My mom is dating the father of the person I lost my virginity to should I tell my mom before they get too serious?

[Anonymous]

[Surely]

You could always say to your mother, that if she marries this guy, that she would be making one of the guys you dated/liked in the past your step brother,
Leaving out the sex part.
Let her wonder what you two might have done.

[Surely]

Thank you for the MHO. Good luck!

[loveslongnails]

Your mother is dating the father of the boy who was your first, so what difference should that make to your mother? Do you think there's a family plot going on, or do you live in the backwoods of some state? :)

[Asker]

Huh? And no just maybe i like this boy

[loveslongnails]

So why does it matter if you tell your mother or not?

[modeve]

It's matter between your mom and father of guy who had sex with you. Keep it separate from your own affair.

[modeve]

Thanks for MHG.

[Asker]

Your welcome

[ZELLxoxo]

Why have you not told her that before?

And yes.

[Asker]

Cause I don't want her knowing i lost it already

[ZELLxoxo]

You didn't need to mention sex. Just say you are dating this guy. That's all you need to say to her.

[Asker]

But we didn't date.

[ZELLxoxo]

Then why did you do it?

[Asker]

The first time was just for fun the 2md time he ask me for it

[ZELLxoxo]

Look.. tell your mom. She should know. You shouldn't hide this. It's wrong. Tell her you 'dated' him.

[CharlieBadger]

There's not really any reason that he or she needs to know.

[Flower7]

You shouldn't tell her you had sex with the guy. But just tell her that you used to date him.

[Red_Arrow]

Not a big deal. No reason to tell her.

[Curmudgeon]

They actually had a novel and a movie with a plot like this:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/A_Summer_Place

[Curmudgeon]

And now I have that tune stuck in my head:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9SeDGvfR0HU

[Asker]

Wow your old.

[Curmudgeon]

I am older, yes. Nothing new under the sun, don't you know...

[loveslongnails]

That's what every 18 old thinks.

[lightbulb27]

oh for sure... who knows what's up...

[Elliegirl]

If it’s going to be a problem, you should tell her. If it doesn’t matter that much, keep it to yourself. Are you still having sex with him and how long ago was the last time you had sex with him?

[PeacefulRainDrop]

I would

[Thatsamazing]

Why?

[msss98]

What difference does it make?

[BroodyRuby]

Are you still with this person or do you intend on being with this person? If not, I don't see the issue.

[Asker]

Maybe just for sex.

[BroodyRuby]

I don't think you should tell your mom. If you don't intend on having a real relationship with them and she is happy in her new relationship, I think it may cause more drama than it is worth

[Asker]

Okay but can i still be active with him?

[BroodyRuby]

I mean, you can do whatever you want at the end of the day. It's up to you

[Asker]

Okayy thanks

[Dargil]

Are you still seeing him?

[Asker]

No we ended bad m

[andreasderjuengere]

That's between you and the boy in question.
Unless that boy is your own brother...

[Drumlin2001]

You could. there's no real reason it should matter

[Thatsamazing]

uhhh... What? why would you tell her that when it has nothing to do with her, the guy's dad, or the fact that they're dating?

[dthomas89]

So you'd have fucked your new step brother.. if they get married

[Asker]

Ya twice

[dthomas89]

And you're under 18?

[rvarela]

Yes.

[COMMODOREII]

How old is this guy?

[Asker]

My mom's boyfriend? Or the one i lost my virginity to?

[COMMODOREII]

I had to read that again. 😂😂 wow if they got serious and married you guys would be step sister and step brother. 😂

[Asker]

I know which is why I'm debating on telling.

[COMMODOREII]

Technically you really are not blood relatives so you both could date. You could also just keep it quiet and sneak into each others rooms. 😂

[Asker]

Lol late at night? Lol

[COMMODOREII]

Yeah. 😂 i shouldn't be encouraging this. Lol you could always tell your mom that you are dating his son. Lol

[Asker]

Lol I'll rather not cause the sex. Was ok not great

[COMMODOREII]

Oh then maybe you should tell your mom. After the father is often like the son and you are just looking after your mom's happiness. 😂

[Asker]

I don't know what you trying to say by this

[COMMODOREII]

Me either. Lol

[Asker]

I think my mom ganna marry him

[COMMODOREII]

Cool so you got a new brother coming. 😗

[Asker]

No :/ i don't wanna move

[COMMODOREII]

Move? 😕

[Asker]

My mom told me we are moving into the guys house spring break

[COMMODOREII]

Wow they are moving pretty fast?

[Asker]

She told me they been dating for almost a year but recently got super serious

[COMMODOREII]

So how did you meet his son? 😗

[Asker]

School. his a junior im a freshman

[Yammy]

Does it make you uncomfortable?

[Asker]

No? Because we broke up almost a year ago

[Yammy]

Then why tell your mom?

[Light_beam]

Your mom would fuck him?

[Asker]

Huh?

[Light_beam]

Yea?

[Asker]

Fuck who?

[UKMidsGuy]

You could tell her but it shouldn’t make any difference to her relationship with the dad

[scooogy]

No don't! You get that chance like once in history of mankind for your mom to have a stepson-in-law! 🤣