Men, would you have a relationship with a woman you had sex with on a first date/meet?

[Anonymous]

[godfatherfan]

Depends on the situation. I would not on a normal first date. however, once I setup a date with this woman on an online dating app. Unfortunately we could not get together for a week due to schedules. We ended up texting for 2 to 3 hours every night leading up to the date. and not superficial stuff either, she asked some serious questions. by the time our date day came around, we knew each other better then most on thier 10th date. after talking around it for a while, she finally just said "how about we skip dinner and you come over and fuck me" lol... After regaining the ability to speak, I agreed. It was a very nice night. One I still treasure. We did end up dating about a month after. but this was like 4 months after my divorce from someone I was with 25 years. I just wasn't ready for a relationship at all. I just didn't understand that until around that 1 month time.

[ShannonSaxon66]

I met my coke dealer (former.. many years ago) at a friends house one Friday night. She was making a delivery to us. When she got there my friend introduced us and we started talking and the power went out and we just kinda fell into each other's lips. About an hour later the lights came on and I got up to go take a shower and she got up followed behind me and ask if she could get in with me. I said sure and about 45 mins later I was in her car going home with her. I spent the rest of the weekend with her. Monday after workI went to where I was staying and collected my things and went to her house. It was over a year before I moved out. Does that qualify as a relationship?

[alleng12345]

I am in a current relationship with a woman I had sex with on the first date.

[AustinMan]

Unlikely. Men need to pursue to get invested.

[drsatan]

It's how most of my relationships have started out and I'm still on good terms with all my ex partners.

[MrNameless]

if we have chemistry, mutual interests and values, then its possible. Doesn't guarantee it will become a full relationship, but its possible

[snowboarder720]

YES!

[D_Bone_Steak]

I said yes because I have many times before. In fact the instant sex meetings are the only ones that amounted to more than a date.

[notatrap]

Im not surprised most say yes, but it's not wise. It's like having cake every single day before your birthday, and then on your birthday you won't want cake. 😎

[spartan55]

You should add more choices because this is not a simple yes/no situation.

[WalterBlack]

If you already know the person somewhat well by being a coworker or classmate, then you're already halfway there to being comfortable with that person. In those situations I could see sex on a first date leading to a relationship.

[normalice]

I've only had one relationship where we didn't have sex before becoming an item. And it was probably the most frustrating relationship I've ever had.