Is it normal for your bum to get little cuts on it after getting a hard bare ass spanking?

Question

My husband and I were arguing and I kinda pushed him a bit and and gently slapped his face feeling a little bit cocky. He told me if I did it again he'd spank me... well in the moment I didn't care and figured it wouldn't hurt that bad. So I slapped his face. Well he flipped me over and whipped down my pajamas and spanked my bare butt and now there's little red mark's on it 😠😳 Anyway... is that normal Please don't be jerks on here about it. Just want people who actually know Thanks

Updates:

1 y

So he wasn't spanking me with the ring hand and his nails are groomed
My butt has these little tiny red cut like things..
😔

1 y

OK. I found out from some e that it happens from a hand spanking on bare butts if you got a hard spanking and that it's broken capillaries
Thanks all

Answer 1

codycccccccccc

Yoda

He was wearing a ring wasn't he its ether that or his watch usally when your spanked as a kid your dad would remove them pre spanking but not in this case

Asker

1 y
Just asked him and he said no ring on the hand he spanked me with
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1 y
Odd.
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1 y
The only other thing is after a your skin is bruised more blood rushes to your skin making skin allergy reactions slightly more likely
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Asker

1 y
OK. Thanks
codycccccccccc

1 y
But if you worried go see a doctor without seeing it were all just giving are best guess
Asker

1 y
Too embarrassed to tell a doc I got a spanking for face slapping my husband..
It's OK. .. guess I kind of had it coming
codycccccccccc

1 y
So why do you think you behave like you do
Asker

1 y
I think I like a thrill and impulsive and unfortunately have been mischevious and testing my whole life. .. I like revenge and being a pain in the ass and I don't even know why. .. I think it might be adhd and a history of being like this with my guy friends... I married one of my guy friends so he knows how I am... he just started spanking me though recently bc he says he's had enough of brat behaviours. .. sigh
Not very fair when he's 6ft 2 and I'm only 5ft 2 and smaller than him
codycccccccccc

1 y
Its simple you want attention and as a kid that was the easiest way to get it so you kept doing it tell today
Asker

7 mo
Yeah but if I’m doing for attention I don’t realize I am

Answer 2

Asker

Just asked him and he said no ring on the hand he spanked me with

Answer 3

codycccccccccc

Odd.

Answer 4

codycccccccccc

The only other thing is after a your skin is bruised more blood rushes to your skin making skin allergy reactions slightly more likely

Answer 5

Asker

OK. Thanks

Answer 6

codycccccccccc

But if you worried go see a doctor without seeing it were all just giving are best guess

Answer 7

Asker

Too embarrassed to tell a doc I got a spanking for face slapping my husband..
It's OK. .. guess I kind of had it coming

Answer 8

codycccccccccc

So why do you think you behave like you do

Answer 9

Asker

I think I like a thrill and impulsive and unfortunately have been mischevious and testing my whole life. .. I like revenge and being a pain in the ass and I don't even know why. .. I think it might be adhd and a history of being like this with my guy friends... I married one of my guy friends so he knows how I am... he just started spanking me though recently bc he says he's had enough of brat behaviours. .. sigh
Not very fair when he's 6ft 2 and I'm only 5ft 2 and smaller than him

Answer 10

codycccccccccc

Its simple you want attention and as a kid that was the easiest way to get it so you kept doing it tell today

Answer 11

Asker

Yeah but if I’m doing for attention I don’t realize I am

Answer 12

Laozi | 583 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Explorer

Yup, it's normal.

Answer 13

Missmouse

Xper 3

Hm maybe depends if his nails cut you. It's normal getting it red. Do you do that often? My ex loved me spanking her like a brat.

Asker

1 y
Well unfortunately it's been the norm lately. I do have brat impulsive testing behaviour's and lately my husband started spanking me for it and I'm not familiar with what happens after a hard spanking and now I have these little cuts on my skin. And through it all it makes me want to scheme and retaliation and prank and pester and annoy him for thinking he can get away for spanking me
Missmouse

1 y
I think it's how hard he hit you. It broke your skin. Are you going to keep making him do that?
Are you going to make it part of your sex? My sister does that to piss off her man before sex so they have angry sex and they love it
Asker

1 y
It's not a sexual thing for me or him. I've got issues with enjoying a thrill of testing people and causing trouble just for fun. My guy kinda has had enough of it and told me if I keep trying to annoy him for my own enjoyment he'll spank me for it. I kinda called his bluff and thought he wouldn't spank me that hard. I've been spanked as a kid and other boyfriends in the past for my behavior so thought no biggie... but he gave me a pretty hard spanking
I feel like retaliating all the time bc I feel like "who does he think he is! And no one spanks me and gets away with it.
It usually gets me pumped to find a way to be a pain in his ass.
He knows how I am bc we've been togethere since teens and he used to be a trouble maker too
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Asker

1 y
I don't want him to win this... but see he is going to spank if I don't stop my behavior. I don't want his spanking
He says then stop pestering me and causing trouble. I know what's going to get me them but now I have this drive to teach him a lesson for spanking me... make sense?

Answer 14

Asker

Well unfortunately it's been the norm lately. I do have brat impulsive testing behaviour's and lately my husband started spanking me for it and I'm not familiar with what happens after a hard spanking and now I have these little cuts on my skin. And through it all it makes me want to scheme and retaliation and prank and pester and annoy him for thinking he can get away for spanking me

Answer 15

Missmouse

I think it's how hard he hit you. It broke your skin. Are you going to keep making him do that?
Are you going to make it part of your sex? My sister does that to piss off her man before sex so they have angry sex and they love it

Answer 16

Asker

It's not a sexual thing for me or him. I've got issues with enjoying a thrill of testing people and causing trouble just for fun. My guy kinda has had enough of it and told me if I keep trying to annoy him for my own enjoyment he'll spank me for it. I kinda called his bluff and thought he wouldn't spank me that hard. I've been spanked as a kid and other boyfriends in the past for my behavior so thought no biggie... but he gave me a pretty hard spanking
I feel like retaliating all the time bc I feel like "who does he think he is! And no one spanks me and gets away with it.
It usually gets me pumped to find a way to be a pain in his ass.
He knows how I am bc we've been togethere since teens and he used to be a trouble maker too

Answer 17

Asker

I don't want him to win this... but see he is going to spank if I don't stop my behavior. I don't want his spanking
He says then stop pestering me and causing trouble. I know what's going to get me them but now I have this drive to teach him a lesson for spanking me... make sense?

Answer 18

SexyAshh | 785 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Yepp. Normal

Asker

1 y
Why is it normal
How long does it last
Is it normal for a spanking to hurt all day

Answer 19

Asker

Why is it normal
How long does it last
Is it normal for a spanking to hurt all day

Answer 20

Blublub

Xper 6

That sounds hot I mean cause I’m into that But in your case it sounds bad

Asker

1 y
Yeah in the moment I had a temper and didn't care... but now I'm. Kinda sorry for the way I behaved...
Blublub

1 y
I mean I would love getting spanked like that it would turn me on
Blublub

1 y
But in your case it sounds unhealthy
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Asker

1 y
Well... yeah. I guess I shouldn't have called his bluff... he's gonna get it

Answer 21

Asker

Yeah in the moment I had a temper and didn't care... but now I'm. Kinda sorry for the way I behaved...

Answer 22

Blublub

I mean I would love getting spanked like that it would turn me on

Answer 23

Blublub

But in your case it sounds unhealthy

Answer 24

Asker

Well... yeah. I guess I shouldn't have called his bluff... he's gonna get it

Answer 25

Anonymous

Are we supposed to feel sympathy? You slapped your husband across the face which can be considered assault

Asker

1 y
Yes you should. He dared me and I wasn't going to let him think I was scared of a stupid spanking
Plus he's waaay bigger than me.
Very unfair

Answer 26

Asker

Yes you should. He dared me and I wasn't going to let him think I was scared of a stupid spanking
Plus he's waaay bigger than me.
Very unfair

Answer 27

PythonByte98

Xper 1

If you ever had spankings as a child then you’ll know the answer.

Asker

1 y
I did... but I don't remember having little cuts nor do I remember them hurting thus bad... 😢 I'm kinda wishing I didn't slap his face now and yet the same time I'm pissed off too and feel like doing it again to teach him a lesson for spanking me!! Vicious circle

Answer 28

Asker

I did... but I don't remember having little cuts nor do I remember them hurting thus bad... 😢 I'm kinda wishing I didn't slap his face now and yet the same time I'm pissed off too and feel like doing it again to teach him a lesson for spanking me!! Vicious circle

Answer 29

Gedaria | 9K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

Yes , but don't over do it...

Asker

1 y
Why did it gappen
Gedaria

1 y
Possibly got over excited. It's fun giving and getting. It' can be more intense but it can hurt more afterwards. Should get him to massage it with some baby oil and kiss it better...

Answer 30

Asker

Why did it gappen

Answer 31

Gedaria

Possibly got over excited. It's fun giving and getting. It' can be more intense but it can hurt more afterwards. Should get him to massage it with some baby oil and kiss it better...

Answer 32

G1985K

Xper 1

Did you two kinda enjoy it and do it again?

Asker

8 mo
It has happened again, yes... can't say either of us enjoy it... well not me anyway. It pisses me off and starts a power struggle war

Answer 33

Asker

It has happened again, yes... can't say either of us enjoy it... well not me anyway. It pisses me off and starts a power struggle war

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