- they used to ask if they can cum in your mouth now they just cum in your mouth or it's just assumed your going to allow them to cum in your mouth... or is it that i'm getting older and they assume I will... I notice that men aren't as sweet as when I was younger... anyway I always swallowed from my 1st blowjob I don't know what other girls do but from what I hear about 1/2 swallow... young girls I know swallow and love to a few years ago that wasn't the case... that's what I observe... I love it... but I don't tell men I want you to cum in my mouth I just assume they will and don't want to be too willing for whatever reason... but they do very few ask in the past few years... at least when it comes to me.1|00|0Is this still revelant?
Yes, you make a really good point. Generally speaking and from a guys perspective, when there is familiarity between a couple, there is no need to say anything because he already knows that she expects him to blow his load into her mouth. But if it is a first time blowjob and there is no history of the girl swallowing his sperm, the guy should ALWAYS ask politely, "May I cum in your mouth?" Plus a lot of women very much enjoy hearing the guy ask first I think. I know whenever I have asked a girl if it's ok if I cum in her mouth, it turns them on to hear it because it means that her mouth will soon be flooded with his gooey warm sperm.
@SpurtLover very true they have in past have said may I come in your mouth or something to that effect and boyfriends don't ask after a time or two... and it is exciting for a girl to hear.
- Yeah they love hearing a girl say they can cum in her mouth. Guys have always asked me do I want them to cum in my mouth or be warned and they'll cum on me or another way...1|00|0Is this still revelant?
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- No. He'll assume you want cum in your mouth unless you say otherwise. But if you say you want it, chances are good he won't tell you when he's going to cum, and you don't want to accidently inhale a cockfull of semen. The best thing is to just tell him to tell you when he's about to cum (Though it's usually obvious by how stiff it gets), and just surprise him by keeping it in your mouth when he does. Don't forget to hold yoir breath, though..0|00|0Is this still revelant?
- Yes it's way better that way ,, if you dont then if he's not sure it kinda puts a damper on it but if you tell him first. Then first of all its a turn on for both and him knowing u want it like that. He can build up more and more to make it the best for you to0|00|0Is this still revelant?
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1463- Absolutely we good hesitate to ask for blow jobs to the people we love and respect.. which could be a wife or a girlfriend.
But we would really appreciate anyone who would give it to us... Boys like to cum anywhere be it in the pussy, belly, hand, thighs, or straight away in the mighty
Mouth.
But not without the girls'consent...0|00|0 - Yeah, agreed with other girls who already said. I mean I don’t really care but it does seem like even if I don’t say anything the guy expects to cum in my mouth. But honestly, thats what I assume he’s gonna do anyway... and I’m okay with it :o)0|00|0
- Yeah but do expect a shorter blowjob because he's gonna be all excited after hearing that. If you want him to last longer dont say anything and just don't let him pull our of your mouth when he reaches the limit0|00|0
- Sure it's a good idea. Every guy who is about to get a blowjob from a girl loves when you tell him to go ahead and cum in your mouth. That seriously is what will trigger the release of his sperm when you tell him to feed you his warm gooey cum.0|00|0
- Most guys will be turned on by that, so if you want it quick, say to avoid lockjaw, then do that.
Personally, I prefer to not be sure, let the anticipation build, and have it come as a pleasant surprise. (Sorry, pun intended. You may groan now.)0|00|0 - Communication, some people are not comfortable with ejaculate in their mouth. It is better to let them know what you want, and Express it clearly what you want.0|00|0
- Um, it is if you want him to cum in your mouth, its not a good idea if you don't.0|00|0
- Only say it if your serious because if you say that he will do it without hesitation.0|00|0
- Sure but during the blowjob is better especially if its a teasing one.0|00|0
- would improve his mood for sure. provided you didn't just turn around and spit it back out.0|00|0
- I don't see why. If you want to run him up. tell him that when you think orgasm is coming soon.0|00|0
- Anonymous11 moOnly brain washed fools waste their sacred life force in a girls mouth. Would you shoot your eggs into someones mouth for fun?0|00|0
- "Good idea". Only if you want him to.
Sound like you spend a little too much time with the porn.0|00|0 - Anonymous1 yDang... If a woman said that to me I think I'd get an instant hard on... LOL So yeah we like hearing that.0|00|0
- Yeah
That way you're not upset about if he does go in you, without warning (some girls don't like it in their mouth, for whatever reason)0|00|0 - That's a great idea, just make sure that you actually want his baby gravy in your mouth.0|00|0
- Yes, specific, measurable, actionable, realistic, timely.
Has all the hallmarks of a good goal.0|00|0 - A very good idea. I've never not cum twice inside any partner Orally or Vaginally whether ex wife, girlfriends, GSA Relationships etc..0|00|0
- Why not? That's the only worthwhile kind of blowjob. Screw that facial bullshit. It's for fags.0|01|0
- Anonymous1 yYeah it’s actually a turn on knowing that and will gladly oblige, I usually assume that until they pull away, but I usually tell them I’m about to cum and hope they keep sucking and not pull away0|00|0
- Anonymous1 yit might be a good idea but it also sort of ruin the bj a bit because cumming is sorta the point and one of the most enjoyable parts of sex.0|00|0
- Hell yes! Knowing I don't have to pull out makes the BJ so much better.0|00|0
- Yes... there needs to be more women like this in the world...0|00|0
- yeah any dirty talk u do is fun! do u actually like when a guy nuts in ur mouth?0|00|0
- As long as you mean it cuz there's no turning back after that0|00|0
- Yes, figuring that out before the time has come (no pun intended) is always best.1|10|0
- If YOU really want that... He will be happy about it.1|10|0
- Some guys might pull out if you didn't tell him first.0|00|0
- No point guys will assume you're willing to let them anyway.0|11|0
- no you should wait till your out at dinner with his parents and give a toast letting the table know.1|00|0
- They'll probably assume that anyway if you don't remove your mouth before they cum.0|10|0
- That's not a bad idea...
Some but not all girls like it , surprise or not I like it when a girl wants it0|10|0 - if youwant to do it or please him? it's a good idea0|10|0
- Only if you're telling the truth0|00|0
- That would make me very excited0|00|0
- My fiancèe said worse, so that's not (too) bad.0|00|0
- If you don't want a surprise it might be wise.0|00|0
- Yep-- he's probably thinking it too0|00|0
- Sure, it makes it less awkward for him0|00|0
- Yeah, so he knows he doesn't have to pull out0|00|0
- If that’s what you want then yeah0|00|0
- Yeah or just don't let him pull it out0|00|0
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