Why do guys enjoy squeezing a girl's boobs/Sucking her nipples so much?

[nightdrot]

Squeezing not so much, though rubbing feels good. Sucking though is, at least for me, incredible and I am not even sure I can explain it.

My girlfriend and I tend to a kind of primal sex. Not in a "BDSM" sense, but like two animals breeding in a field. It is very raw and primal and natural, with licking and even a little bit biting and scratching. I am the dominant alpha male and she is the submissive female.

The funny part is that it becomes, in its way, very romantic and loving. We are all that we are, reduced to our most base selves. Naked and exposed and vulnerable and it becomes total honesty and total sharing and total giving. So while very raw and primitive, it is actually very loving and romantic.

Yet I am the dominant male. She is there to accept my seed and bear my young. (We have three children, actually.) She loves that feeling too and has even said that she should be there for me for sex even when she does not want it. (I try not to push that line because I love her, although I probably have pushed it a few times over the years.)

For my girlfriend and I, sex is raw and natural and animal. However, when I begin to suck her nipples, something happens to me. I suddenly feel safe and loved and protected. It is really weird but I want to be held and loved.

My girlfriend cradles me in her arms and I am warm and loved and it just feels amazing and relaxing. I could suck on her breasts until I fall asleep - and I have.

My girlfriend, who works in family policy, thinks that it probably has something to do with recessive memories of being a baby nursing. However, that is a little too Freud for my tastes. To me it is just an intense sense of connection. (Though I will add that when my girlfriend was lactating after she had our children, it was even more intense when I could drink her breast milk - though for obvious reasons we limited that.)

So way longer and deeper than you probably expected. However, it is something that I noticed too and your question brought it to mind. When my girlfriend sucks my dick, I am the master. When I suck her breasts, I am suddenly the passive little child.

Maybe a bit weird, I admit. There it is.

[Lliam]

Boobies are soooo attractively shaped. The quintessence of femininity.

Bare breasts look soft, sensitive, delicate and vulnerable. Men find this both charming and arousing. It's something they like about women in general.

Their liquidity cannot be compressed. When squeezed, their contents shift and bulge in other directions, stretching the smooth, elastic flesh that contains them. They rebound to their natural shape immediately when released. They are substantial yet infinitely soft to the touch.

Women cross their arms beneath their breasts and cuddle them often. When a man has the opportunity to stand behind or next to a woman and cradle her breasts in the same way it's 1000 times better than holding a warm kitten. Women take their own breasts rather for granted. But a man finds them fascinating and gets endless pleasure from touching and squeezing their warm, silky-smooth softness with his hands, or gathering them up in his arms. A man can lay his cheek upon their rolly polly softness or press his face deep into them. It feels like being nurtured. Or a woman can dangle them above him for a view of their preeminent shape and unfettered mobility.

Then there are nipples - the focal points, which are also literal points. Knotted bumps that form around erect, hard nipples on aroused, constricted areolas are erotic. They, along the rubbery nipples, feel good to the touch. The color and texture contrasts against the smooth breast flesh. Some women's nipples are prominent and uniquely female with areolas that make the tips of their breasts seem to blush. They are made to suckle. As pleasurable as men find it to lick, tease, suck and even pull on nipples, the miracle is that many women find it arousing. Their breasts are erogenous. One girlfriend told me that the sensation went straight to her pussy. Titty play could make her orgasm. What could be more appealing to a man than that?

In the end, men love soft and jiggly. That's why they are so attracted to the sight of women's tits and asses. We love the sight and we love the feel. We love to sink our fingers and faces into all that soft, deep squishiness. Girls, we salute you!

[MrOracle]

Because it makes girls soaking wet and moan and writhe around and want more. Plus, they feel nice in the hands...

[zippididooda]

Because he knows he can give her the most sensual, sexy, thrilling experience she'll receive for days. If he does it right, maybe for years she'll remember him fondly for giving her that experience. It's also enjoyable for it's own sake, making her moan and writhe under the pressure of his lips on her nipples and light sucking. Sometimes it becomes an exciting pleasurable experience to fuck her between her boobs as she enjoys the feel of his cock between them.

[Anonymous]

What's not to enjoy? You'd have to be a guy I guess to get it? Same reason you want to do anything physical with a guy, because it fun, enjoyable, sensual, erotic etc. And as far as sucking nipples, at least for me personally, there's nothing hotter and more arousing then when they get hard while I'm doing it!

[ohshee]

I don't need to squeeze it I have a very light touch if anything my lips on the side of it or under it will suck Squeeze on her boobs and as for the nipple MY LIP LOVE TO SQUEEZE SUCK AND PULL ON NIPPLES

[lovetotasteyou]

Because titties are beautiful and soft. Nipples just look so fucking sexy especially when they’re hard. I like the ones that can damn near poke your eye out

[Reaperbot666]

depending on the girl. it can often get her in the mood * horny*. which can lead to other sexual interaction.

[Anonymous]

for me its just a way station on the way to the prize below. Some women seem to enjoy it and it does signal interest on her part in letting you access her honeypot

[HeyMikie]

I'm not into squeezing but I love kissing, licking and sucking on nipples. I once had a girlfriend who could orgasm if I sucked on her nipples long enough.

[Massageman]

A reversion to very early childhood?

Seriously, it's just such a nice, comforting, cozy feeling- she doesn't seem to mind either.

[OddBeMe]

Freud would say it’s something with breast feeding. But I was never breast fed and enjoy it. Prob just a cultural thing. Like anal, which isn’t that enjoyable.

[Anonymous]

probably because we start out there in life and just keep doing what we learned is comfy, fun and rewarding?

It beats putting new spark plugs in the Chevy...

[oldguystillhasit]

I don't know why. My wife says I have a boob & nipple fetish. I play with them so long my wife has to push me away from them.

[coolhandroo]

Because tits are hot and it obviously drives girls wild. I've gotten quire a few girls off nipples alone.

[winterfox10]

It tastes and feels good. It's a very satisfying experience to have a warm, soft breast in your mouth.

[Anonymous]

It’s probably instinct, and usually the woman likes it too, it’s different and a turn on for me to actually feel them and suck on the nipples, it gets me going

[YHL6965]

Here's the thing, we don't know either. Personally, when I see boobs, my mind goes blank and the only thing in it is "Oh, boobs". I don't know it's such a primal fascination.

[dthomas89]

Her pleasure, usually, but, there are other reasons

[EnglundUberAlles]

I don't know. Why do girls enjoy spending money so much?

[Bismarck_96]

Not sure but looking at it triggers your mind to do it

[Bman4907]

boobs are like legos, made for children, but older guys get way more enjoyment out of them

[chriscdi]

im more on the booty but if you ask why we like slapping but its cause it jiggles

[Atrocity]

It's throwing us back to babyhood where we used to suck the breast of our mothers to get fed ;-)

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes , i like rubbing a girls breast and sucking her nipples

[DonCachondo]

Because that's the whole point! The end-all be-all bby

[reptocarl]

Because it’s fun. Stupid question

[Anonymous]

I'm not sure I know why, but I do know that doing that gets me rock hard and ready for more! :D

[spartan55]

Because they are boobs!

[Truthatanycost]

It's a good form of exercise.

[coolfreeusername]

It's the only way my girlfriend will reach orgasm

[ThatGuy133]

They are boob guys, duh