Is it unattractive for a female to publicly talk about sex?

I am very open with my sex life and any question my friends have, i have no problem with telling. Sometimes i feel like i might overshare and / or turn a lot of good guys away because of how openly i discuss it. Thoughts?
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  • I find it extremely attractive when a woman will talk openly about sex. It shows confidence and security with her own sexuality and who she is as a sexual being.

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  • Not particularly unattractive but time and place is always important for any topic and there's always a limit to a good or bad duration of a topic.

    • Of course i agree 100%. When i say i discuss openly i don't mean in public environments i mean im open to answering my friends questions

    • Oh true, the only time I've had an issue personally is when I confide it in someone like a partner and they blab about it to all their friends with the excuse "we tell each other everything, that's what girls do". But that's more of a lack of consideration for a partners feelings.

    • Yeah that's understandable, if one partner isn't okay with it being shared then it should stay private in my opinion

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  • No way! Being able to be open with your sexuality, connects you better with yourself. I would use my 'inside' voice and not yell it out to the world and make a spectacle of myself, but my girl crew and I always talking sex, sexuality, relationships, dating etc

    • Thank you so much for your response! I agree with not saying it too loudly or in public environments though

  • There are places and times that being so open would not be right. For instance church or the PTA meeting. That would be embarrassing, so it would be oversharing and turning guys away. But in the right settings, especially just the two of us, the more open the better. I love hearing her thoughts, desires, feelings about stuff.

    • I agree. Thank you for your response

  • In the right environment it’s ok, just like it’s ok for a guy to be open sexually. Obviously there are social situations where that content is inappropriate.

    • Thank you for your input, i couldn't agree more

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  • I find it unappealing.

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  • Im the same to be honest, I think its a good thing though. Some of them might think its too much information but id rather too much than not enough lol

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  • I think its fine actually

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  • Yes it's gross.

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  • Yes.

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  • No it is not. She has every right to talk about sex as anyone else.

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  • It is pre unnattractive in my opinion to blab about intimate moments that r sposed to be between you and your partner

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  • Say say let me say this if a girl wants to talk about sex openly an a Man has a problem with it then he is not for show about his manhood at lest not to me he is not an I would laugh in his face about it.
    God Bless

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  • its a little gross, but... u know what,
    i am always complaining how girls aren't sexual enuff,
    i think id jus prefer it more if u girls jus rode us more instead of speaking about it often

    • That's fair, thanks for answering the question

    • lmao, no problemo

    • u know what actually, fuck it, talk sexual all u want, i dont really care tbh lol

  • I talk about it or not and love sexting so I would be a hypocrite

    • That's fair enough then