Am I slut if I've never had sex but I've given loads of bjs, hjs, tighjobs and mutually masturbated with loads of different guys and two girls?

[Anonymous]

Like one night I gave two guys a bj each at the same time.

[chrissykerdock]

it's not bad your not a nun but think of it this way you've made a lot guys happy and i'm sure you enjoyed giving them... I've given blowjobs to over 200 men and I enjoyed it in fact there's times I actually need to give a blowjob it feels I need to swallow someone's cum it seems... I think we're addicted to the excitement of giving one... I don't know if it's bad because the best thing you can do for someone is give them a blowjob so your definitely not a bad person at all infact your a very good person because you helped a lot of people feel good.

[AmandaYVR]

I wouldn't call you a slut, I don't use that word, but I think you're on the right track here, to consider your behaviour. Just because there is no intercourse do not mean you are not sexual. In fact, many young guys are probably just using you for a quick fix. Be careful. I would even say cease and desist. Have respect for yourself, if others won't.

[rajatpune]

not having sex n giving bjs.
makes no sense. if you are Singal, not in any relationship or unmarried, then you are not cheating anyone.
its the age, when you are young you what to enjoy your life want to have sex with different person, in different style, to try some new positions.
its just the persons behaviour or personal views to judge anyone on this basis...
if you are enjoying then keep going..
but the most important thing is to not to tell anyone...
and this time have sex.😂😂

[Miristheiss]

Cheating is not part of the definition of a slut. Many of you seem brainwashed into believing the word doesn't exist and is made up. Here you go: "a woman who has many casual sexual partners." And: " a sexually promiscuous woman, or a woman who behaves or dresses in an overtly sexual way."

[rajatpune]

👍 may be

[R4vedave]

Nope. Besides, slut is an outdated term only used by those who need to pass moral judgements on others to feel superior. As long as you don't regret your decisions, life your life, and don't worry about what other people think. If someone honestly thinks less of you because of your history, then that person was a pretty bad fit for you anyways.

[DoTheThew]

Nah, just means you did what you wanted to do. 🤷‍♂️ You're only a slut if you think you're one. Just stay safe.

[potatoiswhoiam]

In my humble opinion, yes

[Miristheiss]

Screw opinions. Anyone with an English dictionary can answer this " a sexually promiscuous woman, or a woman who behaves or dresses in an overtly sexual way."

[Lliam]

Why does sex make a woman a slut? Guys who think like that aren't worthy of you.

[Miristheiss]

Because the dictionary says so: " a sexually promiscuous woman, or a woman who behaves or dresses in an overtly sexual way."

[Lliam]

@Miristheiss, there are some problems with that definition. 1) It doesn't specify what is to be sexually promiscuous or to behave or dress in an overtly sexual way. 2) It points the finger only at women. Therefore, it is an antiquated definition that doesn't take into account evolving social landscape - dress or dance styles or women's liberation.

[Miristheiss]

One is intellectually dishonest to play dumb on that regard. If you do not know if bjs and hnjbs for the crowd is promiscuous that you are ignorant or dishonest. Yes... it is a female classified word... and? Male slut is its counterpart. That isn't the topic.

[Lliam]

@Miristheiss, so a woman who enjoys sex is automatically promiscuous. I supposed women are only supposed to have sex with a husband. Gotta keep that pussy pure. How anachronistic. LOL

[hellionthesagereborn]

Yeah. Your being sexual with multiple people with great frequency. Its kind of like saying that if you have only had anal sex your still a virgin, no your not. Same thing here, you can be a virgin but your being hyper sexual with many men and not only is that not healthy (physically or mentally) it is being promiscuous.

[Red_Arrow]

I don't toss around the term "slut". It is really a derogatory word that means different things to different people.
I will say that other than giving the blowjobs, you are having sexual experiences that are a lot safer in that they likely will be safe from STIs. And both parties can get satisfaction from them.

[SarahsSummer]

Do you want to be called a slut?

[Asker]

Only during not in public

[Alex_988_2]

well slut is one who fucks, by definition, so no however, basically its an attitude. so yeah you are a filthy slut lol

[spartan55]

If this is a truthful post it doesn't make any sense that you would be concerned about being labeled a slut.

[WhiteShoulder]

You’re very sexual

Dry humping can be fun

[foxrider77]

Oh nice, are you good at rolling your tongue?

[Miristheiss]

Yes, a massive slut.

[JessC_YeahThatsMe]

Kind of, but who cares? Fun is fun as long as everyone is single

[Dargil]

I would have to concede, yes. But you can no longer be one just by changing your attitude and behavior. Get away from those who can label you and don't tell anyone.

[lovetotasteyou]

Where is it that you said you live? I’d love to get to know you better.

[Haelaeix123]

Just very sexually active :)

[MannySimms]

You're what we used to call "easy"; and a keeper!

[ColoradoKid]

I wouldn't think that if it was just one time. I believe that you are just adventurous. If it is every weekend I would think that you are... addicted.

[Laozi]

Nope. That's called being human.

[OneManOnly]

Can you kick me in the balls for Fun?

[NickiB1]

maybe a BJ sloot

[jason222]

@NickiB1 "sloot" lol. do u like sucking that much dick?

[trust21]

No, just be safe