What does it mean to be convinced into having sex with someone?

rainbowdash_444 Xper 1

He asked me if I want to date him I said no, After losing my virginity for the first time, to an guy I rejected, known for a long time that wasn’t friend/partner. he told me he convinced me, what did he mean by that?

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Laozi Explorer
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That means you weren't ready for the sex but the guy convinced you to have sex with him.
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- rainbowdash_444
  +1 y
  Oh okay yeah..
Tunasub Yoda
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When you say no.. and they somehow get you to feel that it's better to say yes.
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- rainbowdash_444
  +1 y
  I said no when he asked me if he can feel his thing inside me than He asked me if we can have sex than I said yes while doing sexual activity... than he told me he convinced me from Face to face but it wasn’t anything bad
- Tunasub
  +1 y
  Just stay away from these guys if you don't want to be bothered with them. They don't want to be your friend
- rainbowdash_444
  +1 y
  I wanted to have sex with him in the end but I don’t want to again so I’d stay away from him.
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- Tunasub
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  He's going to keep doing the same thing to you. Friends don't do that to friends try to manipulate you.
- rainbowdash_444
  +1 y
  His better out of my life.. if he isn’t putting any effort to be in it. I rather be friends with benefits with someone I’m Attracted to that wants me and that I know.
- rainbowdash_444
  +1 y
  I knew the guy I lost my v card too but he wasn’t friend with benefit wasn’t attracted to him my mistake
- Tunasub
  +1 y
  Ok. You can't mistakenly be attracted to people. Either you are or aren't. I can't and won't tell you what to do. But if I were you I would cut all ties with all of them.
- rainbowdash_444
  +1 y
  I mean I made a mistake losing it to someone who I thought was a friend but I enjoyed it and wasn’t attracted to him.. I’m attracted to someone else.
- Tunasub
  +1 y
  Only you can decide how to handle the situation that you are in. It seems to me that maybe you want to have these guys doing and saying these things.
- rainbowdash_444
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  Was I convinced? he told me to kiss him than how to do a hickey than he asked me if he can put his private part inside of me than I said no than he asked me if we can have sex I said yes I want to try it than afterwards he said he convinced me but don’t know how
- Tunasub
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  You were asked the same question 2 different ways. You said no to one and yes to the other. I don't know what to say.
- rainbowdash_444
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  Me either... I said no than said yes..
- rainbowdash_444
  +1 y
  To him..
- Tunasub
  +1 y
  Do what you feel is best.
- rainbowdash_444
  +1 y
  Yeah do friends with benefits work?
- Tunasub
  +1 y
  If it's what you desire..
- rainbowdash_444
  +1 y
  Yeah just not ready for a relationship he did ask me for one but I said no and the other guy that’s my crush asked me if I want go out with him I said no but he said I’m a friend with benefit. Don’t want to go in a relationship not loving myself and wouldn’t have too much sex. But I do what makes me happy.

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WhiteShoulder Guru
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He talked you into it
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- rainbowdash_444
  +1 y
  Oh okay is that a good thing or bad thing
- WhiteShoulder
  +1 y
  Neither, assuming you had a good time
- rainbowdash_444
  +1 y
  Yeah him and I are still in contact but told him I don’t think his a friend he offered to stop talking if I wanted two but I refused. His just a pen pal and hasn’t been talking to me because his been busy. he now has a girlfriend hope there workout he won’t bother me anymore.
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- WhiteShoulder
  +1 y
  You’ll be fine
- rainbowdash_444
  +1 y
  Yep sure will be. I felt a bit yuck when he asked me if I wanted to stop talking we both used each other.
- WhiteShoulder
  +1 y
  As long as you used him to, that’s fine. Hopefully you got a good orgasm out of it, but I won’t ask you that in public.
- rainbowdash_444
  +1 y
  Yeah I did what made me happy but I told him I wouldn’t have sex with him again he didn’t care about my choice. and what does it mean when an guy thinks your playing games with sex?
- WhiteShoulder
  +1 y
  You’re doing the right thing. Sometimes it helps if you rub your clit while you’re doing it. It means he’s frustrated cause you won’t have sex with him again.
- rainbowdash_444
  +1 y
  An guy I’m interested in that I never been interested in having sex with is having a hard time accepting the fact that I don’t want sex with him And is annoyed with me having sex with the other guy.
- WhiteShoulder
  +1 y
  Tell the guy you’re interested you like him, but you don’t wanna go all the way.
- rainbowdash_444
  +1 y
  I told Him it feels like I like like him he saw in my face that I do but not wanting a relationship than he asked for a sexual relationship I said thanks but no thanks than he asked me to be more than friends one day I said I don't know. Also someone thought he wouldn’t want to date me after hearing about I’m not a virgin but his still chasing putting effort in the friendship. I let him know that Also got told to make him wait. And he asked me if I had sex with the guy to piss him off or upset him I said no to that.
poneglyphs Guru
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He talked you into sex.
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ArunT Xper 4
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I have a desire to have sex. So you look like that
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scooogy Master
+1 y
You mean coerced?
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Smegskull Yoda
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The reason to have sex came from something they presented rather than something you wanted.
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- rainbowdash_444
  +1 y
  That’s true I choose it anyway I desired it
engel23 Xper 5
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It's ok the question is did you like it?
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- rainbowdash_444
  +1 y
  Yes I did but would do it with someone I’m attracted to next time
- engel23
  +1 y
  There's only one virginity but all it matters is that you like it. Now you will realize that the person you might not do you like you think
- rainbowdash_444
  +1 y
  True I didn’t like the person but I liked the sex and next time I do it with someone else I’m attracted to