Is having sex with someone who is typically shy a turn off? or would you just find a way to make them more comfortable to get them to open up?

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Oh no!

    I have answered this type of question before and get so many down votes by shy guys but I always have to be honest.

    I do not really enjoy training new shy guys. I much prefer a bold confident guy that knows what he wants and how to get it!

    OK, start the roast, maybe I deserve it... lol

    Is having sex with someone who is typically shy a turn off? or would you just find a way to make them more comfortable to get them to open up?
    • More comfortable

Most Helpful Guys

  • I would prefer to go slowly with her by talking, discussing, joking and telling her how exciting and enjoyable to have sex with an open mind. Though it takes time (depending upon mind framework and makeup of shy girl) but it is my experience that girls do like to be open once veil of shyness is removed.

    • Thanks for MHG.

  • I would of course make them feel comfortable, not only having sex but in general. If the person is not comfortable in general I am not gonna just have sex with them.

    Shyness is not a turn off it is just how some people are.

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  • In my experience, shy girls come out of their shell when they get aroused.

  • You need to find a way for both to be comfortable

  • Well if you’re having sex w someone that’s shy, that means you both pretty much opened up to each other

  • It's not a turn off. Trust is the basis for both to feel comfortable with it.

  • It's not a turn off

  • shit id like to fuck a shy girl lowkey, imagine how cute them moans are going to be lol

  • That's a huge turn-off for me. I wouldn't even bother trying to get to the point of sex with a girl like that: not worth my time and effort, sadly.

  • I use to think it was no big deal, now I understand it becomes a problem when the insecurities start to be noticeable.

    • When the insecurities become noticeable and when those insecurities are too... Much for your mental health.

  • We'd have to work through it.,.. together

  • Make them more comfortable

  • Getting them to open up is really fun

  • Shy people are freaks in bed

  • I wld help her overcome her shyness

  • No its not but , you need time, make it as romantic as you can

  • Being shy is not a bad thing and if you really want sex you will get what you want from that certain individual.

  • I think it depends on how much you like each other