Do guys love anal sex because it makes them feel large?

Question

My theory of why most guys love anal is because anal makes them feel like their dicks are really big and that's important to them. Because it's tighter and many girls have discomfort or pain due to the guy's size, anal satisfies their desire to have a large dick. Thoughts?

Updates:

11 mo

I guess I was mistaken 😂

Answer 1

Anonymous

Not really, no. Guys like fucking your ass because it feels good, period.

Yes, it's tighter than your vagina. Your vagina is designed to pass a baby through it, so it's a compromise of sorts. It's not designed to be tight enough to grip a dick the way your asshole can, so your vagina is inferior to your ass in that sense, plus it requires some form of birth control to prevent unwanted pregnancies. But your ass has shit in it, so there's that. And your mouth has teeth, so there's no perfect hole.

But no, it's not about making us feel like we have a bigger dick. It's about the physical sensation of a tighter hole. Hopefully that doesn't give your vagina a complex.

Thatsamazing

11 mo
Decent answer.

Answer 2

Thatsamazing

Decent answer.

Answer 3

normalice | 6.2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

The tightness is about the same as vaginal, really. I love anal for the thrill. Its the idea that a girl trusts me with her body so completely that she actually gets off on letting me stretch out her most vulnerable orifice. It's also the idea that I've found a girl who likes dick enough to want to take it everywhere. It's also also the fact that butts are sexy. I could wax poetic about the merits of anal for hours, but the plain truth is one of conditioning - every time a girl gets off with my cock up her ass, the thrill seems a little bit like magic.

DrippingHoney

11 mo
I guarantee you that my ass is tighter than my vagina 😂
normalice

11 mo
Need proof, lol..

But seriously, virgin vaginas are as tight as virgin ass. So of course if you don't have much anal but have had any vaginal sex at all, it's going be tighter. But have you ever painlessly passed a large poo? And those things are squishy. Your ass can stretch to that size easily if you relax. And the more anal you have, the easier it is to relax.
Locksmithy

9 mo
so few women have that awesome control of their sexual organs. it is called an EDUCATED pussy
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Locksmithy

9 mo
Kegals...6x a day will tighten up any couch potato puddytat
Locksmithy

9 mo
hell... you can wax ass, too

Answer 4

DrippingHoney

I guarantee you that my ass is tighter than my vagina 😂

Answer 5

normalice

Need proof, lol..

But seriously, virgin vaginas are as tight as virgin ass. So of course if you don't have much anal but have had any vaginal sex at all, it's going be tighter. But have you ever painlessly passed a large poo? And those things are squishy. Your ass can stretch to that size easily if you relax. And the more anal you have, the easier it is to relax.

Answer 6

Locksmithy

so few women have that awesome control of their sexual organs. it is called an EDUCATED pussy

Answer 7

Locksmithy

Kegals...6x a day will tighten up any couch potato puddytat

Answer 8

Locksmithy

hell... you can wax ass, too

Answer 9

Anonymous

Because the ass is tighter. That's what I've heard a few guys say anyway lol The vagina stretches more, but the ass doesn't stretch so easily. The ass hole is tight around the penis while he's thrusting , whereas the vagina stretches and becomes slightly bigger as soon as he starts thrusting

Answer 10

KatherineJ | 7.7K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

🤷🏻‍♀️ My husband knows better than to even ask me.

danman27

11 mo
Poor guy

Answer 11

danman27

Poor guy

Answer 12

TCredo | 1.8K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Explorer

lol no to the main question... it's just a different, tighter erotic feeling... watching the head press against is crazy hot... as is seeing the rosebud slowly open... ever so slowly the head pushes in... until the head passes and you get that little pop... all of that is just so hot to see and feel...

Answer 13

SpeedVoid

Xper 4

It's all a mental game when it comes to Anal in my opinion...

The wife and I are a bit kinky, I like the feeling of control where she is powerless. Anal is a quick way to put her in that head space and it works for me too. It's not an everyday activity but we like it.

Answer 14

jogger1613

Xper 4

No. Not to my knowledge. Guys like anal sex for a few reasons.
1. The anus is tighter, and there's more friction/ stimulation of the penis.
2. Its taboo, and therefore hot.
3. Their partner enjoys it and it's a mutually pleasurable experience.
If it causes you pain and discomfort but no pleasure, you can say no.
I'll readily admit I wish my size was bigger. However, I don't think this is why I enjoy anal sex.

jogger1613

11 mo
But now that you mention it, I might visualize this next time I go in through the back door.

Answer 15

jogger1613

But now that you mention it, I might visualize this next time I go in through the back door.

Answer 16

BodyShop

Xper 3

It's the thrill of knowing you've given me something that's usually "off the menu". I would say throughout my relationships I've gotten each person to do it 80% of the time, with a select few realizing that they really enjoyed it, some hated it but did it for my pleasure (respect to them) and one girl was like "chill".

Answer 17

JonJames

Xper 4

Not large. But we do want to feel like we can make her orgasm like no other guy can. Anal is one of the ways to get there.

Do guys love anal sex because it makes them feel large?

Answer 18

andy530 | 4.4K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

It’s possible some do. For me it’s more about the feeling of power knowing that together we are toeing the line of pleasure and pain and the gape after is mentally a huge turn on seeing evidence from her body that I was there. I don't know that’s just how I feel about it other guys are probably different

Answer 19

Nik1hil | 4.1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

From one perception you are right.
Man subconsciously want to impale women..
And anal is easiest way to impale with tiny dicks too..
Besides...
Since it's tighter in Ass..
It's more pleasure to us..

Answer 20

bradbradley

Xper 6

i just think anal feels good i love the sight of what i get to see and what me and her are doing also i make sure to rub her clit as well and i only do it if the girl is up for it or wanting it also only been with 2 different women that has liked anal

Answer 21

MannySimms | 728 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 7

Sorry but sticking my dick in shit doesn't do it for me. I'd rather have a handjob.

Thatsamazing

11 mo
... Do you receive handjobs when her hand is holding something other than your dick at the same time?
MannySimms

11 mo
@Thatsamazing If she has her own dick and we're frotting, then yeah. Good question!
Thatsamazing

11 mo
What the hell are you talking about man. Whatever
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MannySimms

11 mo
@Thatsamazing Thanks! Now you can do some research and enter a new world of excitement.

Answer 22

Thatsamazing

... Do you receive handjobs when her hand is holding something other than your dick at the same time?

Answer 23

MannySimms

@Thatsamazing If she has her own dick and we're frotting, then yeah. Good question!

Answer 24

Thatsamazing

What the hell are you talking about man. Whatever

Answer 25

MannySimms

@Thatsamazing Thanks! Now you can do some research and enter a new world of excitement.

Answer 26

danman27 | 62 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 4

No, it's tighter and naughtier. That's why I like it.

Answer 27

Cannuck22

Xper 7

never thought about it. But that’s not the case for me. Anal is a take it or leave it for me. I wouldn’t push to do it. If she wanted too then ok. But other wise I wouldn’t care.
im comfortable with my size so.

Answer 28

Nigjt | 2.1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Explorer

Well love anal sex not because it makes me feel bigger but because it just feel's so so very good to feel u work them muscles to me them are a very different kind of muscles then pussey muscles.
God Bless

Answer 29

DJ1998 | 100 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 5

If you fucking an ass you can cum deep inside it guilt free

Answer 30

Thatsamazing

Guru

No, it's because it's hot as hell, feels amazing, looks amazing, and she can't get pregnant. What ^ you said has nothing to do with it.

Answer 31

Twalli | 12.8K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

I just like the tightness and how much it makes my girlfriend scream

Answer 32

bazoom

Xper 1

I like it because it's more of a kinky experience adds more opportunity to the sex life.

Answer 33

whitehide | 565 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

It sounds like it could be true for some of us. I'm not into anal, though.

Answer 34

Mister-X_Y | 50 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 1

I dont like anal... I am confused of the idea that I put my dick inside a hole where the crap comes out🙄🤢

Answer 35

pizzalovershouse | 3.5K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

not all gugs like it not me many do though

Answer 36

Locksmithy

Xper 2

No, that is not why. Sometimes we are too drunk and get lost while driving.

Answer 37

billly317

Xper 1

No it doesn't make me feel bigger. Either vaginal or anal I'm still 7". I feel the woman is just being more open to sex when she ask her man to do anal. I respect that.

Answer 38

Prabhakarjha

Xper 1

Because of tightness in ass more than the Virgina that's why boy likes anal sex.
They get confidence when girl screm during anal sex due to pain

Answer 39

winterfox10

Master

Definitely a good guess, but I think you may have missed the mark

Answer 40

bangyourhead

Guru

It feels tighter, but I don't think it makes my dick feel bigger.

Answer 41

OpenNudist

Xper 6

I tell you this, I am not into Anal Sex with my girl but it literally is the only time that I wear Condoms. I put two on Lmfao

Answer 42

QuarantineBoredom | 55 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 2

I dont like anal sex and to be honest I don't even find it sexy or a turn on.

A real nice juicy pussy is where I put my dick

Answer 43

tHISpLACEiSbONKERZ | 617 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 7

It's tighter and doesn't make babies. These are the only reasons, has nothing to do with feeling large.

Answer 44

bklynbadboy1 | 4.8K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

That is completely false guys like it because it feels good that wild like it it has nothing to do with whether it makes a guy feel bigger or not

Answer 45

Sabretooth | 2.5K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

possibly some are that insecure-though, that does provide a tactic.

Answer 46

adnankapasi

Xper 4

No.. Most guys don't like anal sex. More pleasure lies inside vagina..

Answer 47

ComradeCarabao | 76 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 5

I don't know about that; I wanted to try it long before I knew it was tighter. lol

Answer 48

dthomas89

Xper 7

I can't stand anal sex, I've never had it, and don't want it

Answer 49

TheFlak38 | 3K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

No we like it because it is domination through pain.

Answer 50

Jaycrowe

Xper 3

Ass juss tighter gurl.. pussy gets loose but hardly n e women do legals so putting it n ur ass is Soo much tighter

Answer 51

berwise13 | 876 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 7

I dont care for anal. I will do it if she wants but i dont pursue it.

Answer 52

fett253 | 1.8K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 7

I dislike it for the reasons of being tough to fit, like getting the blood squeezed out of it. xD

Answer 53

esotericstory

Guru

When a guy wants anal, the girl should start doing kegels.

Answer 54

JamesBlackDragon | 1.9K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 7

I like it because I can get deeper than I can in her pussy and she can cum from anal sex

Answer 55

colinthenewfie | 117 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 4

Maybe. I already got a big dick and I have no desire so put my dick in something that makes poo lol

Answer 56

tslovr

Xper 1

I love Anal sex because it makes me feel sexy and I can be fucked deep like girls.. I just want hard cock inside me right now

Answer 57

hwvzhssb | 139 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 3

It feels good for us.
After some trials Girls loved it too

Answer 58

Billey | 113 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 3

I love it because it feels good for both the person

Answer 59

Anonymous

I never done anal , but I guess it stinks like ass 😷 , does it stinks like ass when we do it? I hate that stinkhole 🍑😷

Answer 60

Anonymous

No, it's because they're harboring latent homosexuality.

Opinion Owner

11 mo
But it's funny i've always wondered if rhat's why i like Asian women. Because Asian women are usually small and that subconsciously makes me feel bigger. Lol

Answer 61

Opinion Owner

But it's funny i've always wondered if rhat's why i like Asian women. Because Asian women are usually small and that subconsciously makes me feel bigger. Lol

Answer 62

GreyWolf9000 | 173 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 5

Can't answer this.. Never tried..

Answer 63

Anonymous

It doesn’t make me feel large. I like it simply bc my wife requests it.

Opinion Owner

11 mo
I’m not large and know that. I don’t care. She likes my dick in her ass, so she gets my dick in her ass.

Answer 64

Opinion Owner

I’m not large and know that. I don’t care. She likes my dick in her ass, so she gets my dick in her ass.

Answer 65

BillieJean1070 | 5.4K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

I don't know, I'll ask my boo...

Answer 66

NightFalcon333 | 131 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 5

NO, I HATE IT, it’s dirty, risky and smelly 🤢🤮

Answer 67

0112358 | 12.4K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

I think that’s a factor.

Answer 68

allin2468

Xper 4

I've never enjoyed it really

Answer 69

NorthwestRider | 2.2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

I love the pegging kind the most hehe

Answer 70

updog45

Xper 6

I dont like anal. Nasty

Answer 71

worldscolide | 3.5K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Dunno never tried it.. Seems gross to me

Answer 72

jason222

Xper 6

lol have u done anal with a small penis?

Answer 73

Secret6620 | 8.9K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

Great question! Here for the answers
🌸💜🌸

Locksmithy

9 mo
i like the hot tightmess... GI Jane with Kung Foo grip
Secret6620

9 mo
@Locksmithy 🤭🤭🤭
DJ1998

8 mo
Purely because you can cum as much as you want in her ass
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Secret6620

8 mo
@DJ1998 whattttt 😵 nooooooo
DJ1998

8 mo
Yeah no need for a condom haha

Answer 74

Locksmithy

i like the hot tightmess... GI Jane with Kung Foo grip

Answer 75

Secret6620

@Locksmithy 🤭🤭🤭

Answer 76

DJ1998

Purely because you can cum as much as you want in her ass

Answer 77

Secret6620

@DJ1998 whattttt 😵 nooooooo

Answer 78

DJ1998

Yeah no need for a condom haha

Answer 79

ZeussLightningBolt

Master

No. They're secretly faggot

Answer 80

Anonymous

It’s taboo, it’s different, and it feels good.

Answer 81

SuccessfulHornDog | 6.8K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

No, Not one of my reasons

Answer 82

Tellme | 1.2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

I don’t feel any need to try it.

Answer 83

guywithdog

Xper 1

Really !! Nooo, Vaginal is better for sure

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