He cums quickly during the first round but isn't able to cum during the second round?

Question

I've had sex with this guy 3 times now. he's 19 and I'm 20. We hang out and cuddle and he gets rock hard from just being close to me and kissing on me. But he cums within a minute or two during actual sex. I can tell that he tries to be slow when he first puts it inside me, but he has to stop and start so he doesn't cum and he ends up coming really quickly anyway. The sex is still good for me and he makes me cum during oral, so I'm not upset about it. But he always apologizes and seems a little embarrassed. He tells me that my pussy is really good and very tight. He tells me that I'm the best at giving head. He says the sex is great and he always compliments me and is very sweet to me when we hang out. But when we try to do a second round of sex after he cums quickly during the first one, he can fuck me for a LONG time and still not cum again. He says that he is usually able to cum during the second round of sex.. why can't I make him cum during the second round? Do you think that maybe he just said my pussy was good to make me feel better?

Answer 1

mrmonogamous | 61 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 1

If he is reaching orgasm too soon, look into some of the duration sprays. I know Chi why makes one. The primary ingredient is lidocaine. It really numbs and reduces sensitivity to near zero depending on how much you use. If he uses that, and still reaches orgasm too early, it is psychological. He just needs to relax. And you should not judge him. You are turning him on immensely! Take it as a compliment! And if you’re not satisfied, tell him to go down on you!

Answer 2

white_fang

Xper 4

How do you feel during the second round? Are you or him getting tired? Also, cumming multiple times a day is a lot easier if you don't in the days before.

Answer 3

Twalli | 13K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Maybe you don't wait long enough. My girlfriend and I can usually have sex once every 8 hours. If we do it it more frequently I may not always be able to cum.

Answer 4

AdelSS04

Xper 1

Almost all cum quickly for the first round, men feel that a shame so that's why he give you a lot of excuses. But this doesn't mean he lie, because of he didn't like u, he will not try again and this isn't your case

Answer 5

Anonymous

I am same like him. I cum extreme quick too in the first round. And in the second round it needs a lot of time to cum again.
I guess it's the excitement that makes me cum so fast and after i let out the pressure i am able to go on for a long time

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COMMODOREII | 14.4K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

He could be numb by the time of the second round. 😗

Answer 7

Jaycrowe

Xper 3

Nooo not at all... Men juss gotta get dat first but out n after it should be nothing bot play time juss sayn

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yourpsychosuburban | 59 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 4

No it's good girl, just us guys take a little bit to orgasm again

Answer 9

sonu789

Xper 5

It happens sometimes when guy feel super excitement

Answer 10

billluc69 | 5K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

odd, 1st and 2nd and 3rd i cum pretty easy. maybe you just need to keep trying or get some toys and turn it up

Answer 11

Anonymous

Well it does take a lot longer to come on the second round but if he’s 19 then it should be rather easy for him

Asker

1 y
Why can't he cum during the second round? He cums really quickly during the first round, but if i can't make him cum again after that, does that mean that I'm doing something wrong or that my pussy isn't as good as he says it is?
Opinion Owner

1 y
No it’s just him , he probably takes to long to recover

Answer 12

Asker

Why can't he cum during the second round? He cums really quickly during the first round, but if i can't make him cum again after that, does that mean that I'm doing something wrong or that my pussy isn't as good as he says it is?

Answer 13

Opinion Owner

No it’s just him , he probably takes to long to recover

Answer 14

Anonymous

Some guys are just like that. I last awhile but don’t cum much (volume wise). But I’m quick to recover and do cum again. Just never large amounts.

Answer 15

hegel

Xper 1

you may have to blow him the second time around

Answer 16

andy530 | 4.5K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

This can happen to some guys it’s fairly normal

Asker

1 y
And why does he cum so quickly? He cums during the first 2 minutes. I'm not upset by it, but I feel like maybe he doesn't enjoy it when he's cumming that fast.
andy530

1 y
No he’s enjoying it. He may just be really stimulated so he cums quickly
Asker

1 y
Do you think he meant it when he said I have really good pussy? Do you think he cums so quick because I'm tight?
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andy530

1 y
I mean I don’t know why he would lie about your pussy. Do you think your pussy is right?
andy530

1 y
Tight

Answer 17

Asker

And why does he cum so quickly? He cums during the first 2 minutes. I'm not upset by it, but I feel like maybe he doesn't enjoy it when he's cumming that fast.

Answer 18

andy530

No he’s enjoying it. He may just be really stimulated so he cums quickly

Answer 19

Asker

Do you think he meant it when he said I have really good pussy? Do you think he cums so quick because I'm tight?

Answer 20

andy530

I mean I don’t know why he would lie about your pussy. Do you think your pussy is right?

Answer 21

andy530

Tight

Answer 22

reptocarl

Master

It isn’t you

Asker

1 y
And why does he cum so quickly? He cums during the first 2 minutes. I'm not upset by it, but I feel like maybe he doesn't enjoy it when he's cumming that fast.
reptocarl

1 y
Because he’s a piss poor lover

Answer 23

Asker

And why does he cum so quickly? He cums during the first 2 minutes. I'm not upset by it, but I feel like maybe he doesn't enjoy it when he's cumming that fast.