It’s not bad or weird that you want real intimacy and not a cheap imitation.. it does make it harder when you can’t get yourself off but, maybe you just need to add a new element to get you off.. like sexting or looking at a different type of porn.. worst case scenario, try toying with heat and cold.. maybe a new sensation can re-ignite your flame?
You gotta get out there and meet people. Do you have female friends who know some guys?
All of my female friends aren’t really my friends. And they would never introduce me to a guy. They like to keep guys to themselves.
What about hobbies or activities? What do you do for fun? Do you work?
I work for a mortgage company and I paint as a hobby. There’s clubs here for artists but they are full of people 60 and up. I’m always the youngest one there. Most people around here are into drugs and getting drunk everyday. I’m not into that lifestyle so it’s hard to meet people.
Find someone you can build a connection with, meanwhile you can try masturbating with toys and such. Maybe try and find a new kink that’ll make it more exciting
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Go to the gym especially if there are fitness classes like H. I. I. T , yoga, pilates etc. Another idea which can help meeting new people is going to dance classes ( I wouldn't because I don't like dancing).
I joined a gym recently but I haven’t signed up for a class. That’s a good idea.
I used to go to classe trying to meet girls hahah
That’s actually a smart idea. Haha
Perhaps you could get back with the guy you had sex with already. Otherwise, you need to work on getting to know more people in general. Get over being shy.
Well... tinder
Try to hump table edge with jeans on while going commando, the stiches will give your pussy a good rubbing & also great orgasms.
Find yourself an oral buddy.
The only thing I can suggest is to research innovation in masturbation. Toys and techniques. Better ways to pull the trigger. This will not appease a need for intimacy, but it would slake off libido.
so let me get this straight... you are embarrassed about not being promiscuous lol. get a cuddle buddy...
If you want to chat, you can DM me. and depending on what you are like and what you see I am like we might be able to solve your issue.
Get married
You can, you just don't want to, why, i don't know
Are you looking for a bf? 😗
U gotta wait for a good guy and form a relationship. Chasing sex will bring misery
Join the swinglifestyle and go to a party your drought will end
Lose your moral compass or accept it isn't happening
I'm happy to give you some advice and suggestions, but not in open forum.
Change up how you masturbate, try sexting and mastrubating that way there is a human connection with it
Find more exciting ways to masturbate. Or are you looking to meet someone.
Welcome to the club
First off relax. Take a deep breath and try to not have the pressure on yourself that you seem to have added to yourself. 2nd take your time you don't want to just do it and them regret also
not to go all religious here-but i figured you might wanna read this: https://www.jw.org/en/bible-teachings/teenagers/ask/keep-mind-off-sex/
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