*Sex Question* Love making Vs Sex... is there a difference?

[Anonymous]

Im wondering if there is a difference between just having sex vs love sex. How does a perosn distinguish the difference between the two? What makes it different?

[Regmorus]

I would guess by love sex the dominant feeling you feel is not that of sex joy, arousal and then being high due to orgasm. Everything is there, but the two also feel something else simultaneously, doing it, something that automatically is more intense and more meaningful, kinda spiritual feeling. And this feeling probably intensifies the normal sex feelings too making them more enjoyable as a kind of side effect. But this is just how I imagine that'll be:) No experiences.

[Asker]

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[Regmorus]

You are welcome!

[Varyag]

Feelings. For me at least. Truth is, you can feel a difference between making love and having sex. Sex just feels more... Primal? Satisfying your need in a very animalistic way. Which doesn't mean it's a bad thing, primal sex is fun. But making love is passionate, affectionate and very very pleasing to the body and soul.

[Asker]

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[Varyag]

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[Anonymous]

Love making is sex when there is tenderness and in most cases the two people are really close.

What I label as Sex is just the instinctual need and lust which can be stilled shared by two people who love each other and tends to have a lot of raw energy or it's between two people who have no real connection outside of the act.

I'd say a couple in love can have both love making and sex in terms of what they need at that moment.

[Asker]

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[DrippingHoney]

Lovemaking is about intimacy. Sex is about physical pleasure.

[Asker]

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[JuliaBallonz]

Many do and for me sexy there is just fucking he leaves after with me still needing more.

Making love there is intimacy and you both want to snuggle after and make each other cum before you do.

[Asker]

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[reptocarl]

If you love each other is the difference

[Asker]

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[blutwolfe]

Basically like having sex in a relationship vs hook up sex, being in a relationship releases more hormones during sex and whatnot

[Asker]

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[Twalli]

I don't have sexxwithout live. I guess it depends on how long the guy or girl will wait.

[teaguru90]

Yes. Love making has more connections and sex is more lust

[StinkyGirlFeetSniffr]

When they became the same though hold on tight! My girlfriend & i have filthy kinky sex & are head over heels for each other... omfg :)

[Asker]

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[StinkyGirlFeetSniffr]

Np! :)

[Anonymous]

From a guy's perspective, it's all just fucking.

[Asker]

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[reptocarl]

I’m a guy and that isn’t true

[Anonymous]

Love making happens when there is love & connection.

Sex just happens to satisfy hunger.

[Asker]

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[Anonymous]

Personally, I think love making means a lot of foreplay, cuddling after fucking, eyecontact during it. Sex is just in and out, lol

[Asker]

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