How many others girlfriend's or wives get a spanking for acting like a brat by their partner?

[Anonymous]

When I'm mad at my guy I tend to be a pain in the ass on purpose to annoy him. I've even gone so far to hide his wallet or clothes just to be a brat to piss him off when I'm mad.
Just curious if any other girls partner spanks them for acting up?
I've heard it's more common than we think but not sure if that's true

[Walrus_au]

Or maybe when you're mad you could act like an adult and speak to each other.

The future of humankind is going to look like a fetid swamp.

[Anonymous]

She does get a good spanking for being a brat.

Usually with a hair brush or riding crop.

[VIVANT]

What do you get for being a brat? Just curious

[Opinion Owner]

@VIVANT nothing cos the spanking is one way only.

[VIVANT]

So you are a brat with no consequence

[Opinion Owner]

@VIVANT I guess so.. What about yourself?

[Asker]

So is it playful or is she actually getting a spanking... And does she do things on impulse that she just does? I also act impulsively and have add so curious to see if she does too I also retaliate and be a major pain to my guy if he does spank me... kind of like revenge... does she do that?

[VIVANT]

Ultimately I think you all just just enjoy the spanking On both sides and create excuses for it.. bc it requires consent But doesn’t mean you have the same reasons 😊

[Opinion Owner]

girlsruleboyzdrool> if it is with the riding crop then it is just a playful tease spank. If it is with the hairbrush then it will make a mark. Yes some she does act on impulse. To spank her first have to catch her. She is good at escaping. However after a spank she does become a pain indeed and will become more demanding especially the following morning or her favorite would be to wake me up roughly 40 minutes after she finds out I had fallen asleep to tell me she is horny and she wants it. Then it will be whole nite I'd be without sleep.

[Asker]

You'd be getting consequences from me haha Like pranks and your stuff hidden when you need it Or perhaps whip cream on your face when you were sleeping.. or maybe hiding your razor or pinching you or giving little scratches to your ankles while you were sleeping Girlz rule Boyz drool bah Tell your girl to come. on here so I can give her some revenge tips

[Opinion Owner]

Are your spankings real ones or tease ones?

[Asker]

My guy has to catch me too and I'm pretty witty. I find it a game sometimes to figure out a way to get out of it and a mental challenge how to talk my way out of it but he won't let me lately say a word I'm working on a new plan I don't get horny though I get defiant and testing

[Asker]

Real

[Opinion Owner]

Do you often cry after a real spanking?

[Asker]

😒😳yes. But until that point I get him pretty pissed off intemtionallu and he doesn't know what to do so he has spanked me pretty hard.

[Opinion Owner]

Interesting, what does he use to spank you?

[Asker]

His hand. ... usually over his lap or bed and depending on the situation it's bare... but usually bare comes if I have slapped his face or pinched him or something first. It's me that triggers it... I have a temper or like testing the waters when I'm feeling feisty and defiant and moody or mad about something

[Opinion Owner]

I also do it bear when it is with the hair brush. Does he do anything special to you after he had administered the spanking?

[Asker]

No. Usually we smack talk each other or sometimes we cuddle... depending ON my mood

[Opinion Owner]

Tomorrow will be 10 years since I spanked her the first time. How long has it been going on for you? Does he also punish you any other ways or dominates you?

[Asker]

I've been getting spanked for about 1.5 years by him and only a couple times when we were engaged or dating like 12 years ago by I kinda was being a major shit. ... then about 1.5 years ago I was being a shit and was annoyed he was sleeping so pestered him all night bc I was mad he always falls asleep during movies. So anyway even though I knew he had to get up I was purposely annoying him to keep him awake... I even misted him with a spray bottle so that got me spanked. .. one other time I was mad about something so I his his wallet and made him panic about his bank cards and I. D. And he called to get things on hold and order things so I got spanked for being such an as hole. .. then it just kinda took place from there. I have silent revenge issues too where when I'm mad at someone I take secret revenge... it is an issue I do have and me scratchin him with my toenails or annoying him on purpose can get me spanked. I know what could cause me to get them but often find it estate that theory out and also enjoy the thrill of pissing him off but then hate actually getting spanked Weird. I know We never fight though and get along super good. He treats me and the kids amazing so I really do have to stop being such a shit

[Asker]

I. might add I have adhd and am emotional and extremely impulsive

[Opinion Owner]

Are you happy in the relationship?

[Asker]

Yup We both are

[Bratsondanielle]

Oh yeah I do!! I act up on purpose and defy him to make it happen. He usually does not stop the " punishment " after spank thou hehe

[Asker]

Lol... well I don't do it on purpose to get one. I actually get pissed off and it makes me test and pester him more to prove a point that he Can't spank me... which does cause me to get spanked but I have his his razors and sprayed him with water to get back at him You should try that Start hiding his stuff but don't let him know. Bahhj it's actually super funny. Although my guy does warn me if I scratch his leg with my toenails or hide his stuff he'll spank me... and then I do that shit anyway to prove he's not the boss of me. Take note I'm a major prankster and silent revenge girl and my guy new all about me when we married. No one can tame thi's girl

[purplepoppy]

Domestic corporal punishment is pretty common

[Asker]

How do you know

[VIVANT]

So you guys never just resolve the original issue

i e whatever you were mad about in the first place? 🤷‍♀️

[Asker]

Yes, we resolve lots. For example. Once we were cleaning and working on a project and he secretly didappered to watch his sports highlights while I was working So later on way latet I hid his phone and turned it off and he was panicking that he lost in the yard or street when we were doing the yard work. Lol so anyway he figured out that I hid it and I refused to give it and he needed it for work bUT I figured I'd teach him a lesson for dumping the work load on me So anyway I felt cocky and gave him a little shove... on top of hiding his stuff And he told me if I don't give his work phone he'll spank me and I told him I didn't care And then basically he did... and I felt super embarrassed and gave him his dumb phone... so anyway we actually have a super super good awesome relationship.. it may not sound like it but we do!!! I am a daredevil and a thrill seeker. We zip line, cliff jump, extreme canopy adventure, roller-coaster pull pranks so testing him is kind of a thrill We actually never fight... everything is resolved and neither of us are name calling or ever mean... he spanks me if I go to far... and often I find a thrill to. piss him. off

[VIVANT]

Hmm no I dan understand if you guys like to play pranks, but I mean you just like the spanking? bc he can’t actually legally do it without consent.

[Asker]

I don't like the spanking but he doesn't like the pesters or pinches that I do either so it goes both ways... he started it though.. so now I'm just a straight up pain when I feel. Like it to annoy him

[Blublub]

If you don’t consent to it then it’s just abuse. Sexually I enjoy that

[Asker]

I don't feel it's abuse bc I know what would get me. one and yet I do it anyway to prove a point that he's not theboss. of. me

[VIVANT]

legally it would be abuse withoit consent. You consent to it that is why it is not abuse.

[Asker]

He said he's not consenting to pinche's. Or a shove

[CubaPirate]

You know you deserve it! Red stripes across the ass are what you need

[Asker]

He would never be that mean. It's with his hand and then I give him a good ol shove or face slap

[CubaPirate]

You never know one day his palm might connect with a mighty crack lol

[Asker]

If it does he'd get it right back. ... then I'd run like crazy

[CubaPirate]

LMFAO

[Uncut]

I had an ex that was into that.

[redbottomgirl]

I wish😭 I feel bad every time. I feel like apologies aren't enough 😭

[Anonymous]

Y he sparks, do u think is it normal

[Asker]

I'm not sure if it's normal... that's why I'm asking if we're the only ones out there

[Anonymous]

Yes, and I hate it. It's especially embarrassing in public.

[Asker]

Yes!!! I hate it too Do you ever seek. secret revenge

[Opinion Owner]

Yes! I sometimes cheat on him after he spanks me in public.

[Asker]

Yikes...

[VIVANT]

What do you mean you hate it? You don’t hate it. If you hated it you’d say no then he could not do it bc it’s illegal to do so without consent. I don’t understand you guys.

[Asker]

@VIVANT I hate it I don't like to be spanked but he doesn't like to be pinched or pestered Picture two roommates annoying each other so they battle it out. So i pester and annoy in an argument perhaps pinch and he has warned if you shove me or pinch me that's assault It pisses me. off he threatens me so I become an asshole I think maybe it happens in relationships where you start off as friends first? I used to be a super big thrill taker and troublemaker... sometimes the guy loves you and doesn't know what to do when you're a pain in their ass to piss them off... seeing as they'd probably like to kick your ass , like they'd do to a guy friend, they can't. So you get spanked instead. . Not sure if that's why... I had a different boyfriend spank me before for bratty behavior too. ... and I can't really seem. to help myself from being so impulsive. I guess I'm not alone

[VIVANT]

Both of you can say no Though you and him. You guys allow it.. and impulsivity can be mastered When people get posed they talk it out normally Few people get into fist fights 😛😊 Just seens like it keeps things spiced for you I guess 🤷‍♀️😊

[Asker]

@VIVANT I have adhd and have major impulsive issues. Google adult adhd and impulse control We love each other and it is not spicing us up but it's how we've settled things lately. Can't really explain it. I don't see it as abuse at all and if I did I'd get the heck out. But I do hate it And I feel revengeful and enjoy pissing him off... like a prankster

[VIVANT]

Hmm it’s a whole other level lol I can’t understand it but I accept and respect what are you saying 😊

[Anonymous]

I am a sub. I get a spanking, and more, for no reason. Just because...

[Asker]

How come... like it's foreplay or bc of behavior

[Opinion Owner]

Just the way we arecin the bedroom. He is dom, I am sub. He does as he pleases.