Guys, can you have sex with a girl without feelings for her?

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Yes- Don’t need feelings

No- I have to like her first

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Answer 1

4eyes2mouths | 631 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Explorer

Kinda really depends on how I'm feeling that day. I've turned down beautiful women just because I didn't feel a spark of interest in them other than physical attraction. Where as other times I was like well I'm horny and you're here so let's fuck.

Answer 2

Telekinetic-Potato | 1.4K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

I'm just trying to enjoy my time right now. I don't need all that. I don't think I'm at a point of my life where I should have all that right now.

I've done it before and I'm sure I'll do it again.

Asker

1 y
My guy friend-who is a 21yr old virgin is obsessed with losing his vCard lol. But I keep telling him to wait for someone special. But I don't know if he will find it anytime soon so he may sleep with a random.
Telekinetic-Potato

1 y
I don't know, my first girl was this chick who was really mean to me (we were young) and we got paired for 7 minutes in heaven. and she liked what I did enough that she came to my place not long after. I wouldn't say I had feelings for her but I did have a type of relationship with that girl and I do hold value to it.

But I don't think that it's this huge deal that your first person needs to be this special person. At the end of the day, he's looking to experience the sex part.

Answer 3

Asker

My guy friend-who is a 21yr old virgin is obsessed with losing his vCard lol. But I keep telling him to wait for someone special. But I don't know if he will find it anytime soon so he may sleep with a random.

Answer 4

Telekinetic-Potato

I don't know, my first girl was this chick who was really mean to me (we were young) and we got paired for 7 minutes in heaven. and she liked what I did enough that she came to my place not long after. I wouldn't say I had feelings for her but I did have a type of relationship with that girl and I do hold value to it.

But I don't think that it's this huge deal that your first person needs to be this special person. At the end of the day, he's looking to experience the sex part.

Answer 5

Axel624

Xper 4

No I believe sex is a very personal thing and if you guys arnt on the same frequency then it's just not fun

Answer 6

dthomas89

Xper 7

They call that, having one night stands

People will also say they do "friends with benefits"

but

Those are just relationships, without the label

YOU DONT FUCK YOUR FRIENDS

I WOULDN"T

IM NOT GAY

Answer 7

Red_Arrow | 9.7K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

Consider all the men who pay prostitutes for sex. Now think about your question again.

Answer 8

smb930 | 92 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 5

All you need is a male and a female. One hard and one wet. That said, genuine feelings are better than one night stands. Just saying...

Answer 9

genericname85 | 16.5K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

I can but I would prefer to have sex with feelings.

Answer 10

Groyper

Xper 2

I mean, I personally wouldn't. But I know many who get drunk and have casual sex.
Also, you don't need to love someone to fuck when you're horny.

Asker

1 y
My guy friend-who is a 21yr old virgin is obsessed with losing his vCard lol. But I keep telling him to wait for someone special. But I don't know if he will find it anytime soon so he may sleep with a random.
Groyper

1 y
Well my buddy did just that, with no protection and he's 17.
He felt ashamed and guilty ever since..
Asker

1 y
Yeh. I dot recommend it at all!
But to each their own

Answer 11

Asker

My guy friend-who is a 21yr old virgin is obsessed with losing his vCard lol. But I keep telling him to wait for someone special. But I don't know if he will find it anytime soon so he may sleep with a random.

Answer 12

Groyper

Well my buddy did just that, with no protection and he's 17.
He felt ashamed and guilty ever since..

Answer 13

Asker

Yeh. I dot recommend it at all!
But to each their own

Answer 14

Kru2020 | 126 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 6

Personally, i'm looking for someone i like spending my time with rather than someone i am just going to have sex with.

Asker

1 y
My guy friend-who is a 21yr old virgin is obsessed with losing his vCard lol. But I keep telling him to wait for someone special. But I don't know if he will find it anytime soon so he may sleep with a random.
Kru2020

1 y
It's hard out there now... Unfortunately we're at a point where most girls don't find a vast majority of men attractive because of dating apps and social media its making it hard for everyone who wants a relationship or wants to date.
Asker

1 y
Soooo true!!!
All my guy pals are so lonely and wish for a girlfriend. None of them can find them.
Or a girl ghost them quickly. Like they will set up a date- then cancel. It’s so sad

Answer 15

Asker

My guy friend-who is a 21yr old virgin is obsessed with losing his vCard lol. But I keep telling him to wait for someone special. But I don't know if he will find it anytime soon so he may sleep with a random.

Answer 16

Kru2020

It's hard out there now... Unfortunately we're at a point where most girls don't find a vast majority of men attractive because of dating apps and social media its making it hard for everyone who wants a relationship or wants to date.

Answer 17

Asker

Soooo true!!!
All my guy pals are so lonely and wish for a girlfriend. None of them can find them.
Or a girl ghost them quickly. Like they will set up a date- then cancel. It’s so sad

Answer 18

8michael2

Xper 2

Cause sex with just anyone is about Cumming and you dont need feelings to get off

Answer 19

ChiTown33 | 1.9K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

I could. But what would be the point?

Answer 20

chriscdi | 7.2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

yes its called lust

Answer 21

OfDeath | 3.8K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

Yes very easy

Asker

1 y
So could you love another girl you can’t have-but have sex with random chicks?
OfDeath

1 y
I could never LOVE a girl I can't have. True love is not a one way street.
However, I can have sex with a girl I don't love because sex is just a physical release. Also the way to reproduce. It's an instinct
Asker

1 y
My guy friend-who is a 21yr old virgin is obsessed with losing his vCard lol. But I keep telling him to wait for someone special. But I don't know if he will find it anytime soon so he may sleep with a random.

I thought he was like obsessed with me lol
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OfDeath

1 y
Do you love him?
Asker

1 y
As a buddy. I kinda have a crush
OfDeath

1 y
Maybe you should try dating each other. You already like each other as friends which is a good start for love
Asker

1 y
Complicated. I’m 10 years older. Andddddd I was married to his cousin lol.
OfDeath

1 y
Oh that will never work. You could help him with sex one time but not more than that. Hire him a hooker or something
Asker

1 y
Yep. Poor baby is so lonely and craves a woman. Badly. I wish I could- but I keep my distance lol. But theses younger women are horrible! Like he will get a number and set up a date- then a girl will ghost him. And he’s super attractive. It’s weird.
OfDeath

1 y
Maybe he has a small dick
Asker

1 y
Well they would never know because they don’t go on the date lol. And He’s told me he is bigger than average.
OfDeath

1 y
How old is he?
Asker

1 y
He is almost 22
OfDeath

1 y
Ok. I'm pretty old now but I was that young once too. My sex drive was through the roof then. So I know how he would feel. You can't have sex with him cause that would just be weird right?
He probably lacks confidence because he isn't as experienced as some guys his age. You should set him up with a hooker just to get the monkey off his back. Find one which is his type

Answer 22

Asker

So could you love another girl you can’t have-but have sex with random chicks?

Answer 23

OfDeath

I could never LOVE a girl I can't have. True love is not a one way street.
However, I can have sex with a girl I don't love because sex is just a physical release. Also the way to reproduce. It's an instinct

Answer 24

Asker

My guy friend-who is a 21yr old virgin is obsessed with losing his vCard lol. But I keep telling him to wait for someone special. But I don't know if he will find it anytime soon so he may sleep with a random.

I thought he was like obsessed with me lol

Answer 25

OfDeath

Do you love him?

Answer 26

Asker

As a buddy. I kinda have a crush

Answer 27

OfDeath

Maybe you should try dating each other. You already like each other as friends which is a good start for love

Answer 28

Asker

Complicated. I’m 10 years older. Andddddd I was married to his cousin lol.

Answer 29

OfDeath

Oh that will never work. You could help him with sex one time but not more than that. Hire him a hooker or something

Answer 30

Asker

Yep. Poor baby is so lonely and craves a woman. Badly. I wish I could- but I keep my distance lol. But theses younger women are horrible! Like he will get a number and set up a date- then a girl will ghost him. And he’s super attractive. It’s weird.

Answer 31

OfDeath

Maybe he has a small dick

Answer 32

Asker

Well they would never know because they don’t go on the date lol. And He’s told me he is bigger than average.

Answer 33

OfDeath

How old is he?

Answer 34

Asker

He is almost 22

Answer 35

OfDeath

Ok. I'm pretty old now but I was that young once too. My sex drive was through the roof then. So I know how he would feel. You can't have sex with him cause that would just be weird right?
He probably lacks confidence because he isn't as experienced as some guys his age. You should set him up with a hooker just to get the monkey off his back. Find one which is his type

Answer 36

sonu789

Xper 5

Yes.

Answer 37

mnthan7

Xper 5

Maybe.

Answer 38

Anonymous

Yeah of course

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