Am I mentally sick, for thinking of banging my boyfriend with a dildo in his ass?

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I don't know why I have such weird fantasy like that.. I didn't told him yet..( I can't risk breakup )

UKMidsGuy · Accepted Answer

No not at all. “Pegging” is what it is called and is not a rare fantasy for a woman to have. Why not turn the conversation to fantasies? Suggest watching some porn that “happens” to have some pegging in it and suggest that it looks fun, even jokingly at first? He may say no initially but after thinking about it, he may bring the idea up later

foxrider77 · Accepted Answer

Wow lucky dude. I’d love that. Maybe just buy it and ask him if he would like his prostate stimulated. If not tell him to stick it up you. But I so would take it.

drsatan · Answer

I dont think you are sick, you sound like fun to me!

pajamasam · Answer

Not at all. You should ask him what he thinks about it.

Robofeet · Answer

Nah, you're fine. I think sex can get a lot weirder than that.

SarahsSummer · Answer

It’s only sick if he’s not interested.

SpeedVoid · Answer

That is definitely not sick or mentally disturbed. In my opinion it's pretty tame honestly. You need to tell that guy what you want though.

As someone who has dealt with fear of loosing someone over kinks I think the best advice is don't put it off. Let him know what you are into and why.

If you don't work towards what you want time will go on and you will feel unfulfilled and want to search for that experience somewhere else. Yeah it can be awkward to bring up our kinks but it's far worst to ignore them and deny yourself what you want.

abc3643 · Answer

This is not a rare fantasy among women.

someginger · Answer

Nope, it's a pretty normal fantasy in the world of BDSM. I would say it's possible you might be a domme, so I would do some research on that and see what you think

MannySimms · Answer

You should told him as soon as possible. That way he can move on.

MackToday · Answer

I wouldn't say mentally sick, kinky probably but most people are like that. You're not acting out in public with it so obviously you've got control of your faculties.

chriscdi · Answer

no but i feel bad for him

s2firestar · Answer

Not necessarily, but if you were my girlfriend, I would cordially ask you to stay the fuck away from my back side and never ever approach me from behind again.

COMMODOREII · Answer

Strap on would be better. 😂

Twalli · Answer

Not too weird. Some people like role reversal. A n. v al stimulation usually feels good for guys. The male equivalent of the g spot is the prostate which is reached through the asshole

nudeNhorny · Answer

off course you're not sick, just kinky, and kinky is sexy in my opinion.

CT_CD · Answer

No. I have that fantasy too

wannabe_cuckold_23 · Answer

We all have our fantasies, nothing wrong with that

Jaycrowe · Answer

No it's not. Is he the only 1 u Wana fuk or is dar other guys dat u want to feel ur rath? Ask him? Now days guys r open minded so joke with him about it n if says n e thing not to mean ask him really would u let me try it ( putting it in u)