Tennage wanking?

[Anonymous]

I'm 14 and I started wanking about 1 and 1/2 years ago I understand that's normal for a teenage boy but I always get boners over the littlest stuff all the time is that normal?

[nightdrot]

That is very normal. You are entering sexual maturity. Your body is producing sperm and you have never experienced that before and your body and your mind don't know how to process it.

You need physical relief and that is having a psychological impact and you have no outlet. That is intense - again, at 14, your body is just really experiencing this in a sustained way for the first time - and even the smallest thing will set you off.

So you get erections at the slightest provocation and your instinctive response it to have sex. However, sexual partners are not available and so you seek the most immediate physical relief you can get. Masturbation - and lots of it - to follow.

Of course, the trick is to master yourself. You can't have sex whenever you want and obviously masturbating whenever the mood hits is also not an option. So the trick is to recognize that normal and natural does not equal appropriate and always acceptable.

So think of this in two ways. It is perfectly natural and healthy. A natural response to changes in your body as you mature. It is also when you begin to learn about self-control.

[Asker]

Thank you for the detailed answer sir

[nightdrot]

Thank you for your kind your courtesy - and the thumbs up, too. I have to tell you as the father of three little ones, that I hope that I raise them to show the same kind of basic courtesy and good manners that you have just extended to me. Very impressive!

[slatyb]

Totally normal for young men to become aroused very easily. Enjoy it while it lasts, it won't last forever. Stay healthy and it can go on for a good long while.

[SueShe]

No, from a girl's point of view that is not normal to have started being aroused sexually at the age of 11.

To me, that is the sign that you are placing your wrong priorities and letting yourself be ruled by your hormones rather than to be in command of them.

That you get an erection over a stone, a vase or a flower is certainly not a normal behavior and perhaps you should consult a specialist to see where the problem lies.

[Asker]

I started when I was 12 nearly 13 not 11

[Asker]

And I don't get erecrions over objects only like interacting with girls my age

[AnonUser1902]

It is completely normal to be horny at that age and even earlier. It is fine to explore that and find out what truly turns you on.
Guys always get random boners when they are young and they usually can't control when it happens. But as you get older you can control it better and they start to be less random and more controlled. Hope this helps

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

I second everything @SueShe said.
It's not normal nor healthy to have such a oversexualized demeanor towards every little thing.
My current partner has this kind of issue herself and it's very stressful and tiresome for both of us.

[Asker]

I don't get erecrions from like a cup of coffee. Mostly round girls my age

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

Learn to write decently before downvoting someone.

[Asker]

Why are you arguing with a 14 Yr old lol. I just disagreed with what you said stop crying over a downvote.

[msss98]

Sounds like a normal tenager

[Avicenna]

Completely normal

[PimpJuicy]

Completely normal. When I was 14 I used to wank over my sister lol

[Asker]

What 🤣🤣🤣

[PimpJuicy]

If she's hot she's hot haha

[Asker]

Man is out here in alabama 😂😂😂

[PimpJuicy]

Don't knock it until you try it lol

[oldermale]

Normal teenager boy thing.

[Anonymous]

Bro I’m not much older and I get boners over nice things a girl says to me it’s completely fine don’t stress.

[Asker]

Thanks bro thought it was only me

[Opinion Owner]

Haho no drama dude