What’s the best sex position for losing your virginity?

Are some positions better for girls than guys and vice versa?
This could easily change in the moment but I like to consider my options beforehand.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I guess it depends on who want to have better control. I've never taken a girl's virginity before but i have thought about it and what position. See if she is controlling the penetration cowgirl might be better because i can lay there and let her focus on how to take it. But if she wanted to me to control it i might choose missionary. It would gibe me better control without falling over or losing grip. I have seen porn use spooning from behind but i feel its more for show and whenever i did that type of position i didn't have much control. The idea is to not hurt her and help her take me without a bad experience. At least help it hurt as little as possible.

  • For first times, it is important that you control the nature of first entry.
    Man on top positions can't do that. I suggest "lean over Cowgirl"

    Lean Over Cowgirl
    Lean Over Cowgirl

    It allows you to slide down only as far as you can tolerate and then slide back up to "regroup". It may take many successive tries, but if you can go a little farther each time, in he'll go with manageable discomfort to you. That final try is likely to "pop" through the tight opening (stretch and give). And it will do the same on the way out.

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  • Any position in which your panties wind up on the floor.

  • one thats comfortable

  • The one I done when I lost my virginity was missionary. Was simple, effective, and the girl was comfortable enough.

  • If the guy is careful and caring id say missionary

  • Missionary

  • Missionary

  • For girls, I'd guess cowgirl-so she can control it, for guys, it really doesn't matter.

  • Doggystyle tbh.

  • Missionary,

  • It will be less painful in cowgirl but more power to face pain will be in missionary

  • Missionary

  • TBH, do a split where you get your genitals down to the ground and he will not have to break the hymen

  • Guy on top so you can controll how fast he goes.

  • The best position to lose your virginity is mission

    • Missionary

  • Depends on a lot of variables try missionary then try spooning and get on your knees and bend over.

  • i'd say Cow Girl so you can go down at the speed you want

  • That depends on what you are after. If you want to completely control the pace, then you need to be on top. If you want him controlling it, he needs to be on top.

  • Missionary most comfortable n easy way... pain with pleasure

  • Missionary

  • missionary. I tried cowgirl an it hurt way to much. I preferred him being on top

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