Do you start thrusting right away or do you give the adjustment time?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It depends on whether she is a gf/wife or ons/fwb and how I had inserted into her.

When doing a FWB/ONS and we are doing it in missionary then I will place the head into her, wait a few seconds then push somewhat harder so a bit more than half of mine goes into her and then will push the remaining of mine into her till everything is inside her. I won't move for 3-5 seconds once it is all inside her, unless she moves then I will press it against her to keep it all in her, if she moves then I will press it all in her for 5-10 more seconds, then will withdraw and do a fast thrust into her, then again will insert it all into her and press it into her and while it is all in her I will do some very slow and short thrusts, then will move mine in her circularly or up and down while all in her will do between 20-30 times before the in and out thrusting will start.

FWB/ONS and doing it doggy style, first push half of mine will go into her, then I will put the remaining into her a bit slower. Then move it around circularly 10-20 times in both directions then will start thrusting.

Wife/Gf in doggy I would insert 1-2" per second into her until it is fully in her. Once fully in her I will press it in her so she feels that I'm fully penetrating her for 20-30 seconds, then will move it in small circular motions while inside her 30 times each direction and then will start thrusting her :-
Slow
9 1-2" depth.
8 1-3" , 1 6" depth.
7 2-3" , 1 5" , 1 6" depth.
6 1-3", 2 6" , 1 5" depth
5 2-4" 2 "5" 2 6" depth.
4 3" , 5 6" depth
3 2" , 6 6" depth
2 1" , 1 7" 3 4" 3 3" depth
1 3" 2 6" 2 7" 2 5" 1 7" and all in.
Hold.
9 6-7" all fast.
1 all in, 7 6" and 1 2"
7 7" and 2 3" fast.
6 6-7" slow and 3 3" fast.
5 5-7" fast and 4 1-2" slow.
1 all in slow, 3 6" slow and 5 2-3" fast.
3 7" slow and 6 3" fast.
2 all in slow and 7 4" fast.
1 all in and 8 1-3" very fast.
Withdraw.
Then will change positions or will thrust till I orgasm.

Gf/wife in missionary,
Kiss
The head into her, moved up and then a few times.
1" into her.
1" into her then move it around.
Remove to till just the head is in her. Move up and down.
1" into her.
2" into her.
Kiss
Pull till just the tip is slightly inside her.
Head + 3" into her.
Kiss
1" into her.
Press against her cervix gently.
Kiss
Pull till just the tip is slightly inside her.
Insert it a bit harder till it just by her cervix.
Press against her cervix.
Slight lift.
Press against her cervix.
More lift.
1" into her.
Kiss and whisper that I will be going very deep into her.
Push the remaining into her.
Press and hold inside her for a few seconds then will start thrusting.
Ex-wife was always thrust with me putting all of it into her and in short strokes no more than 2-3" would come out of her.
girlfriend I will thrust her in varying speed and depth but more deeper than shallower penetration. I don't give her time to adjust before thrusting as the way I inserted would give her enough time to adjust.

Does the wife/gf get fucked like the FWB/ONS? Ex-wife was never done that way but girlfriend yes.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Not a quickie, but a "production".
*Even with a non-virgin, I "knock before I enter". I will give her a few pushes, a little farther each time before the last lets me in. Every girl I have been with has had a normal version of "vaginismus". That is the vaginal opening puckering a little in reaction to pushing in. So that last push sorts of "pops" in... a give and release.
*Once I am in, i slide all the way in and then wait a bit, enjoying the warmth and snugness. Then I begin slow in and out thrusting, gradually speeding up. Most of "in time" is a measured rhythm, speeding and slowing like a Strauss waltz. Ut is only the final sprint where I thrust deep and hard. When I start to cum, I "bottom out" because it makes ejaculation more pleasurable and she can feel it.

AustinMan · Answer

Depends on the partner and what she wants. Some want a pause whereas others want to be pounded, period.

Reaperbot666 · Answer

Few factors really. Is it our first time? How horny is she? How horny and I? Are we going for slow casual or quickie?

winterfox10 · Answer

Always give it time. Women seem to like it when I pause for a moment to let them get used to the extra pressure. It's good for bonding and intimacy, more comfortable for her. You get enjoy each other's warmth, kiss, squeeze her breasts.