Have you ever been criticized, insulted, or shamed over your breast size preference?

I got some guys on my other polls saying that they've been shamed and/or called pedophiles for preferring small breasts.
I also had a guy on one of my polls who accused men, who liked small boobs, of being f*ggots. (Which I found particularly ironic because he himself said that if it weren't for big boobs, he'd have sex with men. Who's more gay: the person who wants to have sex with a small-breasted woman who has a vagina, or the man who would prefer to have sex with a man?)
Have you ever been criticized, insulted, or shamed over your breast size preference?
So what's your experience? Have you ever been shamed for your breast size preference?
My breast size preference is "medium" /OR/ I enjoy all boob sizes equally /OR/ I'm not into boobs at all
Vote A
I prefer small breasts. I've been criticized, insulted, or shamed for it.
Vote B
I prefer small breasts. I've expressed my preference, but never been criticized, insulted, or shamed for it.
Vote C
I prefer small breasts. I've never expressed my preference publicly.
Vote D
I prefer big breasts. I've been criticized, insulted, or shamed for it.
Vote E
I prefer big breasts. I've expressed my preference, but never been criticized, insulted, or shamed for it.
Vote F
I prefer big breasts. I've never expressed my preference publicly.
Vote G
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  • I lived in a place where A cups were not allowed in the porn because they were afraid it would make homosexuality happen.

    I've never been shamed for being with girls of any tit size directly though. I have had other women mention my current wife's tits because they're 38 double D's... whereas my fiance before her were A cups and just no mention.

    I don't know honestly if other dudes care, I don't really. I'm so old though that I've watched the definition of cleavage change from the distance between the tits to just bigger tits... then that standard of the female six pack started going away for heavier set bodies that support bigger tits.

    I say do what you want, actual healthy is in the eye of the beholder at this point in time. I imagine something like orangutan tits will be fashionable at some point before I die... fashion trends are a joke.

  • LOL about someone saying that a guy loving wonderful women, with smaller breasts, and being just AMAZING, as they are, is just such a joke!!
    But then, saying that those men that really love, and adore those wonderful women, perfect in every way, for themselves, and the guys that like them are 'gay' or some other derogatory term? LOL!!!
    I'm guessing that 'guy' is totally in the closet, and terrified of his own personal, same gender love, and just lashes out at any that are not the rigid norm, that this delusional one was raised with, maybe being abused, showing his own, true feelings, early on, and being punished for that?

Most Helpful Girls

  • What I found on insider. com about Victoria’s Secret Models:

    According to the research, most Angels stand at 5'10" tall, wear a size six dress, and wear a bra sized 32A to 32D. However, most averagewomen stand at 5'4" tall, wear a size 16 dress, and wear a bra sized 34DD to 36DD.

    Even the most beautiful models are size 32 Bigger does not mean better. And smaller does not mean they’re any less.

  • I’m an active, polyamorous, bisexual. I get judged for damn near every aspect of my sexuality. Doesn’t mean that it matters.

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  • I am not a breast guy, I am a butt guy. I have NEVER in my 41 years heard someone belittle someone for their preference in woman's breasts or busts or even for any reason at all. My group says some shallow shit too when it comes to locker room talk but if someone said something about a guy being a pedo or gay due to them saying they like woman I feel our group would immediately take notice of the one accusing the other being gay and or a pedo and start wonder if he was trying to throw shade to keep attention off himself.

    More than likely Inwould imagine you are just getting a taste of the internet and the person or people. saying that are likely just sad individuals who don't know how to interact in the real world.

  • Most people I know don't care about my preferences. There are a vocal minority who tried to make me out to be a pedophile for liking the flatness of my Chinese girlfriend at the time. There were a few other times when my liking of smaller breasts brought criticism as well. Those critics and shamers are not part of my circle of acquaintances and not a part of my life these days.

  • I have been derided for preferring smaller boobs. I have also been criticized by a girlfriend for preferring a woman who shaves her pubic hair: "You mean that you want me to look like a little girl?"

    • @OlderAndWiser You can't help the ones that just don't get it, or are too young to even really know what to do. Seems that today, we have so many opportunities to connect, and talk with different people with different ideas, yet so many of those are just so confident that their way is 'right' and any other is 'wrong' and these get 'offended' so easily, if you simply just disagree with them! What happened to the 'Good Old Days' when we could debate, argue, and never need to change the other, but just like the contrast, and debate? Then after, just going and getting a pizza and beer, and still being GOOD FRIENDS!!

    • @JackSmy The good ole days. . . R. I. P.

    • @OlderAndWiser Hey! You're not in the BOX just yet!! Those times are still alive as long as we are, remembering them, and living them! Who says these 'kids' today have the monopoly on communication? Some can't even SPELL "Communication" without Spell-Check!! LOL!!

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  • I don’t have much of a size preference but more of a shape preference. Boobs are beautiful boobs though. 👍

  • Yes, my ex. husband.

  • I enjoy all boob sizes for different reasons. That stuff just sounds like crap people on the internet say.

  • No I haven't. And I will say it in front of everyone I like small breast women I like women because they are women they are beautiful and don't need to be loud mouths to take the focus off there littledick,, and that they don't know how to even please a women that's why the keep talking about fucking each other I don't care if the women was completely flat not one of my friends would ever say what the guys that have talk crap to you because first of all they have respect for me and who I'm with and second because they respect her because she is my friend and because it's none of there business and if they give you any crap you can tell them ,,, u know what ,,,,, I understand what you mean,, then I say I feel the same way about all you little Dick men and what is really sad is even the girl with medium and large breast say the same thing go fuck yourself

  • I prefer small breasts and in fairness I was never criticised maybe a bit of "She is flat or looks like a dude" from other guys but that is quite mild - The same way I don't judge anyone else's tastes even though sometimes my brain is going "Why"

    • Why as in?

    • U can dm if u want to

    • @misha_sundance Everyone has there own preferences, I just prefer slender with small butts and breasts

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  • Of course, I have been shamed and bullied over my preferences and sexual beliefs for most of my life, more so than I have been shamed for virtually anything else.
    Having non-standard preferences means you are going to trigger all the fragile meatheads, as well as all the insecure womanfolk who don't fit said non-standard preferences.

  • I do not think I have been criticized so much over breast size preferences specifically, but I have been criticized a great deal for my preference for bigger girls in general. Guys that like big girls get shame and insults over it all the time.

    • Shame for what

  • I absolutely prefer small breasts, and I especially like that they are almost always prettily firm -- and smaller breasts look much sexier (to me anyway !)

    Thankfully I have never been criticized or insulted or shamed by anyone for expressing my preference, in the same vein I would never ever criticise anyone for preferring big breasts

    We are all different and the expression 'to each their own' is always very apt when it comes to physical & sexual attraction and preferences

  • That says more about the people accusing guys of being fags of pedos because they prefer girls with small breasts. Think about it. The thoughts are in “their” heads.

    Breasts size has always depended on the girl and body for me. There’s something likable with all breasts. I prefer C’s but would take a girl with small breasts over a girl with big Breasts and no butt

  • My usual answer is I prefer anything from Kansas flat to a firm C.
    But I have a weakness for long, thick, dark nipples.
    by the way. She is lovely. If she has long, thick dark nipples, I might be willing to crawl over broken glass to get a better look. Or better, a suck.

  • I like big ones n i have never been insulted for it n instead i have been admired that i got a sexy pair

    • How big are you talking.

    • @Sambobelfast226 well i am 36D and sometimes want them to be a size up a notch

    • 36d is huge lol. Biggest I've touched is 34b.

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  • I don't care the face matters more for attraction but yeah the ass matters a bit but yeah it's okay if she's small parts

  • It only seems to flow in one direction... Guys who prefer itty bitties are often agreed with by girls with big ones, and girls with itty bitties feel less self conscious (at least they should). But when the guy THEY like prefers big ones, the itty bitty girls get all salty.

  • Its the same thing as men who prefer fat women. People get shamed for everything

  • Despite what they tell you Flat is not justice

  • I simply don't care about breast size or what some loser has to say about it.

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    • @PetrovaFire92 Big.

    • Haha 😂🤣 you're funny I wish i had small boobs to be honest.

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  • nope the exact opposite jealousy from other girls and drooled over from guys

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