Have you ever been caned? If so, was it pleasurable?

Question

I hear people who want to be caned, but honestly I don't think it would be pleasurable in real life. I heard people typically start bleeding after the third strike. It doesn't seem pleasurable to me. Have you experienced it?

Have you ever been caned? If so, was it pleasurable?

I've never been caned

I was aroused by the idea of being caned, but when it really happened, it wasn't pleasurable

I was aroused by the idea. It's pleasurable in real life, but the pleasure is outweighed by the pain.

I was aroused by the idea. The pleasure is equal to, or greater than, the pain

I wasn't aroused by the idea of being caned, and I didn't find it pleasurable when I was caned

I wasn't aroused by the idea of being caned. When I was caned, it was pleasurable, but the pleasure was outweighed by pain

I wasn't aroused by the idea of being caned, but when I was caned, the pleasure was equal to, or greater than, the pain

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GirlGuy

Answer 1

Lliam | 2.2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Canes can cause deep bruises, welts and deep bruises. I would never consent to being caned and I would never do it to a woman even if she asked. That's sado-masochistic shit. However, I do get erotic pleasure from spanking a woman's bare ass with my hand. It might make her skin pink, but causes no damage.
I like swatting a woman's ass, especially when I'm fucking her from behind. And one of my sick fantasies is to bend a woman over my knee, put one of my legs over hers to keep her from escaping, grasp her wrists with one hand, and spank her bare ass until it's red as she squeals, cries, wriggles, and begs me to stop. In reality, I would never do anything to a woman that she didn't want.

Answer 2

SissyFrenchMaid | 912 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 6

I was caned on my bare butt in front of the whole class at school. It was very humiliating and especially by the fact that I had an erection for the first time in front of others. The actual caning wasn't a pleasure at the time but I was sexually aroused by the humiliation

mistixs

11 mo
For some reason I feel like this is just your fantasy and not something that actually happened

Answer 3

mistixs

For some reason I feel like this is just your fantasy and not something that actually happened

Answer 4

LittleTurtleDuck | 123 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 6

I've not been on the receiving end, but I've been involved with giving spankings and I do know why some people like the feeling of pain as sexual pleasure:
In the brain there are receptors that light up in an MRI-scan. While subjecting people to sexual plesure and then pain, almost the exact parts of the brain lighted up. This is why some people enjoy pain; it is pleasant or arousing to them.
The level of pleasurable pain differs per person and it has also ties to BDSM because someone who is not into subsisting to their partner is less likely to enioy pain, but this the science behind the whole idea.

LittleTurtleDuck

11 mo
Submitting* not subsisting

Answer 5

LittleTurtleDuck

Submitting* not subsisting

Answer 6

Anonymous

I get caned once or twice a month. It hurts like hell. No pleasure and not aroused

mistixs

11 mo
Why do you get caned?
Opinion Owner

11 mo
My lover is a bit of a sadist
mistixs

11 mo
It does not matter if it is his kink; if you don't want it to happen, then that is abuse.
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Opinion Owner

11 mo
I don't mind. It could be worse
mistixs

11 mo
Just because it could be worse doesn't mean it's not still really bad. Caning is used as a punishment for murderers in many countries. That demonstrates how horrific it is
Jamie05rhs

11 mo
What @mistixs said.
Opinion Owner

11 mo
Thanks for your concern, but it is our way of being together.
mistixs

11 mo
Why do you want to be with someone who abuses you?
Opinion Owner

11 mo
It is only in the bedroom. He is dominant, and I am submissive. It is just how I am. In real life, he is the best guy I could ever wish for. Incredible personality
Jamie05rhs

11 mo
Still... If he's hurting you, he's hurting you. It doesn't matter what "room" it's in. It's still real life.
Opinion Owner

11 mo
@Jamie05rhs Simply I am sub. We have a safe word should it ever get too much, but it has never been used in the time we have been together.

Answer 7

mistixs

Why do you get caned?

Answer 8

Opinion Owner

My lover is a bit of a sadist

Answer 9

mistixs

It does not matter if it is his kink; if you don't want it to happen, then that is abuse.

Answer 10

Opinion Owner

I don't mind. It could be worse

Answer 11

mistixs

Just because it could be worse doesn't mean it's not still really bad. Caning is used as a punishment for murderers in many countries. That demonstrates how horrific it is

Answer 12

Jamie05rhs

What @mistixs said.

Answer 13

Opinion Owner

Thanks for your concern, but it is our way of being together.

Answer 14

mistixs

Why do you want to be with someone who abuses you?

Answer 15

Opinion Owner

It is only in the bedroom. He is dominant, and I am submissive. It is just how I am. In real life, he is the best guy I could ever wish for. Incredible personality

Answer 16

Jamie05rhs

Still... If he's hurting you, he's hurting you. It doesn't matter what "room" it's in. It's still real life.

Answer 17

Opinion Owner

@Jamie05rhs Simply I am sub. We have a safe word should it ever get too much, but it has never been used in the time we have been together.

Answer 18

AustinMan | 40.1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Influencer

I've caned a lot of women and none of them has ever bled. A guy needs to study and practice before caning his lady and then be careful. My ladies generally love it, esp when bound to a piece of furniture.

Answer 19

humanearth | 2.9K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

My wife has done it to me a few times. Sometimes its enjoyable and sometimes its not.

It depends if she warms me up first or not.

By Warming up I mean by starting out with light spankings and build me up for more.

Starting out cold is painful as a motherfucker and a complete turn off. When that happen I completely lose the mood.

Answer 20

akihon

Xper 6

No but I've done it to a woman, we used a riding crop and it was used on her breasts, butt and pussy.

She was tied to the bed at the time, was dealing with a few toys put into places where only certain toys go and wearing a blindfold.

She had a fantastic time and so did I

Answer 21

MrKinktastic | 2.9K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

I’ve caned quite a few people in a bdsm context and it can be anything from mild tapping to deep welts depending how hard you go/how much you warm them up. That said caning is generally considered one of the heavier/harsher forms of impact play. Spanking is at the other end of the spectrum as is something like a soft deer/suede flogger.

Answer 22

Jean-Marie_Céline | 1.9K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

I got caned, and didn't like it at all.
I did it only for her.

Answer 23

Anonymous

A caning can be severe, but it's also possible to be much less severe and stimulate without bruising. My wife likes it but not to the point of bruising. If you are interested in trying it, make sure you have a partner you can trust. They can start slowly and gradually increase the intensity based on your reaction. They should only strike the buttocks. It's good for the recipient to bend over so that the back is not exposed.

Answer 24

mrkdvsn | 2.3K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

What's that place... Singapore? where they cane you if you break any of their rules/laws? Sorry, but I don't enjoy any pain-producing activities.

Answer 25

KrakenAttackin | 2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Not caned, but I have been pepper-sprayed, that sucked.

Answer 26

Jude_Wills | 649 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

I never done in real so can't say.
But will try once in real life

Answer 27

SexSlaveGirl

Xper 1

I like being spanked, hit with a crop, and paddled. Caning arouses me, but the pain is usually equal to the pleasure such that it feels good enough in the moment, but too painful to appreciate after the fact.

Answer 28

Anonymous

I have been spanked before and I rather enjoyed it. This one guy had a favourite wooden spoon he used to use. I imagine caning isn't much different. I love looking at my ass all bruised

Answer 29

sophiejo | 610 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 7

I been spanked with a paddle and with a riding crop but never caned no thanks way too much pain

Answer 30

mattym11 | 56 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 5

Used to get caned regularly, didn't enjoy it though. My school caned us for being naughty 😂 bum & palms of hands, hurt like hell, does that count?

Answer 31

ThatGuy133

Explorer

I was caned and that crap hurt. They were acrylic singles and bundles.

mistixs

11 mo
Why were you caned?
ThatGuy133

11 mo
I worked at a porn shop that sold the canes. I took the licks out of curiosity.

Answer 32

mistixs

Why were you caned?

Answer 33

ThatGuy133

I worked at a porn shop that sold the canes. I took the licks out of curiosity.

Answer 34

Lunatic1 | 598 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 7

I've never experienced it, but I don't care for suffering pain.

Answer 35

NorthwestRider | 2.2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Yes by my fiancée often

I find it very sexy being a sub towards a woman hehe

Answer 36

Plitty-Tank

Yoda

I've never been caned in my life and plan never to be.

Answer 37

Anonymous

I was caned on the soles of my feet by my ex like a 100 times. It was quite painful but somehow I enjoyed it. Didn’t think I would in the beginning!

Answer 38

the_sinner | 567 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

As a kid Whenever I did some serious mistake I was caned by my father and it hurt like hell.

Kairose

11 mo
I agree same went for me. it fcking hurts
the_sinner

11 mo
Yup
But at least now I'm way disciplined as an adult.

Answer 39

Kairose

I agree same went for me. it fcking hurts

Answer 40

the_sinner

Yup
But at least now I'm way disciplined as an adult.

Answer 41

Creepazoid

Yoda

I dont even know what that is

Creepazoid

11 mo
Lol nvm of course I dont know what that is I'm not a trash submissive scrub

Answer 42

Creepazoid

Lol nvm of course I dont know what that is I'm not a trash submissive scrub

Answer 43

theAMAZINGthumbs

Xper 1

We were experimenting with spanking using implements. A cane wasn't amongst them.

Answer 44

Pipeliner87

Xper 6

It was great being canned.

Answer 45

msc545 | 3K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Ugh - I think it would hurt a lot

Answer 46

Anonymous

If you enjoy caning, you’re doing it wrong.

Answer 47

Jamie05rhs | 3.7K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Wait- are those metal?

Jamie05rhs

11 mo
@mistixs
mistixs

11 mo
No clue
Jamie05rhs

11 mo
Well, they look metal to me. And that looks like it would hurt a LOT. The first time I heard you talk about "caning" I though you were referring to a wooden cane like the kind Kris Kringle had in "Miracle On 34th Street."

Answer 48

Jamie05rhs

@mistixs

Answer 49

mistixs

No clue

Answer 50

Jamie05rhs

Well, they look metal to me. And that looks like it would hurt a LOT. The first time I heard you talk about "caning" I though you were referring to a wooden cane like the kind Kris Kringle had in "Miracle On 34th Street."

Answer 51

lovedejj_xo | 460 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

I don’t know what that is

MrNameless

11 mo
you're hit with a stick, usually multiple times
lovedejj_xo

11 mo
I’ll pass on that

Answer 52

MrNameless

you're hit with a stick, usually multiple times

Answer 53

lovedejj_xo

I’ll pass on that

Answer 54

Chris006 | 134 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 5

I like the idea, but have not tried it yet.

Answer 55

Beta3

Xper 2

I got caned and I loved it

Answer 56

LuWe22 | 2.1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

No thank you.

Answer 57

wtfhunt

Xper 5

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