now and then I would be submissive to the right woman

Asker

11 mo
This is not the question

Answer 43

Asker

This is not the question

Answer 44

Dargil | 30K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

I disagree with the premise.

Answer 45

Ripper_E | 5K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

I don't assume anything about a woman's desires.

Answer 46

Suhailadil89

Xper 5

Wrong question since it has the wrong assumption.

Asker

11 mo
What's the "correct assumption" then?
Suhailadil89

11 mo
Most men dont think that all women want to be submissive and masochistic
Asker

11 mo
You probably don't
It doesn't mean others don't though
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Suhailadil89

11 mo
Not a single person here said so.. that negates ur assumption of most men
Asker

11 mo
Based on such a small sample lol?
by the way some definitely say they believe so. Read better.
Suhailadil89

11 mo
There u go.. u just said it.."some" say.. ofc some will say.. why do u wana be a sub so bad
Asker

11 mo
Who said that?
Suhailadil89

11 mo
You... just in ur last comment..
"Based on such a small sample lol?
by the way some definitely say they believe so. Read better."
So u see... at least i have a sample size... u dont even have that to base ur claim.. and you yourself said "some" believe so... ofc some will believe so.. there are some in every aspect of life who are different than the masses.

Answer 47

Asker

What's the "correct assumption" then?

Answer 48

Suhailadil89

Most men dont think that all women want to be submissive and masochistic

Answer 49

Asker

You probably don't
It doesn't mean others don't though

Answer 50

Suhailadil89

Not a single person here said so.. that negates ur assumption of most men

Answer 51

Asker

Based on such a small sample lol?
by the way some definitely say they believe so. Read better.

Answer 52

Suhailadil89

There u go.. u just said it.."some" say.. ofc some will say.. why do u wana be a sub so bad

Answer 53

Asker

Who said that?

Answer 54

Suhailadil89

You... just in ur last comment..
"Based on such a small sample lol?
by the way some definitely say they believe so. Read better."
So u see... at least i have a sample size... u dont even have that to base ur claim.. and you yourself said "some" believe so... ofc some will believe so.. there are some in every aspect of life who are different than the masses.

Answer 55

stuntbrain | 684 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

It's your story, go ahead and tell it

Asker

11 mo
Boring answer
stuntbrain

11 mo
It not easy to spin shitty questions into golden answers
Asker

11 mo
Then don't answer. That spares time for everyone.

Answer 56

Asker

Boring answer

Answer 57

stuntbrain

It not easy to spin shitty questions into golden answers

Answer 58

Asker

Then don't answer. That spares time for everyone.

Answer 59

Anonymous

Why do most women act sexually submissive?

Asker

11 mo
It's not the question
Opinion Owner

11 mo
So you can stereotype but I can't?
Asker

11 mo
I've just said it wasn't the question. If you have something to ask just ask your own question.
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Opinion Owner

11 mo
So you can stereotype openly but I can't?
Asker

11 mo
Ask your own question if you have any
Opinion Owner

11 mo
Stop stereotyping
Asker

11 mo
Don't answer questions you don't wanna answer.

Answer 60

Asker

It's not the question

Answer 61

Opinion Owner

So you can stereotype but I can't?

Answer 62

Asker

I've just said it wasn't the question. If you have something to ask just ask your own question.

Answer 63

Opinion Owner

So you can stereotype openly but I can't?

Answer 64

Asker

Ask your own question if you have any

Answer 65

Opinion Owner

Stop stereotyping

Answer 66

Asker

Don't answer questions you don't wanna answer.

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