Do you think it's OK for a girl to have one last fling at her bachelorette party?

Question

I got in a debate with a friend over this. She's going to have strippers and invite friends to her pre-wedding sex party.

No, it's not a good idea

Girls just wanna have fun

At least she'll get it out of here system

No! Jungle love is addicting!

Where exactly is this bachelorette party being held, and can anyone go?

Might as well, her fiance is doing the same thing at his stag party

Are these BYOB?

Select age and gender to cast your vote:

GirlGuy

Answer 1

Red_Arrow | 9.7K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

Bachelor party or bachelorette party, having a fling is wrong in my way of thinking. Once you have decided on a partner and are preparing to spend the rest of your life with them, getting fucked by someone else is just wrong. I know I would have strong second thoughts about a gal I am preparing to marry going out and fucking.

Answer 2

crazy8000 | 512 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

Is it for your partner?

Normally is it cheating. and fucks up everything you two have built.

On the other hand. ask yourself why do you really feel the need?
Someone that do feel the need to doesn't really love their partner in the right way yet and has some attitude problems going on.

Asker

11 mo
No, it's my friend that's getting married.
crazy8000

11 mo
What people misses with that tradition it's also a test if they can stay fateful when getting the opportunity to do it. also to see if they really loves each other.

Answer 3

Asker

No, it's my friend that's getting married.

Answer 4

crazy8000

What people misses with that tradition it's also a test if they can stay fateful when getting the opportunity to do it. also to see if they really loves each other.

Answer 5

northerngal | 549 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Explorer

Well been to a few Bachelorette parties were the bride ended up getting a private dance with extras from the stripper... once it was plural. Not unusual for the bridesmaids to have a go as well. One party the maid of honor took it upon her self to wear the stripper out so the bride would could not have a go! lol

devilman666

11 mo
Shit like this is why I don't want to get married! Most women are worthless cheating whores! Would you be okay with your husband fucking some other girl at his bachelor party?

Answer 6

devilman666

Shit like this is why I don't want to get married! Most women are worthless cheating whores! Would you be okay with your husband fucking some other girl at his bachelor party?

Answer 7

chrissykerdock | 1.6K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

I think she should be able to give blowjobs not sure about coitus sex

NewBiGuy81

11 mo
I get turned on thinking of my girlfriend sucking another guy off.

Answer 8

NewBiGuy81

I get turned on thinking of my girlfriend sucking another guy off.

Answer 9

MrOracle | 11.5K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Influencer

That's really up to her and her husband - but in my opinion, it's only right if they are both completely upfront about their plans and intentions with each other.

Answer 10

MrNameless | 1.5K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

this is something that needs to be discussed with couples first, and you can't assume men (if they have a bachelor party) will do the same thing. If neither partner is into this, don't do it. It will ruin your marriage otherwise

Answer 11

pajamasam | 1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

Why get married if you want to sleep with other people? You gotta check your priorities, like the whole point in getting married is sticking with that one person, just before the wedding and your already making exceptions, that's gonna end badly, whether the girl or the dude does this.

Answer 12

devilman666 | 355 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

Ofc not, cheating should never be okay. You know you'd be pissed if your husband cheated on you at his bachelor party.

Answer 13

lightbulb27 | 1.7K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

I hope he smooshes cake in her face...:)
Pathetic... but maybe they are a good match, who am I to judge?

Answer 14

OfDeath | 3.8K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

Absolutely not. The bucks night isn't about getting laid. They might watch some strippers or get drunk. The groom to be never actually engages in intercourse. As far as the bride to be is concerned, it's even worse if she did.

Answer 15

Ripper_E | 5K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

No, that's cheating
Would you want your husband to be to be having sex with women at his? or getting all steamy with strippers?

Answer 16

summiter | 9.8K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

As long as she is not having sex with them why not!

Answer 17

CharlieBadger | 1.6K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Explorer

Your image choice would imply that she is about to have 6 last flings.

Answer 18

Anonymous

Generally speaking, I can't see this being a good idea. If both partners are okay with it, though, and they both have the night to play around, I guess it's fine.

Answer 19

GOOSEBOY78 | 248 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 6

she wouldn't be the the first or last to bang a stripper before their wedding day.

Answer 20

KrakenAttackin | 2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

I have a friend who has nailed several "brides-to-be" at their bachelorette parties. No kidding, he zeroes right in on these women and has a success rate of something like 75%.

Asker

11 mo
That's an impressive percentage. I have a male coworker who attends AA meetings with his friend. He said it's a gold mine of an opportunity.
KrakenAttackin

11 mo
Wow, I should start drinking again!
Asker

11 mo
These guys weren't even part of the AA club. Neither of them even had a drinking problem. They just attended the events. They said that AA dances were the best, because the ratio of women to men was about 10:1
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KrakenAttackin

11 mo
That is amazing. Good to know.

Answer 21

Asker

That's an impressive percentage. I have a male coworker who attends AA meetings with his friend. He said it's a gold mine of an opportunity.

Answer 22

KrakenAttackin

Wow, I should start drinking again!

Answer 23

Asker

These guys weren't even part of the AA club. Neither of them even had a drinking problem. They just attended the events. They said that AA dances were the best, because the ratio of women to men was about 10:1

Answer 24

KrakenAttackin

That is amazing. Good to know.

Answer 25

lucas262 | 720 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Explorer

If I found out my fiance had a ,, fling,, before she married me well i guess ill save a lot of money returning the ring.

Answer 26

Savage_Wisdom | 108 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Explorer

If she's not mature enough to say no to cheating on her fiance, she's not mature enough to have a fiance at all.

KrakenAttackin

11 mo
I totally agree. And there is no "getting it out of your system", as if she cheats now she will cheat again.

Answer 27

KrakenAttackin

I totally agree. And there is no "getting it out of your system", as if she cheats now she will cheat again.

Answer 28

Synikal | 175 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 5

Thanks babe for the possible STD and or pregnancy scare that may or may not be mine would be the dialog running through my mind. This idea is for someone who does not take marriage seriously...

Answer 29

dthomas89

Xper 7

Nope. You can have a stripper, but, do NOT do anything else (sexually)

Answer 30

Miristheiss | 2.7K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

I can't believe you are even asking this.
People who think this way shouldn't even have relationships.

Miristheiss

11 mo
Even there are strippers at any pre wedding events period then this couple, will probabaly divorce in a few years regardless.
2 people too self absorbed and selfish to put the relationship and their mates feelings above their own selfishness.
Miristheiss

11 mo
By the way, this is a troll post

Answer 31

Miristheiss

Even there are strippers at any pre wedding events period then this couple, will probabaly divorce in a few years regardless.
2 people too self absorbed and selfish to put the relationship and their mates feelings above their own selfishness.

Answer 32

Miristheiss

By the way, this is a troll post

Answer 33

Truthatanycost | 3K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

If any man is dumb enough to marry these disloyal millennials, then maybe they deserve to learn the only way they can... the hard way.

Answer 34

JamesBlackDragon | 1.9K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 7

Is cheating so I'm going to have to say no but if her husband-to-be is ok with it why not

Answer 35

skeetskeetskeet | 1.6K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

Only if i can to... if its like that pic then she can leave now

Answer 36

Dargil | 30K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

Why have them at all?
It't kind of like
abusing your car one last time before selling it to someone.

Answer 37

Dvarik

Xper 1

I think its wrong. Your about to promise to love and be with another for eternity and yet your trying to get fucked real quick? isn't that cheating? On the other hand I think some of the shit that happens at those partys is fucking hot.

Answer 38

wannabe_cuckold_23 | 401 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 5

Personally I think it's a good idea and would prefer it to happen

Answer 39

Anonymous

A lily white girl and 5 black dudes, all ripped and tatted. What's on YOUR mind, huh?

Answer 40

curiosity_queen

Xper 2

no thanks,, thats totally a mistake

Asker

11 mo
I was leaning in that same direction.

Answer 41

Asker

I was leaning in that same direction.

Answer 42

Anonymous

Sure, but why "one last fling?"

Take her to Hedonism II for the honeymoon and let her bang all the guys she wants, while the groom gets all the pussy he wants.

Answer 43

Anonymous

Just goes to show that women should never be trusted. Like a good friend of mine says, "if it flies, floats, or fucks... borrow it".

Asker

11 mo
Like a boat?
Opinion Owner

11 mo
Yup. Boat, plane, pussy... all require more work and money than they're worth. Let someone else do all the maintenance and just make a phone call when you want to take one for a spin. That's why I love feminism. Women can keep up their own maintenance and don't need no man (just a good romp on occasion)

Answer 44

Asker

Like a boat?

Answer 45

Opinion Owner

Yup. Boat, plane, pussy... all require more work and money than they're worth. Let someone else do all the maintenance and just make a phone call when you want to take one for a spin. That's why I love feminism. Women can keep up their own maintenance and don't need no man (just a good romp on occasion)

Answer 46

purplepoppy | 7.3K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

It's traditional and we got to respect customs.

Asker

11 mo
You're probably right, and I'm trying to become a more open-minded person, but it's going to take some time. I guess the bride and groom would really have some stories to swap during the honeymoon.
purplepoppy

11 mo
Not just those two, it's expected others at the party to have a bit fun also.
Asker

11 mo
I'm not sure if it's customary to video tape these type of parties, but that might be interesting for future anniversary reminiscing.
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purplepoppy

11 mo
Usually what happens at the party stays private
Asker

11 mo
Ahhh, kind of like what happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas.
crazy8000

11 mo
A tradition that usually fucks up everything between.
Very few are okay with it and will terminate the wedding or get divorced.
Red_Arrow

11 mo
I think that the wilder ones are more interesting to talk about, but also that there are many more that are tame and just don’t get talked about. So not really traditional.

Answer 47

Asker

You're probably right, and I'm trying to become a more open-minded person, but it's going to take some time. I guess the bride and groom would really have some stories to swap during the honeymoon.

Answer 48

purplepoppy

Not just those two, it's expected others at the party to have a bit fun also.

Answer 49

Asker

I'm not sure if it's customary to video tape these type of parties, but that might be interesting for future anniversary reminiscing.

Answer 50

purplepoppy

Usually what happens at the party stays private

Answer 51

Asker

Ahhh, kind of like what happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas.

Answer 52

crazy8000

A tradition that usually fucks up everything between.
Very few are okay with it and will terminate the wedding or get divorced.

Answer 53

Red_Arrow

I think that the wilder ones are more interesting to talk about, but also that there are many more that are tame and just don’t get talked about. So not really traditional.

Answer 54

CuriousQuestions8423

Xper 2

Yes but as long as condoms are used and it's nothing too crazy. It's your last time to be free, enjoy yourself

Answer 55

duanemc86 | 264 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 6

It's never ok for a girl to involve herself with niggers. If she does, she deserves what she gets.

Answer 56

Anonymous

I think it's perfectly fine to have one last interracial BBC gangbang before the wedding, but condoms are a must.

BulletproofNY

11 mo
Hahaha sure, condoms make it ok!
Opinion Owner

11 mo
I agree
devilman666

11 mo
@Anonymous would you be omay with your husband having sex with a woman/women at his bachelor party?

Answer 57

BulletproofNY

Hahaha sure, condoms make it ok!

Answer 58

Opinion Owner

I agree

Answer 59

devilman666

@Anonymous would you be omay with your husband having sex with a woman/women at his bachelor party?

Answer 60

genericname85 | 16.5K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

What exactly does fling mean and include?

Answer 61

Anonymous

Yeah I think every woman should be able to if she wants to I let wife do it at her bachelorette party

Answer 62

malealpha00

Xper 7

The girl wearing the choker is hot!

Answer 63

BasicBad

Xper 5

American women are whores

Answer 64

ProfessionalMusician | 138 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 5

No it's not always good for reputation

Answer 65

misha_sundance

Xper 1

I think so...

Asker

11 mo
I think that as long as the groom's OK with it, then it's just fine.
misha_sundance

11 mo
Yeah maybe
wisefool

11 mo
if both partners are okay with it, no one else should take issue with it. can i message you about it?
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misha_sundance

11 mo
Yeh sure u can
wisefool

11 mo
meant the other girl, but i'll message you too.

Answer 66

Asker

I think that as long as the groom's OK with it, then it's just fine.

Answer 67

misha_sundance

Yeah maybe

Answer 68

wisefool

if both partners are okay with it, no one else should take issue with it. can i message you about it?

Answer 69

misha_sundance

Yeh sure u can

Answer 70

wisefool

meant the other girl, but i'll message you too.

Answer 71

swettannie | 1.7K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

why not lol?

Asker

11 mo
Maybe I'm just kind old fashion about these things. I guess if all the guys wore condoms at the gangbang, it would be OK. I've never been married or even been invited to a bachelorette party, so I'm kind of naive about the whole thing.
swettannie

11 mo
just enjoy your life !
Asker

11 mo
OK, but I'll start on Monday. I don't want to rush into it.
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BulletproofNY

11 mo
So it’s not a one night stand, you’re thinking of a gangbang?

Answer 72

Asker

Maybe I'm just kind old fashion about these things. I guess if all the guys wore condoms at the gangbang, it would be OK. I've never been married or even been invited to a bachelorette party, so I'm kind of naive about the whole thing.

Answer 73

swettannie

just enjoy your life !

Answer 74

Asker

OK, but I'll start on Monday. I don't want to rush into it.

Answer 75

BulletproofNY

So it’s not a one night stand, you’re thinking of a gangbang?

Answer 76

Anonymous

Godless heathens with zero self respect

Answer 77

Anonymous

Good idea. Get it out of her system.

Answer 78

Kelly6 | 4K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

I had that on my party

BulletproofNY

11 mo
How many guys? And did your fiancé know?

Answer 79

BulletproofNY

How many guys? And did your fiancé know?

Answer 80

JennieF | 3.7K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

Sure.

Answer 81

Anonymous

It’s still cheating during the relationship

Answer 82

Mindwipe

Xper 5

Wedding off.

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