How to find a virgin man (between 30 and 40 years old) without asking him?

As a 28 years old woman without any sexual experience (not even a kiss) I would like to discover everything with a man in the same situation as me (ideally in a marriage relationship) ? But how to find a 30+ year old virgin man? It's too strange to ask him directly. And unfortunately people seem to want to "test drive" before marriage.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Yeah there are some, in certain religions for example, no sex before marriage, not had the opportunity or confidence. They don't wear I'm a virgin badge unfortunately for you so you will have to ask I would think 😊

    • How and when is it the best way to ask without making it awkward?

    • Talk with them for a bit first then if it was me I'd just bring it up like I'm waiting, what about you

  • I am exactly that guy, except that I'm older than 40. The only way I know for you to find out, apart from being a very keen observer of his movements and conversation, is to ask.

    • What are those signs? How and when is it the best way to ask without making it awkward?

Most Helpful Girls

  • i think most those who reached +30 and they still virgin are religious bc they can't have sex before marriage,, ( like Muslims and other religions)

  • Unless he's religious or ugly then good luck with that

    • You mean ugly men don't get Girl?

    • @loserman Nope because there are exceptions to everything, but it IS a lot more unlikely

    • Just Google "Hardik Pandya Girlfriend"

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  • Tinder maybe? He may say he is a virgin but you will never know?

  • Check his hymen

  • You can't find out if a guy is a virgin without asking him.

    • How and when is it the best way to ask without making it awkward?

    • When you talk about when you want to become physically intimate.

  • There are some, & I know a few.

    • But usually have to find someone who has a religious background. As for asking if they are a virgin, well that's something you can ask when you feel comfortable enough with each other. Sometimes the guy will be comfortable enough to find a reason to tell you anyway.

    • How and when is it the best way to ask without making it awkward?

    • That's difficult to know. But a lot of guys once you get to know them won't mind the direct question.

  • Hummm you go girl

  • Do you like old man

    • I would prefer someone around my age so around 30 to 40

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  • It's easier than you think. Just write in your dating profile that you are looking for a virgin. It works.

  • It's obviously much easier to find a virgin male in that age bracket than the other way around

  • Well, you can't really be sure unless you ask directly, and even then I guess it's possible that he won't be completely truthful.

    • How and when is it the best way to ask without making it awkward?