Is it a good idea to tell a guy “I want you to cum in my mouth” before giving him a blowjob?

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Most Helpful Girls

  • they used to ask if they can cum in your mouth now they just cum in your mouth or it's just assumed your going to allow them to cum in your mouth... or is it that i'm getting older and they assume I will... I notice that men aren't as sweet as when I was younger... anyway I always swallowed from my 1st blowjob I don't know what other girls do but from what I hear about 1/2 swallow... young girls I know swallow and love to a few years ago that wasn't the case... that's what I observe... I love it... but I don't tell men I want you to cum in my mouth I just assume they will and don't want to be too willing for whatever reason... but they do very few ask in the past few years... at least when it comes to me.

    • Yes, you make a really good point. Generally speaking and from a guys perspective, when there is familiarity between a couple, there is no need to say anything because he already knows that she expects him to blow his load into her mouth. But if it is a first time blowjob and there is no history of the girl swallowing his sperm, the guy should ALWAYS ask politely, "May I cum in your mouth?" Plus a lot of women very much enjoy hearing the guy ask first I think. I know whenever I have asked a girl if it's ok if I cum in her mouth, it turns them on to hear it because it means that her mouth will soon be flooded with his gooey warm sperm.

    • @SpurtLover very true they have in past have said may I come in your mouth or something to that effect and boyfriends don't ask after a time or two... and it is exciting for a girl to hear.

    • what you like about it its taste?

  • Yeah they love hearing a girl say they can cum in her mouth. Guys have always asked me do I want them to cum in my mouth or be warned and they'll cum on me or another way...

    • Thank you for MHO.

Most Helpful Guys

  • No. He'll assume you want cum in your mouth unless you say otherwise. But if you say you want it, chances are good he won't tell you when he's going to cum, and you don't want to accidently inhale a cockfull of semen. The best thing is to just tell him to tell you when he's about to cum (Though it's usually obvious by how stiff it gets), and just surprise him by keeping it in your mouth when he does. Don't forget to hold yoir breath, though..

  • Yes it's way better that way ,, if you dont then if he's not sure it kinda puts a damper on it but if you tell him first. Then first of all its a turn on for both and him knowing u want it like that. He can build up more and more to make it the best for you to

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  • Yes guys love that going to swallow or spit? If you want to after move softly up his body and give him a kiss pushing his cum into his lips.

    • Snowballing can be a lot of fun

  • No point guys will assume you're willing to let them anyway.

    • I ask because assuming could lead to no more blow jobs for a while 🤗

  • Why not? That's the only worthwhile kind of blowjob. Screw that facial bullshit. It's for fags.

  • Um, it is if you want him to cum in your mouth, its not a good idea if you don't.

  • Yeah, agreed with other girls who already said. I mean I don’t really care but it does seem like even if I don’t say anything the guy expects to cum in my mouth. But honestly, thats what I assume he’s gonna do anyway... and I’m okay with it :o)

  • Only say it if your serious because if you say that he will do it without hesitation.

  • If YOU really want that... He will be happy about it.

  • Yes, figuring that out before the time has come (no pun intended) is always best.

  • Uh, if you want to?

  • Yeah but do expect a shorter blowjob because he's gonna be all excited after hearing that. If you want him to last longer dont say anything and just don't let him pull our of your mouth when he reaches the limit

  • My fiancèe said worse, so that's not (too) bad.

  • You can say it, sure. It turns us on.

  • Hell it might turn him on that much more

  • Sure it's a good idea. Every guy who is about to get a blowjob from a girl loves when you tell him to go ahead and cum in your mouth. That seriously is what will trigger the release of his sperm when you tell him to feed you his warm gooey cum.

  • Yeah

  • Only if you're telling the truth

  • Sure but during the blowjob is better especially if its a teasing one.

  • Very sexy

  • That would make me very excited

  • Yep it may be a turn on

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