How can I distract myself from cheating?

Question

I've been in a relationship for about a few months now and he was my first time. But, he doesn't want to have sex very often because he is usually sick. I don't want to hurt him but I have been craving other men, usually older men and I need to stop it. What do I do?

drsatan · Accepted Answer

Discuss it with him.
Tell him that you currently aren't getting something from the relationship that you need in order for it to work. You're choices seem clear to me.
A) He starts putting more effort into fulfilling you sexually.
B) You both agree to have an open relationship.
C) you conclude that this relationship isn't what you want and both go your separate ways
D) you decide to ignore your own wants and needs and see how long your relationship lasts while you feel unhappy and resentful towards him
E) you stay with him and cheat on him behind his back. Not the worst thing in the world, but it could give you a bad reputation and you may regret it in the future when potential partners feel they can't trust you.
Good luck!

andy530 · Accepted Answer

Talk to him about your needs! If he’s not sympathetic to your needs then you have a different choice to make but he needs to know what you need in a relationship! In the mean time I try to manage the overwhelming need by talking to people who understand, porn, and masturbation.

brittany23 · Accepted Answer

You need to let him know how you're feeling and work it out, or move on

Secret6620 · Accepted Answer

Break up. You don't sound ready for a committed relationship. 👌

PondyPand · Answer

end the relationship. duh

foxrider77 · Answer

Just get a friends with benefits. Just do the head part nothing more.

Ripper_E · Answer

If it's that important to you then end the relationship because you thinking about other men in that way already shows you are not ready for a relationship.