What would you do if your girlfriend told you that she wants sex only AFTER marriage?

[DanaeAdam5]

[Lliam]

I'd find another girlfriend. I wouldn't mind if she wanted to date for a while (not too long) in order to determine if we really liked each other. But we'd have to have sex at some point before I would even consider marriage. Sex is a gift two people give to each other. It's not the price for marriage. I would want to know if we were sexually compatible. And I'm not into sexually up tight women.

[gagsucs]

marry her or cheat on her, depends if i love her or not

[Gavyn]

If you can’t take it, just end the relationship. That simple.

[gagsucs]

@Gavyn i might jus be in the relationship for sex and i dont love her, i dont have to leave the relationship if im still getting good sex for her, and she won't know i secretly dont love her... so i think i would stay in it

[gagsucs]

@Gavyn a lot of guys who have girlfriends dont actually love them but jus using them for sex

[gagsucs]

@Gavyn oh wait...

[Gavyn]

Keep it casual if you can’t keep it in a relationship. Also in the situation where no sex until marriage, you won’t be getting any. You’ll just be cheating like a jerk.

[gagsucs]

yeah, if i didn't feel she was my soul partner and she told me that then yeah actually i probably would jus leave

[Gavyn]

There you go. Lol. It’s just pointless inflicting of pain otherwise

[gagsucs]

@Gavyn yeah that would be pointless

[MrOracle]

We wouldn't have gotten that far. I'm not looking to get married (or have kids), and I discuss sex, along with a ton of other things, including life goals, before I commit to being in a relationship. Obviously the two of us would have some major incompatibilities, and so I'd have moved on before it got too serious.

[Regmorus]

totally support it, sex is not for fun or whatever else but for giving new life to the world

[Regmorus]

note: in my life, I'm far from judging someone else's

[Ianto]

If you don't think sex is fun you're doing it wrong.

[DanaeAdam5]

@lando 👍👍

[ohshee]

Well of course I would try to talk her in to it ,, I don't think I would last to long with out some form of cumming need to feel that and I would want her to feel it to weather it be me going down on her dry fucking with just underwear on fingering , her or masturbating in front of each other

[PassionPlaya]

I would wait , is there foreplay, oral or none? But yah, if I new I Loved Her, would be my pleasure and Proly Marry QUICKLY...
I would be playfully curious most the times just imagining her responses of What she would be like, HEY prepping her for them days would be ok, RIGHT? We could learn KamaSutra and have positions, flexible understanding and build Secure Partnering Stability before that time...
IT COULD BE GREAT!!! I Would love to Learn Her. Keeps Love Making and Love Lasting

[Apple1996]

Nah I wouldn't be down for waiting. I'm very impatient when it comes to sex, I need it pretty early on

[ChronicThinker]

If I were a man? I wouldn't date her PERSONALLY. I believe that you need to have a romantic and sexual connection with someone before you make such a big commitment like marriage. I also feel like that would just make a couple more likely to rush into marriage.

[Jjpayne]

I'd consider what that means to me. Am I willing to respect that and or love her that much to wait

[MrTuxedo]

No thanks. I break up with her.

[R4vedave]

I'd end the relationship. I don't believe in waiting until marriage. It's an insane, unwise decision in my opinion.

[Gavyn]

What about it is exactly unwise?

[Gavyn]

In fact, I daresay it’s wise. It teaches the ability to withhold oneself from pleasure, which is an essential life skill. You don’t have to think that’s how it should be done, but don’t call it unwise for poor reasons

[R4vedave]

I don't think you should be making a lifelong commitment when you don't know anything about your sexual interests, nor do you know if you're sexually compatible with the other person, and yet you're making a huge commitment. That, in my opinion, is extremely dumb. I do not belief relationships should be about "withholding pleasure", develop that skill on your own time, elsewhere in life. Don't open the cookie jar, turn down that offer of weed, whatever the fuck else ya wanna do, but don't bring that kind of mentality into a lifelong relationship, that's asinine.

[Gavyn]

“Sexually compatible?” What does that mean in the face of compromise, and actual love? If you ACTUALLY LOVE someone, you WILL find a way.

[Miristheiss]

That is what my wife said.
We are married.

[Reaperbot666]

most likely wait. but then would also want a clarification as to which sexual acts she wants to wait to do.

[DictumVeritas]

If she's still a virgin, respect her. She's a keeper! If she's not a virgin, run! Don't walk! Run Away!

[Agape93]

Tough shit then, not getting married in any case

[haleysalvigione2]

I would never thats to long to wait

[Alex_988_2]

ola chicko

[blutwolfe]

usually those couples get married after a couple months anyway, could of just had a normal relationship instead of rushing it but ok

[MannySimms]

I'd play "ditch the bitch". Why risk sexual incompatibility?

[pigoat]

I don't wanna get married so it's a deal breaker

[Laozi]

I had that girlfriend. And I respected her request.

[I_haveaquestion]

Men like you with respect for personal decisions make the world better. Thank you for respecting her. :)

[Laozi]

Yeah, things you do for love😊

[Nik1hil]

That's not possible.

Sex is physiological need..
Relationship is psychological need.
Marriage is social need..

According to maslow's-hierarchy-of-needs

This one..

You see Sex come first, than comes relationships and family.. I would even be in committed relationship if we were not having sex..

[winterfox10]

I would say "thank you for letting me know that; I truly appreciate your honesty! Unfortunately, while I have the highest respect for you and your decision to wait until marriage; I simply do not share your desire to wait. I hope we can continue to be friends, as I truly have no ill will for you."