What would you do if your girlfriend told you that she wants sex only AFTER marriage?

[Lliam]

I'd find another girlfriend. I wouldn't mind if she wanted to date for a while (not too long) in order to determine if we really liked each other. But we'd have to have sex at some point before I would even consider marriage. Sex is a gift two people give to each other. It's not the price for marriage. I would want to know if we were sexually compatible. And I'm not into sexually up tight women.

[gagsucs]

marry her or cheat on her, depends if i love her or not

[MrOracle]

We wouldn't have gotten that far. I'm not looking to get married (or have kids), and I discuss sex, along with a ton of other things, including life goals, before I commit to being in a relationship. Obviously the two of us would have some major incompatibilities, and so I'd have moved on before it got too serious.

[PassionPlaya]

I would wait , is there foreplay, oral or none? But yah, if I new I Loved Her, would be my pleasure and Proly Marry QUICKLY...
I would be playfully curious most the times just imagining her responses of What she would be like, HEY prepping her for them days would be ok, RIGHT? We could learn KamaSutra and have positions, flexible understanding and build Secure Partnering Stability before that time...
IT COULD BE GREAT!!! I Would love to Learn Her. Keeps Love Making and Love Lasting

[winterfox10]

I would say "thank you for letting me know that; I truly appreciate your honesty! Unfortunately, while I have the highest respect for you and your decision to wait until marriage; I simply do not share your desire to wait. I hope we can continue to be friends, as I truly have no ill will for you."

[ChronicThinker]

If I were a man? I wouldn't date her PERSONALLY. I believe that you need to have a romantic and sexual connection with someone before you make such a big commitment like marriage. I also feel like that would just make a couple more likely to rush into marriage.

[Nik1hil]

That's not possible.

Sex is physiological need..
Relationship is psychological need.
Marriage is social need..

According to maslow's-hierarchy-of-needs

This one..

You see Sex come first, than comes relationships and family.. I would even be in committed relationship if we were not having sex..

[ohshee]

Well of course I would try to talk her in to it ,, I don't think I would last to long with out some form of cumming need to feel that and I would want her to feel it to weather it be me going down on her dry fucking with just underwear on fingering , her or masturbating in front of each other

[Tunasub]

That would depend on how long she was my girlfriend. If together for say a year and I was in love I would wait because o love her. She would definitely have to sign a waiver saying that she willingly knew the damage that I was gonna rain down on that pussy...💯

[Regmorus]

totally support it, sex is not for fun or whatever else but for giving new life to the world

[DictumVeritas]

If she's still a virgin, respect her. She's a keeper! If she's not a virgin, run! Don't walk! Run Away!

[Apple1996]

Nah I wouldn't be down for waiting. I'm very impatient when it comes to sex, I need it pretty early on

[R4vedave]

I'd end the relationship. I don't believe in waiting until marriage. It's an insane, unwise decision in my opinion.

[Reaperbot666]

most likely wait. but then would also want a clarification as to which sexual acts she wants to wait to do.

[Jjpayne]

I'd consider what that means to me. Am I willing to respect that and or love her that much to wait

[Anonymous]

Well that’s perfectly fine since I’m demisexual and I can be sure she’s aware of that. Plus I’m not as interested in doing that kind of thing, by definition

[blutwolfe]

usually those couples get married after a couple months anyway, could of just had a normal relationship instead of rushing it but ok

[Caleb103]

Wait until marriage, it gives me more time to learn about cunnilingus Soo

[Laozi]

I had that girlfriend. And I respected her request.

[cgehr783]

Doing nothing will have the most profound effect on anyone. Divorce will destroy ur self worth and the courts are favored towards women. Make sure ur not getting married just for the sex. U need to know if she really loves u or not

[DamnSam]

And possibly end up with a wife who got different sexual preferences and fantasy than me... no thanks, I choose life

[simplelikeme]

If she is worth it and that's what you guys agreed to in the first place, then absolutely. But there has to be mutual respect between the two not just one-sided

[MannySimms]

I'd play "ditch the bitch". Why risk sexual incompatibility?

[Synikal]

Umm.. I am human. If there are alternatives like oral or something then maybe. Including how much I love her. But other than that... I know me. it is a no.

[NightOwl8801]

If we are serious enough in a relationship then I would not have a problem with that

[Shamalien]

Id b like u better not have fkd a bunch of guys in ur past if ur makn me wait XD if she is pure ill wait and be happy if not she’d be entitled

[iFarted]

She wouldn't have been my girlfriend. As an adult I never had to wait to have sex before we got exclusive.

[Anonymous]

If she's the one, I'd marry her. If I do not feel like it, there's always the next girl in line

[Proxyz123]

Respect her decision and stay with her. Don't pressure her into sex!

[dthomas89]

How would you know that she's your girlfriend, then?

[Dchrls78104]

Take her at her word, hold her to it, and, with enough love, marry her.

[Anonymous]

I'd say "Really? Who you marrying? And how much longer is that going to take?
Because my lobby needs polishing now".

[Lunatic1]

As long as there is a solid connection, I can work with that idea.

[pizzalovershouse]

wouldn't know probably feel she's been hurt to much to trust a gug even if she was a virgin

[sethtav]

Never would do that
I need to know if we are sexually compatible too

[Clarke498]

Sorry, but that's too big of a risk. Then she finds out she's asexual, it hurts or some other stuff.

[JamesBlackDragon]

Never want to get married and if she's ok with being in a sexless relationship that's cool

[McMick]

Wish her the best of luck and offer to be the best man at her wedding.

[Romeocuck]

I would like to know why what is the reason the true reason and if i think her reason is justified I would respect her if I truly love her

[engel23]

🤣 if she is a virgin I wait but how about if later I don't like it? 😖

[br_305]

I'd break up with her. Life is too short for all that

[EstevanMadrid898]

Nope can't wait in any way I would just find a new girl

[Plitty-Tank]

I'd be okay with it. I prefer it that way. I can handle it both ways.

[dmoney876]

As long as we could do other shit like bj and eating out

[Anonymous]

Well I doubt I’m getting married again so I guess I won’t be with her anymore if I want sex

[Miristheiss]

That is what my wife said.
We are married.

[haleysalvigione2]

I would never thats to long to wait

[Will23v]

Did we already have sex at this point

[MrTuxedo]

No thanks. I break up with her.

[Agape93]

Tough shit then, not getting married in any case

[Twalli]

I would say that they won't be having sex with me

[pigoat]

I don't wanna get married so it's a deal breaker

[bananathunder]

she wouldn't be my girlfriend... that's a fact lol

[lucas262]

Id say great, me too.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I can understand if she's a virgin then yes.

[OpenNudist]

I Personally would respect " Her" wishes

[Chitown10]

I'd respect it if I knew she could be the one.

[Anonymous]

I think if a guy really loves you, he'll wait

[viraj-1996]

I will convince and try to seduce her

[clampfan101]

Yay! Me too!

[Gavyn]

I’d agree

[COMMODOREII]

Bye lady. 😂