Is it Transphobic not to date a transgender?

[Anonymous]

[lucas262]

Is it transphobic go say you can be a man or woman and call yourself a woman or a man

But wanting Dosn t change your biological make up.

You won t hear me call someone a man who is a woman, that isn't be being unkind the unkind thing to do is perpetuate their insanity.

To try and twist science based on the current morality felt by the crowd is pandering, Dosn t make it right and it Dosnt make it true.

Iv had people tell me its him or her now no, no it isn't.

You should careless about what people think of you, especially the kind of people you cannot please.

1 day they will want to legalize pedophilia as an orientation, they are already lobbying to join the lgbtq.

Will the narrative then be that fucking kids and animals is ol and of yiu say no your what? Beastial/pedo phobic?

Well yes i am and your a sick fuck that needs help.

And I believe those people should have a voice to say I am sick and need help before I do Somthing horrible. But that is a totally different thing from legalizing the act. This is where are at. Where throwing morality out the window has gotten us.

There is nothing natural about anything in the lgbtq yes they have the right to choose and i firmly support their freedom to

But it'll never be anything less than sin and perversion to me. And y'all can take it anyway you want cause i doubt many will have to guts to be honest with you.

[Dchrls78104]

That's right

[hellionthesagereborn]

By that reasoning every gay man hates and fears women and every lesbian hates and fears men. If a transgender makes that claim then they themselves are not allowed to have a preference i. e. if your transgender your not allowed to be attracted to only men because according to this that is hateful descrimination towards women. So no, that is logically inconstant and no one has the right to force some one to date them, you not entitled to love, a relationship, or sex those things are earned. Its just another attempt to force their will on others.

[coldmarch]

Social acceptance really shouldn't be measured by your potential to be sexually attractive or to find out long-term partners...
• When the society doesn't accept you -outside- the romantic/sexual sphere, it's phobia.
• When partners don't come to you, it's sexual preferences or tastes.
• And yeah, someone that doesn't want you as partner may also not accept you in the society, but this isn't a granted link. I think most of people that refuse you romantically/sexually accept you in the society anyway.
Dating can be a delicate process, you can see already between cisgenders how much very small details or aspects are deal-breakers, and how much people behave illogically, how much they fall for the wrong persons, how many times they do mess, and especially... How much people work daily on themselves to try being attractive as much as possible, shaping themselves, changing their habits etc. Because it's extremely easy to be refused.
So when someone has "something wrong" for dating and would be thrown in the friendzone by everyone, usually it's suggested to work a lot on your personality, social skills, positivity, charm etc. That might be your case... Although I understand it's pretty much difficult and discouraging but transgenders group online for supporting each other anyway, like every minority that has a hard time in being happy with people around.

[Slyfox163]

I wouldn't necessarily consider it transphobic, I'm genderfluid. I just think that if you don't like someone, you shouldn't feel obliged to date them. If you like them, date them, if not, don't. Maybe it's not exactly because they are transgender, but because of the fact that they still give off feminine or masculine vibes, (I hope you know what I mean). Sometimes, you don't have a clue and you still fall for them. I think it's all on personality, not gender.

[CountessSarah]

Hi, Tgirl here.
No, dating preferences are not bigotry. People are welcome to pick and choose who they will/will not date for whatever reason.

[meesegoMoo]

Are you racist because you won't have sex with every mixed race man you have a chance with?

[BitterSweetApplePie]

I prefer dick, mkay?

If you're trans and don't have a dick, sorry! :)

[AzureGirl]

I think it depends on your reasoning.

[Asker]

How do you mean?

[AzureGirl]

Like I personally couldn’t see myself with a trans man long term because I want biological children with my husband. It’s not against them being trans, it’s more to do with our futures not being able to line up. It would be transphobic if you’re against dating someone who is trans because you dislike transgenders. Basically if you flipped transphobic to racist and it fits then chances are it can be viewed as transphobic. If that makes sense?

[Asker]

So you disagree with that sign?

[AzureGirl]

Not really in that wording, no. The sign is pretty off the mark. Genital preferences go way outside of transgender. Like I’m straight, that doesn’t mean I’m against lesbians because they don’t have a dick.

[whatisaname]

Oh man I'm gonna catch so much crap for this. I'm gonna be straight up with you. No disrespect to trans people and gay people, but if you date a trans you're gay. They are men with fake boobs if they had enough money to get them. If not, then men crossdressing only. If that's what you're into, cool, fuck what anyone else thinks. If not, then you don't wanna date a trans. Sorry, I have friends that are trans, but that's just the way it is. I'm sure someone will post a PC sugarcoated answer though for all of you I pissed off.

[mrhappy69]

You can get real titts, its called hormones.

[Slyfox163]

@mrhappy69 Yeah, but it costs A LOT.

[Slyfox163]

I don't see that being disrespectful, I just think people would easily take that to offence because they misinterpret it.

[JackSmy]

Ok, this sht is getting out of hand! A lot of people need to GROW UP, and realize people are different, and that is NORMAL, and OK!
"Transphobic" for NOT DATING a transgender? Really? That is TOO OFFENSIVE, and a violation of my rights to CHOOSE!!

[Drowningkingfish]

A movement and romantic relationships aren't applicablely the same thing.

[Pamina]

How come this question is being asked here like once a week? Almost no one will ever get into a situation like this ever in their whole life, so I have no idea why so many people here think this is even an issue.

[Asker]

That was posted at the University of Liverpool a couple days ago. I guess they shouldn't have , if it's not an issue according to you

[Pamina]

I'm not saying anyone "shouldn't". I'm just wondering why so many people are so occupied with this scenario when it most likely won't ever happen to any of them ever.

[Asker]

You Do know that if the topic comes up at that uni, (since it's highlighted) you can be reported if you said you wouldn't date a transgender right? It has happened.

[Pamina]

That's interesting, can you give me a link to a source to that? I'd love to read about it. And still, I wasn't talking about that university, I was talking about people here on GaG. I'm just wondering how this topic will ever practically affect their lives at all.

[Asker]

Isn't that the purpose of this site? To discuss different topics. How many questions here affect your everyday life? I'm pretty sure less than 5% overrall SMH.

[Pamina]

Once again - I'm not saying people shouldn't ask these question. I'm too just asking a question - I'm wondering why so many people are interested in a topic that doesn't affect them. No judgment, just curiousity. So no need to get defensive. I'm just trying to understand. So do you have a link? I googled it but didn't find anything about that.

[Asker]

Defensive? Lol you were trying to be a smartass like you always do here and got called out. 😂😂 Have a nice night 😂😂

[Pamina]

Nah, I just see through the bullshit of you bigots. All you ever do is bash the weakest minorities. You fucking losers. And of course you have no link. Because it's again just bigoted right-wing propaganda lies. Go fuck yourself, bigot. :)

[R4vedave]

No, absolutely not. Genital preferences AREN'T transphobic, that's just some shit that the extreme people like to yell, all of the people I know who are trans don't follow that kind of bs, but the ones who do just happen to be the loudest group.

[BrexitAteMyLobster]

It doesn't matter whether it is or not, you are not obliged to date anyone that you don't want. That is the fundamental truth and it doesn't need to go any further than that.

[NickiB1]

homophobe 😱

[BrexitAteMyLobster]

No, I'm just a Nickiphobe 😏

[NickiB1]

NOOO!!!😭😭😭😭🤮🤮🤮🤮oops I'm sorry.

[BrexitAteMyLobster]

Lmao 🤣

[Miristheiss]

Quit being dumb.
This is too stupid to even answer.

[Dargil]

Am I misandrist if I don't want to date another guy?

[Bandit74]

I really don't care if it is or isn't. Calling me transfobic is not going to make me any more likely to date a trans person.

[MackToday]

No and the ones pulling the strings behind that sign know it as well. Their a bunch of communists getting trannys fired up to do their dirty work any way they can. When their done with them, they'll shoot all of them.

[StarGayle]

Short answer
No

[gagsucs]

thats like saying girls are manophobic for not wanting to suck my dick,
like geez... people are allowed to have their preferences... we dont have to force people to be into us

[chriscdi]

is it homophobic to not want to date a gay?

[Asker]

Exactly

[genericname85]

no, that's so called "personal choice" that everyone is very much entiteled to.

[fashionguy17]

See? This is getting fucking stupid. This LBGTQis so freakin' sensitive. It's not transphobic to not date a transgender. If you date a transgender person, you need to question your sexuality... that means your gay or bisexual. A straight person wouldn't date a trans a person. Not because they hate trans people, but because they are STRAIGHT!

I know someone is going to come in and try to argue with me and say, "Well, if you get a sex change operation, you are no longer your previous sex." If you want to argue this with me, let's do it. Doesn't matter if you get a "sex change" or not... you are still the gender you were assigned.

[John_Doesnt]

No it's not. I don't want a woman who ever had a penis, but I'm okay with anybody who is transgender.