The lady I am dating now has had 3 previous partners before me. She is a fuller figured lady and the kind in any porn shows will always show a big penis doing her.
1st : 5"
2nd : 8"
3rd : 4"
Me : 8"
She did tell me there despite me and her 2nd being the same length, it feels completely different. She said he was careful of his length and never once attempted to go all into her and mostly kept it at half into her. He never did anything to go deeper or placed her in positions to allow for deeper penetrations.
She said I've done everything her 1st and 3rd guy has done to her in bed and always thought due to my size I'd be closer to what her 2nd guy did. I told her he and I are just different, we have different likes during sex or he was giving her time to get used to his size but never got to go all in since she stopped seeing him after the 2nd time. I told her for me as the first time we did sex was after she is a girlfriend, it is something I do believe in doing that is putting all of it into her as it is a sign that I'm giving her everything and taking everything of her. The way I thrust and pump her is a combination of how I prefer penetrations to be deeper and what I'd like her to feel during sex. Did she say I am bad? She said I'm different but not necessarily bad or better than her 3rd guy who is her ex-husband of 8 years.
Alrighty then. Thanks.
A vagina is only so deep, so if a man's penis is really big, he is more likely to cause you pain if he's just ramming it in
Also, if he buys into the hype that bigger is better or watches too much porn, he might believe he's perfect because it's big. Not true. Every woman is different and the size itself does nothing. That's like saying I'll have an orgasm just by being in bed with a woman but not doing anything. You have to work at it. In a way it can be a disadvantage because he cannot help it, but we work with what we got.
Great answer, but not all big guys are brain-dead. That's my only point. Stupid comes in all sizes.
That is so not true. Penis size does not determine how well they know how to use it. I've known two men with a big penis, and both knew how to work it very very well.
In my experience bigger guys definitely know how to use them. Simply because they get more girls to practice with.
That's kind of what I was thinking. My question isn't really about dick size. It's more about how somehow, guys with big dicks are portrayed as being morons! I don't get the correlation. If a guy cums, and then rolls over and falls asleep, then he's an idiot. I can't even fathom that dick size and brain size are remotely related.
You do get the odd guy who thinks just being big is enough. But most know how to work it to their full advantage, plus how to rein it in with tighter girls.
It’s not true for all fellas with big ones , and I found that if the girl is pretty tight then she feels uncomfortable and not enjoying it like she should be instead it hurts , so I could be great with it but don’t get the full use of it
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Not true at all. From my experience guys with bigger dicks definitely know how to use them.
I have a normal sized penis, so I do not know. I have never had any complaints and it works great!!
Okay there are porn myths and maybe anti porn myths - This strikes me as one - Something invented for men to with average penises or small penises to take comfort with - Right there may be a bit of ego involved , hey look at this whopper but in reality the best way to find good sex is have a partner who you communicated with and are willing to try stuff , you will adapt until you find the things that satisfy both partners the most and that should work whether guy is 4,8 or 11 inches. Even the guy with smallest penis can bring a foot long dildo/vibrator to the bedroom
This post made me lol. Kudos to you for that 🤣
My friend and I came up with question, because we absolutely knew that no one could give a good answer! LOL "It's not the size of the wand, it's the magic of the magician." "It's not the size of the wave, it's the motion of the ocean." Ask someone to explain those two fortune cookie sayings, and they simply can't.
Lol your friend and you are pretty on point for sure.. definitely good fun conversation for sure. You 2 need to throw out some others for some comedy on here 😁
What would you suggest we throw out?
I'll never know.
its stupid to think that statement is true,
how the fuck would every single small guy be good at fucking, and every single big guy be good at it? do you think the small gene is linked to being a good fucker gene? and the big gene is linked to being a bad fucker gene?
no... they are not linked at all... so every single guy on earth (big or small) starts off without the knowledge of knowing how to fuck good... and then they later acquire it... so a small or big person is jus as likely to know or not know... how do i explain what i mean?
im jus tryna say the knowing-ness of how to fuck good or bad is spread equally and randomly throughout the whole gender of males (regardless of size)... and there is no contributing factor like penis size that means they will good or bad... its all down to whether they learnt to fuck good or not,
do u know what i mean? not sure if i explained myself properly...
a small guy has the same ability to fuck good as a big guy, size makes no difference,, its all down to whether u wanna be a good fuck, or if you've learnt to be a good fuck or not
not always true
can confirm lol
The photo LMAOOO
no its a rumor by bitter people
i'd be willing to bet that bigger guys are less skilled than average because they rely on their size more. what's with the interracial porn on every other anonymous post?
guys in general don't know how to use them
No way. Once you realize the stereotype of the guy who doesn’t move or try to pleasure a girl, then you set a rule “ladies come first”
I'm considered pretty big and I definitely know how to use it. Of them women I've been with more than half commented on my size and ability after the first time without me asking. On that note from my experiences 2 girls weren't equiped to take my size but the rest LOVED IT. Of the 2 that didn't like it one of them after almost a year didn't want anything less
Some definitely know how to use it
Smaller guys feel obliged to work harder imho, that's just my personal experience lol,,,
If you had a whopper, would you become lazy about sex? I mean, if a guy thinks that his size makes up for him not having to eat pussy, then I think he's sadly mistaken. But I'm just not buying the fact that just because you have a big dick, then by default you're stupid.
great points, a guy with a whopper who knows exactly how to please his partner would be the ideal perhaps?,
You quite possibly might be the smartest person on this site. Don't ever allow yourself to become a high ranking guru or master, because they are by far the dumbest fucks on this site. :)
Lol she's just deeply in love with his penis...
Yes, but to what extent? Would she buy his penis gifts? Would she give it a name?
Maybe you never know
But what name would you choose? Fabio?
I can only speak for myself. I know exactly what I'm doing.
I'm small and I've been able to please women many times before.
What does that have to do with guys with big dicks?
I was just emphasizing that small knows how to use it is better than big that doesn't
Why do you suppose that is?
Anyone who says size. Doesn't matter. Has a tiny dick and your gonna have to tell him it doesn't matter so you dont make him cry
I agree 100%
Def not true
Nah, I got a big penis and definitely know how to use it.
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