Ok, this is for everyone who knows, thinks, or just wants to add on?

[Am_and_Pm]

Who thinks sleeping around with people is completely natural? Who thinks it isn't something that people should practice (for the best outcome of society?). Any additional content is welcome. And, Go🤭 Kidding. Though, I could use the help. I feel like I'm living with this duality that guys should and guys shouldn't be man whores and just settle for that one girl that took his breath away, so the next generation can find someone on their first try. The first try could last as long as it needs in order to happen. Or maybe, its just the people who need to practice sex with multiple people to control their desires in the near future. Any romantics or single people want to bud in?

[mrfoox]

I believe in the whole... People can do as they please. As long as they feel at peace with themselves in the end (and all parties involved consent and are by age etc). I personally won't engage in that type of thing though. I only ever wanted to sleep with people I have a connection with, I don't consider it until I feel the connection. I only want to show myself and be vulnerable in that way with someone special to me

[meesegoMoo]

But what if the person you were with slept around? Would you still feel comfortable with a man whose had 20+ partners? Would you be worried about him cheating?

[mrfoox]

@meesegoMoo depending on age and character. Plus I ask everyone who aren't a virgin themselves, who I can see myself sleeping with in the future... If they'd mind taking an STD test. But generally nah, don't worry too much. Haven't seen anyone who have had more than 5 sex partners though

[meesegoMoo]

Things are a bit different with U. S men. At least with what they call "white trash".

[mrfoox]

@meesegoMoo I can't really speak for the US, just my own country. But I usually don't get too involved with people who have a vastly different lifestyle than me. Like party people, out drinking every other night or similar.

[meesegoMoo]

I understand. that's not a bad way to live. Where I am though, those people are unavoidable even if you only work with them.

[Anonymous]

I think people should have as much sex as possible before settling down.

[ND4SPD31]

I always feel bad for the girls who have only been with one guy sexually and then they get married and that’s it (long as she’s married and it lasts forever).

[Am_and_Pm]

That's nice, and I like the freedom u know. I would like to know when does someone settle down? Though, this might tag along a whole knew topic, I think I do want to know from ur perspective when one knows when to settle down when all they do ( or possibly know) is mess around.

[meesegoMoo]

Out of all whom I've met, those with that specific self-discipline are happier. They don't ever seek "strange", they don't even consider affairs. They force themselves to be attracted to only one, and are often appreciated for it.

Everyone else seems to either be running from their past once they get into a serious relationship, or they run back into it.

[Am_and_Pm]

Honestly, I think I can relate to people who try hard to stick with one person. As a young adult, it is tempting and taunting to ask every pretty girl for the number and go on dates. Though, it doesn't help that I live with the duality that it's okay to be free and helpful to the world that I dont go around looking for hook ups. Thanks for the help. 😏

[meesegoMoo]

What is helpful to you? When you do find a woman, one you deeply want to spend the rest of your life with, how will she feel? If she hasen't given her love to another, what would make her feel the best? She might accept you either way, but I definitely think there is something special about somebody who has only connected with one person, physically or otherwise.

[Disguise]

I think as a normal human, sex and such physical attachments should be made with particular partner lifelong.
It is unnatural and abnormal to sleep around.
It just means you can control yourself. You are getting struck in the cycle of wrong things.
One will always reap what they sow, no matter.

[Am_and_Pm]

Unnatural? I think "unnatural" is too much of an outline word to define what u r expressing. That is, females have a sex organs that have adapted to have multiple orgasms. This can be argued that they can have sex with multiple partners or have sex multiple times with the same partner.

[Am_and_Pm]

However, I am wondering and looking for y it would be considered "unnatural." May I have a good understanding on ur thoughts?

[meesegoMoo]

He's saying it's unnatural because monogamy has been something that has existed in every culture across the world. And when it's been thrown away, it's usually been done so by horny men. It's much better for women to be monogamous.

Only a couple of studies have been done on this, and they are incomplete in my view. Here's one: thefederalist.com/.../

[Disguise]

You guys are creating life as it seems easy and enjoyable to you. And you are well prepared to. tackle other points to satify your perception. I must say you must learn things and realise them properly. Human are most evolved creatures, not just because of dna or genes. The physical attachments always comes with a price. Everything you do will shape many things. Even the though of this disturbed my positive energy.😂 You need to realise why morals, ethics and culture are important. There are very good deep benefits from it, they were not just created by fools for controlling others. Sex is actually much more of a bigger thing than pleasure moment. You literally exchange your energy in that process. Your body tries to adjust to many things while that. I am not an expert to. tell you all these, but i have been studying and realising few things, and from my own experience i am sure such things are bad. I dont even know what all i just mixed up and how you will read it😂😂😂

[Iron_Man]

Sex should be done after marriage

[Am_and_Pm]

Yes, but y? If its because of religious beliefs, I don't see how it stands by a whole belief system when in religion beliefs it also says to be kind to ur neighbor. And I walk on the streets of my city and watch people ignoring homeless people. And then wealthier folks, treat low income folks as if they can not equals. Though, ur opinion may not be of religion origin. May I ask u y u think its important or necessary to have sex when one does get married?

[Iron_Man]

Religion and as far as ignoring homeless people I have given my share of money. Also as far as sex goes, People don't respect women that go around from guy too guy giving it up. I don't want to marry a woman like, that

[meesegoMoo]

Being kind and being enabling are different. When I know a poor man, even if he's not homeless, as long as he's clean (drug-wise) my effort is going to be towards helping him get a job. Paying for a shower, introducing him to people, stuff like that.

[Iron_Man]

Don't tell me your trying to discredit my work for the sake of a debate to try to build yourself up? You no nothing about me or all my works towards mankind that I have done

[meesegoMoo]

Not really responding to you so much as @Am_and_Pm. And helping the occasional dude out is in no way a brag. I think many folks would if given the opportunity. I live in a place with lots of available jobs.