Guys, can you have sex with a girl without feelings for her?

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Yes- Don’t need feelings

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No- I have to like her first

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4eyes2mouths Explorer
+1 y
Kinda really depends on how I'm feeling that day. I've turned down beautiful women just because I didn't feel a spark of interest in them other than physical attraction. Where as other times I was like well I'm horny and you're here so let's fuck.
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Telekinetic-Potato Guru
+1 y
I'm just trying to enjoy my time right now. I don't need all that. I don't think I'm at a point of my life where I should have all that right now.

I've done it before and I'm sure I'll do it again.
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- Asker
  +1 y
  My guy friend-who is a 21yr old virgin is obsessed with losing his vCard lol. But I keep telling him to wait for someone special. But I don't know if he will find it anytime soon so he may sleep with a random.
- Telekinetic-Potato
  +1 y
  I don't know, my first girl was this chick who was really mean to me (we were young) and we got paired for 7 minutes in heaven. and she liked what I did enough that she came to my place not long after. I wouldn't say I had feelings for her but I did have a type of relationship with that girl and I do hold value to it. But I don't think that it's this huge deal that your first person needs to be this special person. At the end of the day, he's looking to experience the sex part.

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Axel624 Xper 4
+1 y
No I believe sex is a very personal thing and if you guys arnt on the same frequency then it's just not fun
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Red_Arrow Master
+1 y
Consider all the men who pay prostitutes for sex. Now think about your question again.
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Kru2020 Xper 6
+1 y
Personally, i'm looking for someone i like spending my time with rather than someone i am just going to have sex with.
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- Asker
  +1 y
  My guy friend-who is a 21yr old virgin is obsessed with losing his vCard lol. But I keep telling him to wait for someone special. But I don't know if he will find it anytime soon so he may sleep with a random.
- Kru2020
  +1 y
  It's hard out there now... Unfortunately we're at a point where most girls don't find a vast majority of men attractive because of dating apps and social media its making it hard for everyone who wants a relationship or wants to date.
- Asker
  +1 y
  Soooo true!!! All my guy pals are so lonely and wish for a girlfriend. None of them can find them. Or a girl ghost them quickly. Like they will set up a date- then cancel. It’s so sad
chriscdi Master
+1 y
yes its called lust
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ChiTown33 Master
+1 y
I could. But what would be the point?
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genericname85 Master
+1 y
I can but I would prefer to have sex with feelings.
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smb930 Xper 5
+1 y
All you need is a male and a female. One hard and one wet. That said, genuine feelings are better than one night stands. Just saying...
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OfDeath Master
+1 y
Yes very easy
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- Asker
  +1 y
  So could you love another girl you can’t have-but have sex with random chicks?
- OfDeath
  +1 y
  I could never LOVE a girl I can't have. True love is not a one way street. However, I can have sex with a girl I don't love because sex is just a physical release. Also the way to reproduce. It's an instinct
- Asker
  +1 y
  My guy friend-who is a 21yr old virgin is obsessed with losing his vCard lol. But I keep telling him to wait for someone special. But I don't know if he will find it anytime soon so he may sleep with a random. I thought he was like obsessed with me lol
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- OfDeath
  +1 y
  Do you love him?
- Asker
  +1 y
  As a buddy. I kinda have a crush
- OfDeath
  +1 y
  Maybe you should try dating each other. You already like each other as friends which is a good start for love
- Asker
  +1 y
  Complicated. I’m 10 years older. Andddddd I was married to his cousin lol.
- OfDeath
  +1 y
  Oh that will never work. You could help him with sex one time but not more than that. Hire him a hooker or something
- Asker
  +1 y
  Yep. Poor baby is so lonely and craves a woman. Badly. I wish I could- but I keep my distance lol. But theses younger women are horrible! Like he will get a number and set up a date- then a girl will ghost him. And he’s super attractive. It’s weird.
- OfDeath
  +1 y
  Maybe he has a small dick
- Asker
  +1 y
  Well they would never know because they don’t go on the date lol. And He’s told me he is bigger than average.
- OfDeath
  +1 y
  How old is he?
- Asker
  +1 y
  He is almost 22
- OfDeath
  +1 y
  Ok. I'm pretty old now but I was that young once too. My sex drive was through the roof then. So I know how he would feel. You can't have sex with him cause that would just be weird right? He probably lacks confidence because he isn't as experienced as some guys his age. You should set him up with a hooker just to get the monkey off his back. Find one which is his type
dthomas89 Xper 7
+1 y
They call that, having one night stands

People will also say they do "friends with benefits"

but

Those are just relationships, without the label

YOU DONT FUCK YOUR FRIENDS

I WOULDN"T

IM NOT GAY
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Groyper Xper 2
+1 y
I mean, I personally wouldn't. But I know many who get drunk and have casual sex.
Also, you don't need to love someone to fuck when you're horny.
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- Asker
  +1 y
  My guy friend-who is a 21yr old virgin is obsessed with losing his vCard lol. But I keep telling him to wait for someone special. But I don't know if he will find it anytime soon so he may sleep with a random.
- Groyper
  +1 y
  Well my buddy did just that, with no protection and he's 17. He felt ashamed and guilty ever since..
- Asker
  +1 y
  Yeh. I dot recommend it at all! But to each their own
sonu789 Xper 5
+1 y
Yes.
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8michael2 Xper 3
+1 y
Cause sex with just anyone is about Cumming and you dont need feelings to get off
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mnthan7 Xper 5
+1 y
Maybe.
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Anonymous
+1 y
Yeah of course
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