Do you think it's OK for a girl to have one last fling at her bachelorette party?

[Anonymous]

I got in a debate with a friend over this. She's going to have strippers and invite friends to her pre-wedding sex party.

[Red_Arrow]

Bachelor party or bachelorette party, having a fling is wrong in my way of thinking. Once you have decided on a partner and are preparing to spend the rest of your life with them, getting fucked by someone else is just wrong. I know I would have strong second thoughts about a gal I am preparing to marry going out and fucking.

[crazy8000]

Is it for your partner?

Normally is it cheating. and fucks up everything you two have built.

On the other hand. ask yourself why do you really feel the need?
Someone that do feel the need to doesn't really love their partner in the right way yet and has some attitude problems going on.

[Asker]

No, it's my friend that's getting married.

[crazy8000]

What people misses with that tradition it's also a test if they can stay fateful when getting the opportunity to do it. also to see if they really loves each other.

[northerngal]

Well been to a few Bachelorette parties were the bride ended up getting a private dance with extras from the stripper... once it was plural. Not unusual for the bridesmaids to have a go as well. One party the maid of honor took it upon her self to wear the stripper out so the bride would could not have a go! lol

[devilman666]

Shit like this is why I don't want to get married! Most women are worthless cheating whores! Would you be okay with your husband fucking some other girl at his bachelor party?

[Mikeybear]

I think it is essential for the bride to be able to have fun one last time.

[chrissykerdock]

I think she should be able to give blowjobs not sure about coitus sex

[NewBiGuy81]

I get turned on thinking of my girlfriend sucking another guy off.

[MrOracle]

That's really up to her and her husband - but in my opinion, it's only right if they are both completely upfront about their plans and intentions with each other.

[CharlieBadger]

Your image choice would imply that she is about to have 6 last flings.

[purplepoppy]

It's traditional and we got to respect customs.

[Asker]

You're probably right, and I'm trying to become a more open-minded person, but it's going to take some time. I guess the bride and groom would really have some stories to swap during the honeymoon.

[purplepoppy]

Not just those two, it's expected others at the party to have a bit fun also.

[Asker]

I'm not sure if it's customary to video tape these type of parties, but that might be interesting for future anniversary reminiscing.

[purplepoppy]

Usually what happens at the party stays private

[Asker]

Ahhh, kind of like what happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas.

[crazy8000]

A tradition that usually fucks up everything between. Very few are okay with it and will terminate the wedding or get divorced.

[Red_Arrow]

I think that the wilder ones are more interesting to talk about, but also that there are many more that are tame and just don’t get talked about. So not really traditional.

[MrNameless]

this is something that needs to be discussed with couples first, and you can't assume men (if they have a bachelor party) will do the same thing. If neither partner is into this, don't do it. It will ruin your marriage otherwise

[devilman666]

Ofc not, cheating should never be okay. You know you'd be pissed if your husband cheated on you at his bachelor party.

[pajamasam]

Why get married if you want to sleep with other people? You gotta check your priorities, like the whole point in getting married is sticking with that one person, just before the wedding and your already making exceptions, that's gonna end badly, whether the girl or the dude does this.

[curiosity_queen]

no thanks,, thats totally a mistake

[Asker]

I was leaning in that same direction.

[lightbulb27]

I hope he smooshes cake in her face...:)
Pathetic... but maybe they are a good match, who am I to judge?

[Savage_Wisdom]

If she's not mature enough to say no to cheating on her fiance, she's not mature enough to have a fiance at all.

[KrakenAttackin]

I totally agree. And there is no "getting it out of your system", as if she cheats now she will cheat again.

[summiter]

As long as she is not having sex with them why not!

[Truthatanycost]

If any man is dumb enough to marry these disloyal millennials, then maybe they deserve to learn the only way they can... the hard way.

[Miristheiss]

I can't believe you are even asking this.
People who think this way shouldn't even have relationships.

[Miristheiss]

Even there are strippers at any pre wedding events period then this couple, will probabaly divorce in a few years regardless. 2 people too self absorbed and selfish to put the relationship and their mates feelings above their own selfishness.

[Miristheiss]

By the way, this is a troll post

[Dargil]

Why have them at all?
It't kind of like
abusing your car one last time before selling it to someone.

[GOOSEBOY78]

she wouldn't be the the first or last to bang a stripper before their wedding day.

[billmunch]

I think it's completely fine if my SO did this. The odd one stand stand isn't nearly enough for me to end a relationship.

[Ripper_E]

No, that's cheating
Would you want your husband to be to be having sex with women at his? or getting all steamy with strippers?

[genericname85]

What exactly does fling mean and include?

[misha_sundance]

I think so...

[Asker]

I think that as long as the groom's OK with it, then it's just fine.

[misha_sundance]

Yeah maybe

[wisefool]

if both partners are okay with it, no one else should take issue with it. can i message you about it?

[misha_sundance]

Yeh sure u can

[wisefool]

meant the other girl, but i'll message you too.

[malealpha00]

The girl wearing the choker is hot!

[lucas262]

If I found out my fiance had a ,, fling,, before she married me well i guess ill save a lot of money returning the ring.