Should I let my mom know what my younger sister was doing?

So my mom was deported so I'm raising / taking care of my younger sisters. last night when i got home form work i caught one of them having oral sex with her boyfriend. should i get my mom involved or just handle this issue myself?
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  • VOTE C : Inform her on birth control methods

    Millions of us have experimented with sex prior to becoming an adult.

    If she sticks to oral sex that is far preferable to getting pregnant.

    I would just warn her of all the reasons not get pregnant at a young age.

    Just telling her not to do anything will not solve the problem if she is determined to do it.

    Be a good sister and let her know how to do it safely or she'll end up like this...

    Should I let my mom know what my younger sister was doing?
    • So have the talk with her?

    • Yes, otherwise you will be taking care of, and supporting, her AND a new niece or nephew soon :) Just be sure she has access to, and is up to speed on, birth control of some kind just in case. Having a child too early in life causes many hardships for the whole family.

    • I don't know how to have the talk with her. i haven't even had jt with my daughter yet I know I had one at 17 and i couldn't do anything after it. i now work two jobs to sopurt my famiky.

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  • depends on her age... you should be glad it was oral sex and that's kind of expected if she's a teenager... tell her to keep it to oral sex and that's it.

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  • I say handle it yourself since after all you are the adult running the show now.

    your mom in the other hand can't do shit if she's deported. I think telling her will just cause more stress and agony in her life at the moment

  • Mind your own business. How old were YOU when you discovered the joy of giving blowjobs?

    • I was 13 but i ended up pregannt i don't want that for her

    • Ask your sister if she wants to end up with your problems. Telling on her will make things worse. We all must learn from our mistakes. Remember what kind of attitude you had at her age?

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  • Handle it. You are the adult care giver in charge.

  • The only time you should get her involved is if your sister is underage to the point where that wouldn't be something she should be doing.

  • What is her age?

    • She is 14

    • Ask yourself these questions. 1. How will telling mom make my sister's life better? She won't stop, she'll resent you and go underground. 2. How will it improve my life? It won't. You will lose your sister's trust and be responsible for hurting your mom. 3. How will it improve mom's life? It won't. It will hurt and she's helpless to do anything about it.

    • She can be inform that she active. Well maybe I sleep better at night. I don't know :/

  • Leave her alone and let her suck some dick

    • Okay :/

  • If you can handle it yourself do so but don't be afraid to include your mom

  • How old is this sister?

    • She 14

    • Younger than I think is appropriate, but not that incommon.

    • :/ i started at 14 ended up pregnant at 15

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  • How about let her run her own life. Oral sex ain't cocaine. Calm down a bit.

    • Well she 14 I don't want her making the same mistakes i made

    • she might like it, only people with mental retardation can't make the decision whether she wants to suck dick or not, jus cos ur too retarded to make that decision dont insult her and assume she also is

    • being 14 or 18 makes no difference in your decision making, they know what protected sex is at 13, and they also know at 18... what acquired knowledge after 14 could possibly change the ability of ur decision making

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  • Get on your knees and get his balls in your mouth

  • Talk to her. Tell her what is going to happen when girls and how there are called and if you don't do that used your self as example

    • Ill do that thanks

    • Used your self as an example but try to explain that you want her to study and get a good job so she doesn't have to work like you are. If she is having intercourse teach her to protect and get birth control

  • why get involved in their sex life?
    its personal and none of ur buisness

    • i mean what right do you have to tell pressumably 15 - 19 yr old girls what to do? u can't tell them what cocks they can and can't suck or ride... its their choice and none of ur goddamn buissness... wtf is the world coming to?

  • Get some pics for evidence and post them on here.

    • Perv

    • The perv is the man that wrote this retarded question. LOL

  • Leave her alone. Teach her, join in.

    • Why? Teach her? How Join in nah

    • Show her how to suck his dick.

    • His 14 im 29

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  • Get the police involved.

    • No cause i dont want them taking them away form me