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How often do you talk about sex with your (real life) same-gender friends?

I have been becoming more social as I've been living in a dorm. One thing I've found disconcerting is that people are always talking about sex. I don't mind so much overhearing it - I actually find it interesting (for the same reason I post so many sex questions here on GAG).

But it's awkward when I'm expected to be part of the conversation. I don't know what to say because I have no personal experience. So I just say nothing, smile and laugh when expected, & count minutes until I can make an excuse to leave.

I noticed that a lot of the people always talking about sex are girls. My male friend didn't start talking about sex until female friends brought it up. But maybe he didn't bring it up first because he didn't want to seem like he was hitting on us. Maybe men talk about sex more often with other men than they do with women.

So how often do you discuss sex with your same-gender friends (in real life)?
How often do you talk about sex with your (real life) same-gender friends?
I don't have any same-gender friends in real life
Vote A
Whenever I spend time with my same-gender friends, we always talk about sex
Vote B
We usually talk about sex
Vote C
We've talk about sex during roughly half the times we have hung out
Vote D
We sometimes talk about it
Vote E
We rarely talk about it
Vote F
We never talk about it
Vote G
Select gender and age to cast your vote:
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Keep in mind that it's university, a place where many kids get their first taste of freedom.
    Also, most of what people know is based on porn, romance novels, personal history and hearsay. If you can chip in with some stats, they may learn more reliable stuff.

    For me, it depends on the friend. A handful of same-gender coworkers point out hot people as a way to find common ground with me. It's also popular when chatting at parties.
    Among my closer friends, one talks about it a lot, and the others never mention it.
    I voted F.

  • Honestly, I feel like that's all that makes life worth living. That and SIX FLAGS MAGIC MOUNTAIN!!
    My point here is, and I heard this in one of Drake's songs, "there isn't much to do but fu*k." We as a whole society have barely touched the surface on having fun as an adult. Most adults just love drinking and fu*k! ng. I suppose that the majority thinks this is cool and/or a requirement to being human. I live in America, and my culture is completely lost. I could only imagine how this affect us as a while spices.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Pretty much all the time me and my bestie are both single and always talk about how horny we are and the think we miss the most about men is the dick and sex

  • Whenever we are together Sex comes up at some point.

    • Thank you for MHO.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Almost all the time

  • I am more inclined to talk about sex with an opposite gender friend.

  • More often than not. Sex is an interesting topic.

  • I dunno if it is just me but I find my friends never talk about sex unless in banter terms usually putting ourselves as object of the joke. I always thought the detailed discussion of sex was a female thing.

  • Me and the homies do share the data in the war room if things are heating up for one of us and needs some solid intel.

  • Wow seven options for a yes or no question. That’s a personal best for you, right?

  • Daily

  • Whenever one of us has a fun or good story yes

  • A fair amount. Swapping stories and advice on the matter is pretty common when it comes to my girlfriend's.

  • Funny, most of my friends (a group of 7) are virgins but they're always talking about sex. That's all I mostly hear in the PS4 party chat.

  • The guys don't talk about it because they're more likely to be virgins. Fact.

    Upper-middle class college girls are the most spoiled group of all time.

    • Most people in my college aren't upper-middle class

  • Often, and I usually end up blowing them.

  • Sex often comes into conversations everytime I meet them to talk with..

  • The subject isn't taboo, we just are usually talking about others things, usually either our latest doctor visits or our volunteering at various places.

  • Almost evertime.. there will be at least one friend in our life where we share everything with him/her and with him I share everything and in total we are 5 best friends like brothers and other 3 friends will be like you two are very nasty and we will be like

    We are just sexually aroused in talkative manner not practically unless we Will get married to our future wife's who ever they may be 😁😁😂😂😋

  • I've been naked nude around my two friend's but I don't talked about my sex life with my two friend's. 💞

  • Only in a joking matter. But never a serious conversation. We just respect our boundaries and privacy. Besides what is there to talk about? It would just sound like we would try to compensate for something.

  • Quite often,

  • I almost never talk about sex with my male friends, for several reasons:

    1) They all know I'm a virgin, so I haven't joined the "club" yet. So I don't "deserve" to hear about those types of things.
    2) We're modest and reserved, and we don't think it's an appropriate topic of conversation.
    3) The types of people who brag about their "conquests" are not the types of people I hang out with anyway.

  • Same gender friends. Usually never. Opposite gender friends all the time. Lol

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