What is your impression on a girl with this past sexual history?

[Coolflow9]

I’m only looking for your opinion here and whether you would consider a serious relationship with a girl who has this particular sexual history. I asked her about her history due to the fact that we slept together on the second date where she invited me over for a movie and then she initiated sex, which I was not prepared for in the slightest. The following is what she told me...

She is 24 years old and lost her virginity at age 20/21 and has only had one relationship that lasted 9 months. Since ending that relationship and over the last 18 months she has slept with 6 different guys (I’m the 8th) consisting of 2 one night stands where she invited the guy over to her apartment sight unseen from online dating. Also, she did friends with benefits for 2 weeks with a guy who said he wasn’t ready for relationship with her and she went with it.

on average she has slept with these guys within the first 3-4 dates and a couple guys she slept with were only about a month apart.

So, what do you think of this girls values and character when it comes to relationships? Go!

[Lliam]

I like her already. She has a strong libido and a healthy attitude.
I can't believe other douche nozzles commenting here who are so fucked up in the head as to think sexually active women are whores who can't be trusted. They must dream of sex with little girls (or boys). They certainly don't like grown women.

[Twalli]

Probably she wasn't used to not having sex frequently. So she didn't care about how she got it.

[Coolflow9]

So how would you think of her considering her actions and choices she has made?

[Twalli]

I would be worried she may not stay with you, but I wouldn't consider her bad person for those decisions

[Coolflow9]

I know I have to be the Ultimate judge of her character since I’m in a relationship with her. I know everyone makes mistakes, but she’s had multiple which makes me think that she didn’t care about her actions until now. So while I’m disturbed from her past she has shown me nothing but full commitment towards marriage so far and is very upset with herself about her past.

[0112358]

I’d consider a relationship if we were compatible, but not if she wanted me to wait for sex or seemed less enthusiastic for me then those guys.

[Eridan]

This doesn't really say much about her character, other then she may have been quite shy or reserved growing up, but opened up in her 20s...

[poneglyphs]

that's cool it doesn't bother me

[bangyourhead]

Just fuck her. Don't fall for her. You can't turn a hoe into a housewife.

[Coolflow9]

What makes it conflicting is that her personality and desire for a serious relationship that leads to marriage does not match her past actions at all. Even thought she says she’s not proud of her past I’m torn between believing that they really were all mistakes she regrets or whether she is ok with having casual sex.

[bangyourhead]

She's telling you she regrets it to snag you.

[Coolflow9]

See my comment on “deesenuts” above. She really wants to marry me and I couldn’t be more positive about that.

[bangyourhead]

www.huffpost.com/.../more-sexual-partners-unhappy-marriage_n_5698440

[Coolflow9]

In a perfect world, I agree. I think times have changed for the most part now though and people have at least had a few sexual partners before marriage. I’ve had 5, but for me it’s not the number it’s the circumstance and time frequency. As long as they were meaningful partners (relationships) and the sexual experiences are not too close together then it doesn’t bother me. With her past the only things that bother me are the one night stands, how quickly she slept with guys and maybe the frequency of moving on from one guy to the next.

[bangyourhead]

Exactly. More red flags than a Chinese parade.

[Dchrls78104]

Hard use wears a machine out, and abuse wears out prematurely. Such worn out stuff is unserviceable. The only place for it is the junkyard where it can take its rest.

[Lliam]

You obviously have no idea what you're talking about. Is your dick worn out an unserviceable?

[Dchrls78104]

@Lliam 😂😂😂 I'm a virgin, my unenlightened friend; so the question of use does not arise. But hard use wears out machinery faster than mere age does.

[Lliam]

Thanks for enlightening everyone with your wisdom and experience. Someone who has never seen a car giving advice to mechanics about wear and tear. LMAO.

[Dchrls78104]

@Lliam your assumption, made incorrectly about someone with whom you are personally unacquainted, gives credence to the saying that age does not bring reasoning.

[Lliam]

Coming from a 42 year old virgin whose first comment to me was that I was unenlightened. Please. Entertain us some more with your knowledge of worn out pussies. Should they get their timing belt changed at 100,000 miles? Would a new set of rings and valves help?

[Dchrls78104]

@Lliam self-styled expert, you tell me!

[Lliam]

Not my job, dude. It would be like describing a gorgeous landscape to someone who had never seen daylight, only to have them dismiss me as a "self styled expert."

[Dchrls78104]

@Lliam then stop judging what you don't know! I stand by what I said.

[Lliam]

You're the one who initiated the judgmental comment about women. And it was the most laughably ignorant comments I've ever heard. You don't have any personal experience, so I challenge you to cite some evidence to back up your assertion that pussies are like machines that wear out from use. One might as well assert that the less we use our bodies, the longer they will last.

[Dchrls78104]

@Lliam I said hard use and abuse wear out machines faster than age. This is a fact I've seen demonstrated in my country time and again. Now if you have only insults and disrespect to back up your "expertise", please take them somewhere else!

[Lliam]

There is a difference between machines and human bodies. And you didn't post the question so, as far as I'm concerned, you can take your "expertise" somewhere else. I'm defending the guy's girlfriend and women in general against your nonsense. Look at what you said about sexually active women. "Hard use wears a machine out, and abuse wears out prematurely. Such worn out stuff is unserviceable. The only place for it is the junkyard where it can take its rest." You were obviously comparing women to machines. Now you're acting like a victim.

[Dchrls78104]

@Lliam what I said agrees with what I have seen in my own country. Telling the truth isn't victimhood. I therefore stand by what I said.

[LJOILMAN]

Most of them will spend their life hopping from dick to dick.

[OpenNudist]

She sounds like nothing more than a friend with benefits fuck buddy

[Synikal]

She knows what she wants. No one is asking about your background.

[Deesenuts]

All I can say is, as easy as you get her will be as easy as you’ll lose her. I wouldn’t start a relationship with her

[Coolflow9]

If she really wants a serious relationship and is ready to settle down what makes you think it would be easy to lose her? Just curious.

[Deesenuts]

I’ve been in your exact situation and it led to one of the worst experiences of my life and getting cheated on eventually. She doesn’t want love is the problem. She’s looking for something to fill a void in her life. As soon as she got what she wanted from you, whether it takes a month, 6 months, or a year, she’s gone

[Coolflow9]

I understand where you’re coming from, but I’ll spill the beans already I guess... we’ve been in a serious relationship now for 5 months, have already talked about marriage (she wants it more than anything), and while I love her so much Her past is the only hang up I’m trying to work through and shake from my mind :/

[Deesenuts]

Thanks for keeping it honest man. Like I said, I’ve been in your shoes. If you can’t trust her, leave NOW.

[Coolflow9]

It’s not the trust. I trust her with everything I have and know she will never leave me. It’s just me thinking about her past and the mistakes she’s made.