Why do guys like fingering the girl very roughly?

[Anonymous]

Even though I'm very tight he likes to use several fingers and do it very roughly.

[Anonymous]

This is the action of an inexperienced male who thinks being rough will make you cum.

Also, tightness is a variable based on how aroused you are, aside from older women who's muscles are more tenuous because of age.
If you are "tight" it's because the guy isn't doing his job to get you aroused properly and by the looks of the question you asked... it's very likely.

[drsatan]

A lot of girls like the 2 finger move and some girls can barely take one. Also, a guy might be thinking that 2 or 3 fingers should get you ready for his dick.

[Trolloween]

Your boyfriend does it because you've probably never told him what you like and copies porn or does what his ex liked.

[Blublub]

Because a lot of girls like it including me lol

[blueguy07]

I like to finger

[Blublub]

@blueguy07 good for you.

[blueguy07]

How are you

[gagsucs]

dont let him do several fingers... if u wanna stay tight... he is jus slowly taking that away from u

[winterfox10]

We don't have vaginas, so we just don't know

[genericname85]

cause we hope you enjoy that. if you don't, tell us.

[chris_987]

That’s how you make them squirt

[COMMODOREII]

I never do. You can get a girl off more by being gentle.

[BlazinFiresAshNthaB]

Hey doesn't know what he is doing he got that off porn explain it to him lol

[OddBeMe]

Sex is aggressive with us, especially if we’re inexperienced. We think being aggressive makes up for lack of skills.

[andy530]

Often they quite frankly don’t know what they are doing.

[Blublub]

But that’s what feels good

[andy530]

If you’re already warmed up and ready for it yeah. If not I’m sure it doesn’t feel so good

[Asker]

@Blublub It hurts!

[Blublub]

It doesn’t hurt me. But I also like pain so that might have something to do with it

[andy530]

Possibly plus not everyone likes the same kind of stimulation

[Blublub]

I like it hard on my gspot it makes me scream

[andy530]

Makes more sense when on the gspot

[Blublub]

Yeah if he knows how to do it right

[andy530]

Yeah technique is key and I think a lot of guys just don’t have it lol 😂

[Blublub]

Probably true but they guy who did it to me sure did lol

[Blublub]

Wouldn’t be able to do it when there was other people home

[bradbradley]

guess he just thinks you would like it better but if its myself im more into just pleasing the woman asking her what she likes and feels good to her but if you dont like it you should tell him he should respect that

[Anonymous]

Porn. He may not realize either that he's being rough (we don't have vaginas so we don't know how sensitive they are or aren't), so tell him to be gentle. Take his hand in yours and guide it even if need be.

[Anonymous]

I've always been under the belief that it was more pleasurable and women preferred to be fingered more vigorously. I'll often use two fingers so it's closer to the diameter of a penis.