Which one (s) would make you want to no longer pursue the person?

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Would the things on the poll cause you to find them unattractive or boring? I dont see those things as unattractive or boring but then again im biased in this situation 😂 I started to add “more tits than ass” on the poll but im pretty sure i already know how most feel about that 🤣 Im expecting to see some “so what does this person do for fun?”... kinda sad and immature if people think smoking/drinking/partying are the only ways to have fun #FeelFreeToList

TallAnon · Accepted Answer

I would actually prefer them not to smoke, not to party, not to drink alcohol, stay home often and be smart.

No sex for 6 months sounds like a tough objective for a pervert like me, but for the right girl, I'd probably try.

hellionthesagereborn · Accepted Answer

Considering that I don't smoke, drink, party, have casual sex, I am book smart, I am more of a homebody I'd say that sounds ideal rather then a turn off.

potatoiswhoiam · Answer

All of these would make me like them even more cuz I'm not into any of them!

Lliam · Answer

I would care of they smoked or drank in moderation. In fact, I would almost prefer it.

Partying? I'm not particularly into drunk, giggling, screaming party girls. There is nothing about clubs, pulsing music or dancing that I enjoy. But I very much like people who enjoy having fun.

I don't think I would be attracted to someone who preferred being indoors. All the time? Doing what? I would prefer someone who is fine doing indoors things but also loves nature and the outdoors and is a bit adventurous. A person would be no fun if they didn't enjoy any outdoor sports or occasional hikes, a swim in the ocean or a clear lake, trips to national parks, or at least day at an arboretum.

I don't care so much about book smarts. But the term street smarts sounds like knowledge of how to survive in the hood. I'd just want someone who was smart, funny, intuitive and open minded. But being ultra-hip or versed in pop slang is not attractive to me.

I voted D because that would be a huge deterrent. Why would a guy want to pursue a woman (or vice versa) if sex wasn't involved? Is the entire purpose of a relationship to find the perfect person to marry? Would I pursue a woman strictly because of her extraordinary personality? I mean, there are lots of people I could have platonic relationships with.
I can understand not jumping into the sack with someone after a couple of dates. It makes sense to hang out together long enough to get to know each other, develop a level of trust, see if you genuinely like each other as people and not just as sex objects, and decide if there are any red flags. But, at some point, withholding sex is weird.
I wouldn't know what to think about a woman who did so. Does she have a weak libido? Is she a fearful, timid little girl? Does she have some kind of religious or cultural hang up? Fuck that. I admire someone who is selective and cautious. But I also want them to be horny, even ravenous.

cheapshotbob · Answer

i would still pursue them but i would not do anything to influence them r anything so they would know im not trying to be with them just because there din what there doing.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I have waited for sex in previous relationships. Worth waiting for!

whatisaname · Answer

Lol why would any of these by themselves matter? They're such miniscule things compared to what really matters in relationships. Love of course, and can the two of you get along, not agree on or like the same things, but get along. That's what really matters.

Regmorus · Answer

if more time at home wouldn't mean, that the person doesn't like to go in the nature or for a walk, these things woudn't stop me from pursuing this person, if I'd be in pursuing her.

sossosxo · Answer

I would pursue them still, I wouldn't participate in some , like drinking and partying. It's not my thing but I wouldn't block them if those were part of their interests. I wouldn't pursue if any of these options came to an extreme where I was put aside or any became like an addiction to where they dont know when enough is enough

zoeadams3 · Answer

I went with F. My husband is an engineer, and is more comfortable being in the plant or construction site than cooped up in an office all day. And he helps me work on my car (we both work on it).

ecfresh · Answer

No red flags in those options

Hans222 · Answer

Definitely E, I need to be able to go outside. Today I even went for a short walk after work, with an umbrella. I needed fresh air!

yesman1232 · Answer

As a smoker I am open to dating a girl who is not into smoking, maybe she might be able to convince me to quite 😂😂 doubtful though as most people who don't smoke usually don't date other people who do

jgokgotit · Answer

Smoking is the only absolute dealbreaker on this list.

Dav1ss · Answer

Smoking like all the others are basically me in a nutshell 😂😂

DictumVeritas · Answer

My deal-breakers as a young man were: (Those with stars * still stand if I were ever single again):

1) * She has ever dated even a single black man.
2) She has an extensive sexual history. I still won't date a confirmed slore.
3) * She's a feminist or libtard.

Dargil · Answer

I had to choose, so I picked A  But then there's D. When I start dating. It's simple. If she doesn't make me cum in a reasonable time, she will make me go.

SirRexington · Answer

I went more than 6 months in a relationship without sex and it was fine, I didn't even really think about it because I loved her. But I would be less patient this time.

All of these traits though are good ones. I'm glad she doesn't smoke or like to drink or party. I don't either. In fact that would be dealbreakers if she did do them.

ShannonSaxon66 · Answer

I think that if you haven't had sex before the six month mark, you are on a chastity crusade together or you both are carrying some disease. I personally do not want to wait six months to find out we are not sexually compatible. I don't want to waste a third date. Shits expinsive

mimi051998 · Answer

I would not like that they werent into smoking anything (weed, cigarettes, hookah, etc)

Phoenix98 · Answer

A  If they smoked weed that's an instant deal breaker. And or B Since I have no interest in party girls.

Pink2000 · Answer

Being more book smart than street smart... I can’t be with a man that doesn’t know anything about the streets. He can’t be being stupid and have us both getting robbed.

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