If you say no during sex and he carries on?

Me and my boyfriend we’re having sex and we stopped for a second as he was a bit tired. He then asked if I wanted to carry on. I said no but then he carried on for a couple of seconds, looked at me then stopped. I’m scared he would have carried on. Would this be considered as rape?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • It’s hard to say because I don’t know what you mean by a couple seconds. Plus, he kept going for a couple seconds and then stopped, why did he stop that time?
    Technically speaking, rape is any non consensual sex and at least by Australian legal standards, consent has to be a verbally expressed clear desire to engage in sex. So if you want to stop at any point or say no, then any further is technically rape. BUT, I don’t really understand the continuing for a few seconds things. If you were genuinely scared that he would keep going and ignore you, then I’d take a step back from the relationship or if you feel comfortable doing so, discuss it with him.

    But without understanding the dynamic of those few seconds, it’s hard to say.

  • If you feel like you were being raped in that circumstance you are not mature enough to be having sex, despite your supposed age. I mean come on, give us a break.

Most Helpful Guys

  • It would have in most states IF he carried on and forced you to have sex, after you said no. Remember though, this is a legal, not a moral matter, we're talking about. If you wanted to "prove" rape in a court of law, you would have to demonstrate you did more than say a simple "no". Don't blame me, that's law.

  • Technically he had sex without your consent. But, it happened during consensual sex? Thats kinda indecisive. Your either in or out, can't do both. Women like that make it hard for men. Its easier for men not to put up with that

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  • no. it can take a couple seconds for people to register the word.

  • 🙄🙄🙄

  • geez girl. give the brotha a break. a couple of seconds? really?

  • If he carried on and didn't stop then it would've been rape but he stopped after a couple of seconds so no it's not rape

  • I have lied there and let them do it and just spread

    • At age 15? You're starting early for Hoedom.

  • Oh for fuck sake!!! Women like you are fucking up the world for everyone else.

  • yes. you have raped my mind with your illogical bullshit.

  • I think your fucking tripping hahaha no it wouldn't be considered rape