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Trending & News Like one night I gave two guys a bj each at the same time.
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Am I slut if I've never had sex but I've given loads of bjs, hjs, tighjobs and mutually masturbated with loads of different guys and two girls?
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- it's not bad your not a nun but think of it this way you've made a lot guys happy and i'm sure you enjoyed giving them... I've given blowjobs to over 200 men and I enjoyed it in fact there's times I actually need to give a blowjob it feels I need to swallow someone's cum it seems... I think we're addicted to the excitement of giving one... I don't know if it's bad because the best thing you can do for someone is give them a blowjob so your definitely not a bad person at all infact your a very good person because you helped a lot of people feel good.1|20|1Is this still revelant?
- I wouldn't call you a slut, I don't use that word, but I think you're on the right track here, to consider your behaviour. Just because there is no intercourse do not mean you are not sexual. In fact, many young guys are probably just using you for a quick fix. Be careful. I would even say cease and desist. Have respect for yourself, if others won't.0|00|0Is this still revelant?
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- not having sex n giving bjs.
makes no sense. if you are Singal, not in any relationship or unmarried, then you are not cheating anyone.
its the age, when you are young you what to enjoy your life want to have sex with different person, in different style, to try some new positions.
its just the persons behaviour or personal views to judge anyone on this basis...
if you are enjoying then keep going..
but the most important thing is to not to tell anyone...
and this time have sex.😂😂0|00|0Is this still revelant?Cheating is not part of the definition of a slut.
Many of you seem brainwashed into believing the word doesn't exist and is made up.
Here you go:
"a woman who has many casual sexual partners."
And:
" a sexually promiscuous woman, or a woman who behaves or dresses in an overtly sexual way."
- Nope. Besides, slut is an outdated term only used by those who need to pass moral judgements on others to feel superior. As long as you don't regret your decisions, life your life, and don't worry about what other people think. If someone honestly thinks less of you because of your history, then that person was a pretty bad fit for you anyways.3|00|0Is this still revelant?
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1256- I don't toss around the term "slut". It is really a derogatory word that means different things to different people.
I will say that other than giving the blowjobs, you are having sexual experiences that are a lot safer in that they likely will be safe from STIs. And both parties can get satisfaction from them.2|00|0 - Yeah. Your being sexual with multiple people with great frequency. Its kind of like saying that if you have only had anal sex your still a virgin, no your not. Same thing here, you can be a virgin but your being hyper sexual with many men and not only is that not healthy (physically or mentally) it is being promiscuous.1|00|0
- I dont think that what makea a slut is strictly a numbers thing. I think its about having the self respect to be picky in your partners and not settle out of convienent temptation. The number of worth while partners a person comes across is going to be different person to person so rather than count the guys just ask yourself if your playing for the right reasons.0|00|0
- A lot more then just a slut. You have committed perversion and committing abomination gayness sexual acts with women2|10|2
- If this is a truthful post it doesn't make any sense that you would be concerned about being labeled a slut.0|00|0
- Anonymous11 moThat depends on the culture and what country you are from, In some countries that is frowned and people would look down on you and they would say you aren't wife material. But now a days in the U. S. people would say you are just young enjoying life.0|00|0
You mean English speaking countries.
Per English Dictionary:
a sexually promiscuous woman, or a woman who behaves or dresses in an overtly sexual way.
- Yeah, pretty much.
So what?
No one cares, this isn't the 1950s0|00|0 - I wouldn't think that if it was just one time. I believe that you are just adventurous. If it is every weekend I would think that you are... addicted.0|00|0
- No. You are experimenting and making up for a lack of sex. It sounds like you have a perfectly normal sex drive for your age. Enjoy it and don't feel guilty about it.0|00|0
So someone who just denies there is a Webster's dictionary and that words actually have real defined definitions.
Denial of reality.Definitions are only half the story. Slut is a label who's purpose is to demean and shame others.
- Where is it that you said you live? I’d love to get to know you better.0|00|0
- Being slutty is not about what you do. It’s how many people you do it with. A hand job is harmless. Thigh job? No biggie. But once you start blowing lots of dudes, that’s getting slutty.0|00|0
Per dictionary:
a sexually promiscuous woman, or a woman who behaves or dresses in an overtly sexual way.
- I would have to concede, yes. But you can no longer be one just by changing your attitude and behavior. Get away from those who can label you and don't tell anyone.1|00|0
- Nah, just means you did what you wanted to do. 🤷♂️ You're only a slut if you think you're one. Just stay safe.1|11|1
- We sound similar 😂 I’ve got head, given head, fingered, been jacked off, mutually masturbated, but never fucked anyone. I certainly haven’t been with two girls in one night but...0|00|0
- No you are never a slut! You are simply being responsible to not get yourself unwanted pregnancy, but be cautious if you are gonna give strangers masturbation whom you do not know quite well, as they might have STDs.1|00|0
- No you just love to do this your are not slut you will be slut if you took money from then to do this1|00|0
- No that makes you a woman exploring and expressing her sexuality0|00|0
- Hate to break it to you, but... that's still slutty.2|00|0
- whoring is life. Don’t worry, you shouldn't care what the world says, you keep sucking2|00|0
- Kind of, but who cares? Fun is fun as long as everyone is single1|00|0
- No, for sure not... you are a perfect healthy lady!0|00|0
- Was one big the other smaller or both huge n chocked u sealling it and other splitting u open?0|00|0
- Why does sex make a woman a slut? Guys who think like that aren't worthy of you.0|00|1
Because the dictionary says so:
" a sexually promiscuous woman, or a woman who behaves or dresses in an overtly sexual way."@Miristheiss, there are some problems with that definition.
1) It doesn't specify what is to be sexually promiscuous or to behave or dress in an overtly sexual way.
2) It points the finger only at women.
Therefore, it is an antiquated definition that doesn't take into account evolving social landscape - dress or dance styles or women's liberation.One is intellectually dishonest to play dumb on that regard. If you do not know if bjs and hnjbs for the crowd is promiscuous that you are ignorant or dishonest.
Yes... it is a female classified word... and?
Male slut is its counterpart. That isn't the topic.
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@Miristheiss, so a woman who enjoys sex is automatically promiscuous. I supposed women are only supposed to have sex with a husband. Gotta keep that pussy pure. How anachronistic. LOL
- Anonymous1 yNot at all. Blow jobs don't even count. A lot of my married friends give blowjobs to coworkers and guys in bars. It's not like they cheating by fucking other guys0|00|3
It's an extremely dumb concept when 2 people stand and front of a room full of witnesses and promise to do or not do things that they know damn well they're not going to commit to.
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Tulips don't know anything because they don't have a mind. It's the concept of climate and temperature and how much moisture is in the soil and air that makes for an optimal growing environment. It has nothing to do with a higher power, it's influence from nature.
Just so you know, I am not trying to convince you to believe anything. Just giving my take on the world we live in.
- Opinion Owner11 mo
@honestGUY45
Yes, and you're just guessing, at best. You mentioned "nature" being behind the tulip thing, but how do you explain "nature?"
Why does the sun never call in sick? Why is the sun so very reliable?
Who invented gravity?
Why is a 2 liter coke always cheaper than a 1 liter coke? You cannot be serious with these questions. The Sun does not call in sick because the Sun does not have a telephone or have to report to a job. The Sun never gets sick because it is a ball of flaming gasses and nuclear reations. Gravity is not an invention. It is an attractive force that is based on the mass of an object. The Earth is bigger than the moon, therefore you weigh more on Earth because if the gravitational pull. You weigh less on the moon because it's smaller. You would weigh a hell of a lot more than you do now, if you were on Jupiter. A 2 liter of
Coke is cheaper than a one liter, because businesses charge for the amount of volume you are getting of their product. A 2 liter is twice as much product as a 1 liter, therefore you are expected to pay for the extra liter. This is not a higher power, it's common sense.That is why I made the statement that religion poisons everything. Religious indoctrination is what got you to think these unrealistic thoughts.
Yes, you are right. It's dark in here and I'm trying to be quiet because I can't sleep. If that was your way of tripping me up, all you proved was that we are human and make mistakes. Now, what is your explanation for the other examples you gave? The Coke is the only one that is a sensible example even if it is flipped around because you can buy coke in several amounts.
Well I guess your married friends dont mind if their husband get blowjobs or lick other women either🤣
Well about coke where I live its because they encourage you to buy more bigger packs are cheaper by e/L but are more expensive than buyin simply smaller pack so you either buy a smaller cheaper pack or you buy a bigger pack that costs more but is actually cheaper if you compare the amount you are getting
@honestGUY45
Wow, you two are so wise.
You should like mentor young people on how to have fulfilled, healthy lives... never marry and blow co-workers.
Great stuffYeah, I read a little further down and saw your take on everything Mr. BMW. Doesn't take a genius to read a definition somewhere, the regurgitate it to try and teach others what you believe. Any thoughts of your own on this matter, or do you plagiarize everything to relay your beliefs?
@honestGUY45
Good Will Hunting?
How do I like them apples?
This isn't an opinion thread... this one is factual.
There is text definition of the word... I am just cutting through all the "feelings" to stick to facts.
Clarity.
Many of you act as if slut definition is up for debate or that it doesn't even exist.
No need for all that, it has a pretty straight forward clear definition that she clearly falls under.I'll admit that was a cheap shot to see if you picked up on the good will hunting reference. I think the correct phrasing should be 'many people', not many of you'... My answer to the question was 'definitely'. Then it became a debate between me and someone else concerning religious dogma or scientific facts. You chiming in, telling us we are both wise and should teach everyone else our way of thinking, was nothing but a 'good will hunting' opportunity for you to throw out something you read somewhere to make someone else feel stupid and impress the masses. I can look up shit on Google too. Seems like you have an interest in teaching. Keep the apples.
- I don't know, but you sound like you know how to have a good time! Smiles0|00|0
- if you love it then good for you and a slut is not bad thing but rather appealing
pm me if you want me to elaborate1|00|0 - Being a slut is a good thing wear it like a badge of honor1|00|0
- Oh nice, are you good at rolling your tongue?0|00|0
- In my humble opinion, yes1|20|0
Screw opinions.
Anyone with an English dictionary can answer this
" a sexually promiscuous woman, or a woman who behaves or dresses in an overtly sexual way."
- Nope. That's called being human.0|00|0
- You're what we used to call "easy"; and a keeper!0|00|0
- Yes, it all counts. Cum everywhere, yuk.0|00|0
- no, you just enjoy your life the way you want0|00|0
@Miristheiss oh, another american's morom who think that everyone on earth speak English perfectly.
Def:
a sexually promiscuous woman, or a woman who behaves or dresses in an overtly sexual way.
Fact.
Read a dictionary.
Denying language makes you ignorant.
Words exist and have real meanings.
Sorry.
- Just very sexually active :)1|00|0
- Maybe saving penitratation0|00|0
- You are a slut but I love it!!!😍😍😍0|00|0
- Do you want to be called a slut?0|01|0
well slut is one who fucks, by definition, so no
however, basically its an attitude. so yeah you are a filthy slut lol
- Noooo, you are just fine. When can we meet🤣0|00|0
- No you like what you like it is ok0|00|0
- I'd say you was well on your way0|00|0
- Yep, you're a slut and I love you0|00|0
Anonymous1 yYeah sounds like it but I wish I knew you 😊0|00|0- Nope not all0|00|0
- Anonymous1 yYes in my opinion0|00|0
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