Is it truth girls marry or have long term relationship with nice, financially secure guys and have raw sex with super masculine bad boys?

Bad boys, masculine aggressive dominant confident guys are not good for long term relationship they are unrelayable. But they are hot and make women wet.

Nice, good guys are perfect for long term relationship but they are agreeable, more sensitive, nice guys therefore they are not hot and sexy.

So when women young and sexy they go fuck hot guys but when they want to settle and seek long term relationship they go for nice guys.
Some young women try to change and make bad boys into nice guys but they fail. Very few guy have both therefore most women out of necessity seek dual relationship.

Is this theory truth? It makes sense to me.
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Most Helpful Guy

  • Those are extremes, but the basic idea is true, yes.

    Here's a quote from COO of Facebook, Sheryl Sandberg:

    “When looking for a life partner, my advice to women is date all of them: the bad boys, the cool boys, the commitment-phobic boys, the crazy boys. But do not marry them. The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands. When it comes time to settle down, find someone who wants an equal partner. Someone who thinks women should be smart, opinionated and ambitious. Someone who values fairness and expects or, even better, wants to do his share in the home. These men exist and, trust me, over time, nothing is sexier.”

    Most women aren't as open as she was about this, but some will admit this kind of indirectly. This is why women say that they're "done with hook-ups". I'm not a MGTOW, but this is a quick video made by one, and you'll see women say this a lot. They just frame it in terms of "I didn't used to appreciate nice guys but now I do":

    https://www.youtube.com/embed/lkWTdpwplkA

    The thing is too, although I don't think that many of them actually do this consciously and plot it out, these women don't want you to know that this is the case. Of course not, because if they know they need guys who are willing to commit to them despite their promiscuous pasts once they decide they don't want that anymore, they need those guys to think that they're the winners rather than second best. They need to keep you naive.

    • Exactly man you put it amazingly. It's better sheeps to stay as sheep.

Most Helpful Girls

  • It is 100% major-league truth.

    There's an interesting YouTube video that you can search for.
    100 women were taken to a dildo factory and asked to pick out two dildos.

    One dildo was meant to represent the size they'd want for a husband.
    One dildo was meant to represent the size they want for a hookup.

    Men serve two purposes and so do women.

    Think about the Rick James lyrics to "Super Freak"

    "She's a very kinky girl,
    The kind you don't take home to mother"

    • But why not someone has both. Good looking masculine also loyal and good.

  • I'm into nice, respectful, loving, and caring, guys with a great personality, having a guy who wouldn't mind having raw sex almost every day would be awesome. Having chemistry and a real connection with a guy is also very important to me, but as for being financially secure, I don't really care if he's flat broke.

    • You are mature though. How were you when you were a teen?

    • Thank you. As a teenager and the only introvert, I did my best to keep up with my friends. I was known as the risk-taker, so I‘d always feel this temptation to explore my curiosity in everything that intrigued me. I was that friend who’d walk down mysterious dark alleys that my friends were too afraid to walk down. My curiosity for everything in life had led me to a lot of bad experiences, but I take it all as a lesson learned. I really haven’t changed much.

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  • You mean women, that homogenic mass creature?

    • Yes women, females, cunts.

    • Thanks for showing your true color, you immature, pathetic, misogynistic piece of shit.

    • Anjoy your life as an incel, loser. :D

  • Everyone is different, so I disagree. Not all women want an alpha male in particular.
    For example, I prefer more timid, quiet, nerdy guys. To me, that's sexy. And more often than not, they tend to be nice. So the probability of ending up with a guy who has both qualities is pretty high for me.

    • Why would you desire timid guy. I can understand nerds because intelligence is cool but being timid and shy specially for men isn't sexy at all. Most girls desire confident cocky type of guys.

    • It is sexy because they are fun to tease in bed. Most are overwhelmed easily and I enjoy it - especially if they are virgins, which they usually are. Plus, as a dominant woman, dominant men piss me off easily with their overall attitude. Maybe that makes me a freak, but eh, I don't care.

  • It is 100% major-league bullshit.

    • Why?