Is it unattractive for a female to publicly talk about sex?

Question

I am very open with my sex life and any question my friends have, i have no problem with telling. Sometimes i feel like i might overshare and / or turn a lot of good guys away because of how openly i discuss it. Thoughts?

Answer 1

andy530 | 4.4K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

I find it extremely attractive when a woman will talk openly about sex. It shows confidence and security with her own sexuality and who she is as a sexual being.

Asker

1 y
Woah i love this response, thanks so much
andy530

1 y
Ha I’m glad you agree 😊
andy530

1 y
Thanks for selecting most helpful 😊

Answer 2

Asker

Woah i love this response, thanks so much

Answer 3

andy530

Ha I’m glad you agree 😊

Answer 4

andy530

Thanks for selecting most helpful 😊

Answer 5

Honest-Matt | 138 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Explorer

Not particularly unattractive but time and place is always important for any topic and there's always a limit to a good or bad duration of a topic.

Asker

1 y
Of course i agree 100%. When i say i discuss openly i don't mean in public environments i mean im open to answering my friends questions
Honest-Matt

1 y
Oh true, the only time I've had an issue personally is when I confide it in someone like a partner and they blab about it to all their friends with the excuse "we tell each other everything, that's what girls do". But that's more of a lack of consideration for a partners feelings.
Asker

1 y
Yeah that's understandable, if one partner isn't okay with it being shared then it should stay private in my opinion

Answer 6

Asker

Of course i agree 100%. When i say i discuss openly i don't mean in public environments i mean im open to answering my friends questions

Answer 7

Honest-Matt

Oh true, the only time I've had an issue personally is when I confide it in someone like a partner and they blab about it to all their friends with the excuse "we tell each other everything, that's what girls do". But that's more of a lack of consideration for a partners feelings.

Answer 8

Asker

Yeah that's understandable, if one partner isn't okay with it being shared then it should stay private in my opinion

Answer 9

bella4eva | 70 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 5

No way! Being able to be open with your sexuality, connects you better with yourself. I would use my 'inside' voice and not yell it out to the world and make a spectacle of myself, but my girl crew and I always talking sex, sexuality, relationships, dating etc

Asker

1 y
Thank you so much for your response! I agree with not saying it too loudly or in public environments though

Answer 10

Asker

Thank you so much for your response! I agree with not saying it too loudly or in public environments though

Answer 11

Red_Arrow | 9.7K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

There are places and times that being so open would not be right. For instance church or the PTA meeting. That would be embarrassing, so it would be oversharing and turning guys away. But in the right settings, especially just the two of us, the more open the better. I love hearing her thoughts, desires, feelings about stuff.

Asker

1 y
I agree. Thank you for your response

Answer 12

Asker

I agree. Thank you for your response

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ecfresh | 4.6K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

In the right environment it’s ok, just like it’s ok for a guy to be open sexually. Obviously there are social situations where that content is inappropriate.

Asker

1 y
Thank you for your input, i couldn't agree more
ecfresh

1 y
You are welcome.

Answer 14

Asker

Thank you for your input, i couldn't agree more

Answer 15

ecfresh

You are welcome.

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Haelaeix123 | 1.9K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

Im the same to be honest, I think its a good thing though. Some of them might think its too much information but id rather too much than not enough lol

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1 y
Thank you for your response

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Asker

Thank you for your response

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Nigjt | 2.1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Explorer

Say say let me say this if a girl wants to talk about sex openly an a Man has a problem with it then he is not for show about his manhood at lest not to me he is not an I would laugh in his face about it.
God Bless

Asker

1 y
Thanks for responding

Answer 19

Asker

Thanks for responding

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Shamalien | 2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

It is pre unnattractive in my opinion to blab about intimate moments that r sposed to be between you and your partner

Asker

1 y
Thank you for your opinion and answering the question honestly

Answer 21

Asker

Thank you for your opinion and answering the question honestly

Answer 22

COMMODOREII | 14.2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

No it is not. She has every right to talk about sex as anyone else.

Asker

1 y
Thank you for responding

Answer 23

Asker

Thank you for responding

Answer 24

Anonymous

its a little gross, but... u know what,
i am always complaining how girls aren't sexual enuff,
i think id jus prefer it more if u girls jus rode us more instead of speaking about it often

Asker

1 y
That's fair, thanks for answering the question
Opinion Owner

1 y
lmao, no problemo
Opinion Owner

1 y
u know what actually, fuck it, talk sexual all u want, i dont really care tbh lol

Answer 25

Asker

That's fair, thanks for answering the question

Answer 26

Opinion Owner

lmao, no problemo

Answer 27

Opinion Owner

u know what actually, fuck it, talk sexual all u want, i dont really care tbh lol

Answer 28

Anonymous

I talk about it or not and love sexting so I would be a hypocrite

Asker

1 y
That's fair enough then

Answer 29

Asker

That's fair enough then

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Dargil | 30.1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

I find it unappealing.

Asker

1 y
I appreciate your honesty

Answer 31

Asker

I appreciate your honesty

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Luna1998 | 777 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Explorer

I think its fine actually

Asker

1 y
Thank you for your response

Answer 33

Asker

Thank you for your response

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MackToday | 1.6K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Yes it's gross.

Asker

1 y
Thank you for your response and for sharing your opinion

Answer 35

Asker

Thank you for your response and for sharing your opinion

Answer 36

TwoToTooTutu2 | 350 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Explorer

Yes.

Asker

1 y
Thanks for your response
TwoToTooTutu2

1 y
You are welcome

Answer 37

Asker

Thanks for your response

Answer 38

TwoToTooTutu2

You are welcome

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