My boyfriend is too gentle in the bed I want him to be at least little bit more rough what should I do?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

During sex, asking for him to go hard can be in vain. He might consider that you are just saying in the heat of the moment.

I suggest talking to him after sex. Or maybe sometimes when you are just hanging out. Like hug him, and kiss him and say. "That was so beautiful. I had so much fun yesterday. And you are so cute, treating me like a glass doll. You know you could go a little more rough right? I won't break. And I like the idea of my man devouring me."

Be sure to have fun attitude while having this convo.

trust21 · Accepted Answer

Communication. You have to communicate during sex, he may be afraid he is hurting you, or he might of had a poor experience in the past. But it all boils down to communicating we are not mind readers, you have to talk about, guide and suggest what feels good to you.

SarahsSummer · Accepted Answer

Tell him you had a fantasy he was rougher and it turned you on. Be descriptive. Maybe that will open discussion or understanding or prompt him to change things up. He may very well WANT to be more aggressive but just need a push.

AmandaYVR · Accepted Answer

Talk to him, just be direct. If that's too much for you, play him a scene from a favourite movie (not porn.) Visuals are nice and specific.

Amyth20 · Answer

Try roleplays whatever fits you both, do the exercises for the down body part. Eat good and everything is in the head so focus and just believe

Roberta95 · Answer

Just tell him how you like it.

dany018 · Answer

Tell him ;)

SjE78 · Answer

talk to him about it... communication can mean the difference between a healthy relationship and sex life to a disappointing one

msss98 · Answer

Talk to him

R4vedave · Answer

Just ask him to be rough. Communication is the most important part of a healthy sexual relationship

boggboss · Answer

Then communicate this me and my girl found it hard at first and out first few attempts didn't turn out amazing but we found a middle ground

slatyb · Answer

Talk to him. Tell him you aren't fragile and he can be more forceful.

Reaperbot666 · Answer

Tell him what you want / like. Communication is key in the bedroom / sex life.

DictumVeritas · Answer

Tell him and start acting like you can take it. Don't just lie there passively.

reptocarl · Answer

Tell him

oldguystillhasit · Answer

In my singles days I met a girl. We made love a few times before the third time she asked me to be more forceful, so I was at least I thought I was. I started pounding harder, but, it wasn't enough for her. She put her hands on my butt cheeks and slammed me into her very hard. I was sore after. Even when I gave her oral she pulled my head hard into her lower abdomen really hard. Grab his butt cheeks to show him how hard you want it.

TonyBologna25 · Answer

Tell him to acquire more testosterone.

codycccccccccc · Answer

Dress up like a schoolgirl then say im her for my spanking headmaater and see what happens

letssee89 · Answer

Talk to him about it. If you don't, he'll never know what he's doing wrong. Without communicating, he might not realize he's not giving you what you want