I find it hard to believe he didn't cum from a BJ
There is such thing as something called "retrograde ejaculation", where, he'll have an orgasm, he'll feel it happen but, nothing will come out. I recently had to have a procedure, on my colon, that if she messed up (and she has arthritis in her hands, which makes it difficult for her to do surgery, she's just the best surgeon around in that particular area), anyway, had she messed up, where she was cutting on my colon, she may have snipped my you know what, and may have caused what I just told you. I would have had an orgasm, but, no cum would come out, rendering me unable to have biological children, unless I freeze my sperm (which causes thousands of dollars, of which i don't have). I had to decide if I should have the surgery or not, and because it wasn't necessary, due to what I have right now, it made it even worse on my decision. I decided to just do it anyway, and put my trust in her.
This is just me though. I doubt it was retrograde ejaculation but, I would have that sort of thing checked out. He SHOULD cum, from a BJ
by the way, I'm ok. I can still cum, :)
It means it was really like, turned on, and was about to explode
Do you guys think he liked my bj even if it didn't make him cum?
*He liked the build-up but then it's: "OMG! I really gotta CUM!"
I felt his dick twitching in my mouth a few times, is that good or bad?
*Both good and bad. That was him "Kegeling". It makes the D temporarily bigger, feel more pleasure and push out precum. He was trying to cum but he couldn't.
He then grabbed me and made me sit on his dick.
*He knew the BJ was going to fail so he went to the V for the finish.
I have made a "how to" about an effective BJ without any drama. Just the facts.
If you are interested, I'll post it.
Please do
1 of 2 Most girls do not know how to give an effective blowjob. They have to resort to trial and error because guys don't verbalize what they want. Over time, I have received quite a few and, as important, watched AV clips that ended in visible evidence of productive ejaculation. What struck me is how uniform they were. So I took the time to summarize the successful routine. I've posted this here before. *What happens in the foreplay stage varies from guy to guy; teasing, play, etc. Many girls have certain teases that are good for starting arousal. I favor a nipples to knees erotic massage. The goal is to get us hard and flowing precum but not near to orgasm, so the "tank" has time to fill. While there's always some on hand, arousal induces emergency production and volume will be bigger and orgasm will be stronger. There are guidelines for the main event that I think are almost always true. *A blow job is not romantic, interactive sex, it is one-way sexual therapy. You make it all about him. The best blow job is a combination of hand and oral. The head wants bobbing, sucking and licking, slick, soft and smooth to get us hard. The shaft wants vigorous hand stroking to signal the prostate to ejaculate. *Once you start, never stop or slow down. Build steady tension to the finish. When he starts to buck and breathe deep, go aggressive. Increase sucking and bobbing to as fast as you can sustain for several minutes. Break away hand stroking and go as fast as you can with a moderate grip. *He wants to cum in your mouth. Be prepared for it and don't skip a beat. When he starts to ejaculate, stop bobbing and straight suck only. Keep hand stroking at a slower pace to coax out the last squirts.
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*Stay "locked on" (sucking without motion) until he unplugs. It feels good to drain out and shrink away under vacuum. A little brief, occasional "num-numming" like a baby on a pacifier feels good while we drain.
*Be careful not to scratch or bite. It can put the fire out.
*Deep throating and "face fucking" are useless porn antics. Your mouth and tongue will give a better sensation that your throat ever could.
*Swallowing is up to you as it gives no pleasure but may give him an ego boost. I like her to spit into her palm to see how we did.
*There is nothing that will make a man feel more loved than a skilled blow job where he can be indulged without feeling self conscious.
*One more thing, This Meme is funny but absolutely true
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!He loved it. The twitch is key. Next time, use a hand on the shaft while you suck. A bit awkward at first, but once you find the right positioning and rhythm -- it will be glorious.
Men and women feel more comfortable and less guilty about masterbation in this day and age, which is certainly a good thing, but this means a lot of people do it a lot more often than past generations would have done and this has lead to a situation where a lot of people can only reach full orgasm by stimulating themselves. I wouldn't worry about your oral sex skills, the only way you can do it wrong is the use of too much teeth, and a guy will soon let you know if you are doing that. Don't be afraid to ask a guy to finish himself off for you if you feel like you're going nowhere. Most guys would probably like being asked to finish themselves off.
Damn.. you kissed his dick and he didn't even have the courtesy to kiss the pussy? that's the problem right there... fuck if enjoyed it or not I would mad if I were you @asker
YES. Lots of us just cannot cum that way. But it is the thought that counts. Moreover, it gets us harder for "the main event", and that is just fine.
Absolutely. Lots of guys cannot climax from passively receiving oral sex. They still enjoy it very much
can you enjoy being eaten out, even if it didn't make you cum?
It still feels awesome but I normally cum deep down their throats
Of course, I just enjoy having mine sucked.
Oh yeah he did. Lol
I'm willing to try.
He like it
Personally, yes, but it's been 30 some years since it's happened. I always came in a reasonable amount of time, but if I hadn't, I would've needed to be "finished off" in some other way
If you felt it twitching, it was either him flexing it, or he was almost to the point of ejaculating
Yes!
Yes a lot of women enjoy sex and they never have orgasms
Only if she understands how to use the tongue and not just suck on it
Is moaning and dick twitching a good sign?
If the guy is moaning, yes. The dick twitching is just a reaction to constant touch
I'm sure plenty of him already have.
Yeah
Most definatly
Yes
Definitely
It can be Very enjoyable and Turn on moment but He might have went straight to sex because He wouldn't want to Finish just after the BJ which came first.
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