Do you think that hitting a girl is right under any situation?

[MikeAndMolly]

It's never ok to use violence to solve issues except as a means of preventing further violence.

Typically only in cases of immediate threat of violence against you or someone else can violence be justified, but there are exceptions. For example, I think harming or killing a violent abuser may be justified even if they are not, at that moment, hurting you, if you feel it is your only way to prevent further abuse.

Similarly, hurting people to deplatform them when their hateful rhetoric is directly or indirectly causing the deaths of others is probably also justified (like the guy who decked richard spencer), but that becomes grey territory pretty quickly if you keep going down that line of reasoning too far.

Basically violence is such a terrible thing to inflict on someone that you should have no reasonable doubt that your actions will directly prevent further violence.

In that light, the criteria has no room for gendered considerations.

Keep in mind that the violence used should be direct and purposeful; breaking an attacker's leg so he can't then chase you as you run away, or cracking someone's wrist to disarm them or make them less capable of hurting you while they're literally trying to kill or injure you is probably justified. But socking someone in the gut as hard as you can to "teach 'em a lesson" after they angrily slapped you for something you said is not justified, as you are not in any way still in any danger.

No one should hit someone with the intention of "teaching them a lesson" or "making them pay" for perceived slights or disrespect. Only as a direct act to prevent immediate violence or future violence that will otherwise be hard to prevent.

[Anonymous]

Anyone hitting anyone isn't "right" at all. Women should never hit guys either. Having said that, people can be pushed and/or may need to defend themselves somewhat under extreme situations perhaps? But there's nothing right about it.

[TacocaT6969]

Growing up boys are repeatedly told they’re not allowed to hit girls. Some girls hear this and take advantage of it by hitting boys who are not allowed to hit back.

It’s bullshit and I’ve never stood for it. Since I was little if I see a girl hit a boy I hit her and say “why don’t you hit someone who’s allowed to fight back?”

In reality, anyone who gets hit by anyone has the right to defend themself.

Granted, in some cases the man should hold back a little such as when it’s a case of a muscular man getting hit by a skinny twig of a girl. He wouldn’t need all of his strength or even a closed hand to send her to the ground and end the attempted assault.

[Secret6620]

If she hit the guy first she deserves whatever happens to her. Gender equality and a reminder to keep your hands to yourself♥️

[MrOracle]

Men should never initiate violence on a woman. Men have the right to defend themselves if being attacked, violently if need be, but they should use the minimum force necessary to protect themselves. Revenge is not okay.

[RickPen]

As a child, there was a girl who would walk around the play yard at school kicking boys in the genitals. After her doing this to me several days, I had enough, and kicked her back, squarely, in her "junk." I was villified for such actions and received an overly aggressive punishment. But she never kicked *any* boy again.
If one uses physical violence against a person, they should expect to receive it in kind, if not worse. Why? If we want to be equal, then we must treat each other as such. People need to stop seeing boys and men as disposable roughnecks who we can physically abuse whenever they're incensed.

[normalice]

In situations of self defense or defense of those under your protection, sure. But I think the crux of the issue is that people assume the average woman doesn't have the strength or training to pose a valid physical threat to the average man, thus it can be difficult to really convince anyone that acting in self defense was necessary.

Unfortunately (or fortunately?), the justification for answering nonviolent bullying with violence is a bit controversial - even if the bullying is not nonviolent for lack of trying.

[worldscolide]

First... Women do not have the right to kick a man in the balls... Its never acceptable for either gender to hit the other accept for in instances of self defense...

Let me give you a scenario.. Say a woman decided to start hitting me. I will walk away. She pursues and keeps hitting me, I will quietly advise her to stop. If she fails to head my two warnings to stop causing me physical harm, I will stop her with all of the force that i have... Which will lead to breaking bones... yes i hit that hard. If she is coming at me with a knife or gun, or some instrument like a bat or a bar, you better believe, all bets are off and my all necessary force will include lethal force...

As a rule im very much nonviolent. I hate hurting people. I refuse to do it unless i have no other option.

[Pipeliner87]

Well, I often wonder why women stay with men who like to beat them black and blue... It's like ummm okay maybe these kind of women like to get beaten by their men? It's funny because she will leave him but then they will talk and make up and then a month later he's still beating her black and blue? Honestly women never fail the amaze me when they talk about Feminism and this whole women empowerment ordeal yet they still enjoy the black eye's. I don't understand women who keep going to men who rape and abuse them.

[Katie1964]

No one should hit anyone. Act like an adult and use your words. Its not right for boys to hit girls, just like its not right for girls to hit boys.

Everyone knows its not right for a boy to hit a girl. But if a girl hits a boy, she deserves what she gets. He shouldn't have to just sit there and take her abuse. He can defend himself and hit back. I don't mean, he should just pummel her but a measured response is fair.

[alleng12345]

Hitting is never right, defending yourself is ok, but I have never seen the need for anyone to hit anyone.


As for a man vs a woman, if the woman can not control herself and tries to hit the man then I would not step in if he restrains her and asks her to stop. Key being restrain, not grab or push or slap or hit.

[gagsucs]

I WOULD say no... jus to avoid like 100 pink dislilkes... but fuckit... bring them on... i think there's some occasions where it is deserved to hit her back... for example... if she does something really bad like cut ur dick off while ur sleeping.. then u can hit her... or if she punches you for no reason jus out of the blue...

here come the dislikes..

[Miristheiss]

If a woman is hitting you and going at you I am more for holding them or pushing them back with enough force to keep her back.
Since most men could kill a woman with their bare hands or with several full force blows I lean toward protecting yourself with restraint.

[Tunasub]

I'm going to say this... I have never put my hands on a woman and I hope that there is never a situation that comes about that I have to make that decision... with that said, by no means does that give women the green light to swing on me. First off I would slip that shit and either move out of arms reach or grab and hold her so she couldn't swing again... but I would not come back with a counter punch... but that does bring up the question if a woman throws a punch at a man is that going to make the situation better? I was taught to and how to defend myself but it's my choice not to knock the vagina off of a woman... some men feel differently though.

[ColHathi]

It isn't right hitting anyone unless it's for self-defense or the girl needs a good spanking or similar in the bedroom, and in the case of self-defense I'd ofc take into account that she might be weaker than me, just as I hope she'd consider that I might legitimately be weaker than her, lol.

I need to work out more.

... Or at all.

[crmoore]

When defending myself or a loved one from significant physical harm (things like a slap in the face is not significant physical harm), I do think it is acceptable to hit a girl. That being said, I think everyone should try to avoid violence if possible, especially women, as men on average do have an advantage when it comes to physique.

[0112358]

There are scenarios where I would hit a woman. If I needed to in self defence. If a woman was hurting one of my children she’s getting ktfo.

That said in 44 years I’ve found the need to hit precisely zero women. But the possibility remains.

[Silence00]

If anyone hit any woman that woman bound not to go to that person if she thinks she didn't deserve it. And people who she involved in it should not ever let her go to that person even she suicide for it because she didn't deserve to be physically injured. That's what I think. It's permanent fact, you said , you claimed and you get what you want freedom from a torturer.

[Daniela1982]

An eye for an eye and a knocked out tooth for a knocked out tooth. Hitting below the belt allowed.

[pierre7i]

No, hitting a girl is never right under any circumstances !

Surely the best way to handle any argument or difficult situation is to make sexual love (make up sex) !

[Guffrus]

Girls do not have any right to hit anyone anywhere.

Anyone can defend themselves.

[blutwolfe]

https://www.youtube.com/embed/rksKvZoUCPQgonna leave this here

[oldguystillhasit]

Never... Go outside, take a drive, go to a friend's house. The only reasons to hit her is if she comes after you with a knife or a gun.

[R4vedave]

Yeah of course, self defence at a certain point is completely allowed in my opinion.

[Disguise]

I do.
Just because she is a girl doesn't mean she can escape,
They did something wrong to others, they need to be taught!

[Insightfull]

No fucking way.

Ok. now that I think about it, I suppose if it was a martial arts thing, that would be ok. So, with consent.

But I wouldn't, even if she begged me to.

[genericname85]

well i think it's reasonable to avoid being physically hurt. if in that attempt to do so, you have to hit a woman, then that is legitimated and therefore right.

[Shamalien]

I'll smack yo bitch ass right now

XD but naw fo real everyone deserves to get hit sometimes, depending on what u do. Being a girl, despite what some people may think, does not make you a perfect angel incapable of wrongdoing.

[Phoenix98]

I'd prefer not to but I will without hesitation hit a woman if I'm put in a situation where I'm forced to. It wouldn't be the first time.

[MissDawn7961]

if a guy hits me then in return he can get kicked in his manhood ! thanks

[pigoat]

"any situation" no

Self defense to a certain extent yes

Don't kill or put anyone in the hospital if you don't have to

[OlderAndWiser]

Striking a girl is justified if necessary for self-defense.

[danman27]

If anyone, regardless of gender, hits you, you have the right to defend yourself.

[Twalli]

If a guy cannot defend without retaliation then he can hit a girl. It's not easy to defend like that though. A high level belt in martial arts is needed.

[mattym11]

Nope! It's not right to hit anyone. People say a eye for a eye! Then the world would be blind, love not hate as life is so, so short 😊

[Anonymous]

If a female acts like a dude, equality is a bitch and she deserves any beating she gets.
Women have no right to hit a male anymore than they believe a male has no right to hit them.

[DomTreddo]

Depends on the situation. If it's self defense then I will fight back. I got kicked in the dick in elementary by a woman and I didn't do shit to her al because I wanted to hangout with my then friend.

[incelposting]

Equal rights means equal lefts.
When your hoes get out of line, as the saying goes "If in doubt, knock her out"

[SexSlaveGirl]

I'm into being hit (not too hard). So if we're into it, yeah.

[JamesBlackDragon]

My mom always told me if someone hit me I have the right to hit them back so I guess so

[chriscdi]

self defense or if its their kink, cause if you dont do it, they will find someone who will 😂

[Gavyn]

Call me old fashioned, but I say no. If I can avoid hitting anyone, especially girls, I will.

[Nigjt]

Unless she wants that person to do so then its not.
God Bless

[Cannuck22]

Not normally, but if you must defend your self from being attacked then you may have too.

[JesseJayNeak]

Only on self-defense. Only that case. Just because he's stronger, doesn't necessarily mean that he has to submit to her punishment

[Anonymous]

If she hits me, she better be prepared to be hit back.

Never let ANYONE get away with hitting you.

[jerem216ohio]

If she hit u in da face u got every rit to defend urself in any way women or not

[Tim-loves-it]

Hitting a girl is not right under ANY situation.
NO MATTER WHAT

[zvedavy]

Only if she asks for it (BDSM)

[hemo821]

No, i dont think you should at all

[alance99]

Its not good to hit each other anywhere on body

[COMMODOREII]

No one has a right to hit anyone.

[Plitty-Tank]

Yes, if the woman is trying to kill him or her.

[Clarke498]

Hell yeah. In the bedroom. Spanking that is*

[billluc69]

no, unless you want your ass kicked

[Lunatic1]

Only if she is abusive, and only in self-defense.

[NightOwl8801]

Only in self defense, never in anger

[andy530]

Only if it’s consensual like when practicing BDSM

[PaulBforfun]

Nope.. strongly against hitting..

[ConfinedSoul]

Never.

[simplelikeme]

Absolutely not...

[jizzonherback]

No way its wrong

[GoBlueSC4]

Absolutely not!!!

[Anonymous]

Yes, even a child.