Yes. They shouldn't laugh at you. Both my girlfriend and I have kinks, some similar and some different. But we discuss them first. We never really laughed at each other. And to be honest, even if we didn't exactly share that kink, we would still help satisfy that kink for the other every now and then.
I would say it's rude and kind of hurtful.
Thank you for saying that. And it's nice to know you and your girlfriend have a healthier take on things
That's okay :) Yeah just remember, communication is key. Try talking to him about it if you haven't already. He should listen to you and respect that, and you in return should do the same if he ever needs to talk about anything
Let's just say I already took a different approach on this 😂 But yeah you make a valid point. I did it in the first place cuz I thought he liked it
It took me a little time to get up the courage to ask my partner to use a toy on me that really does pull the trigger. No doubt she thought it was a combination of funny with a healthy measure of "Ewww" thrown in. By when she watched how much I liked it, she got to liking doing it. But she does giggle when I cum.
I see your point. It's nice that she got on board and was understanding about it
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I did express my annoyance and displeasure at the time and he apologized, but all the while still laughing.
Sounds like he doesn’t care. I would have been malicious (making fun of his lack of sexual skills). It you might not be like me.
Exactly! Which is why I chose to let it go and just not let it happen again.
Wow. That is a strange reaction. Most of the boys (term for friends where I'm from) I know would love that kind of invitation. Anyway, kinks are important to bring up and talk about if you are serious. It sounds to me like he may just be a little less mature than you. You might have scared him (DO NOT say this to him). I still can't imagine laughing at this though. I wouldn't call it a deal breaker before a serious talk.
Sit that man down and let him know you have serious needs that deserve fulfillment as mush as anyone else. See if he changes his tune after that.
It was some time ago already. It never happened again (him giving me facial). To be fair, I had my own share of fun and revenge by jerking him off and letting his jizz fly out to his face. So maybe maturity is a little questionable here
LOL... that must have been a satisfying revenge.
Happened more often than not so yeah pretty much 😛
Your partner should definitely encourage your kinks, if he wants to explore more.
He is an idiot for laughing, making you feel that way.
I would love to hear about your other Kinks.
No, you are right, he is wrong.
If you want to share kinks, you might do a little checking to see if your guy is into things you like. To laugh at you like that is just wrong! You don't want to date a jerk. You want a guy who is into the things you like or is very interested in learning.
Problem is, the kinkier you are, the more you have to look.
I am still looking!
Good luck.
Goodluck to you too!!
Thanks. :)
I don’t know if it’s a dealbreaker, but except me as IM. My pleasure should be your concern, as yours is mine. Fortunately, I have been married to the most wonderful woman in the world for over 30 years.
That's really wonderful to hear 💕💕
People deal with uncomfortable situations in weird ways. Probably best to not ask this here and just have a blunt conversation with him.
That is true too. It happened in the past and I was just wondering in retrospect if I did the right thing about it
Satisfying needs is important. I mean, someone might not be into what you're into, but that doesn't give them the right to laugh at what you like. And I don't think there is anything funny about it. So, to answer your question: Yes. It's a deal breaker.
Well that was disgusting
Which was?
What ur boyfriend did to u
Lol thanks for clarifying that one out. I thought you meant getting a facial was disgusting 🙈
If both find something funner I say its ok to just have a giggle but when they just laugh at your kinks and really isn't funny I say yep both a deal breaker and mood killer. It had happened to me before where they just start laughing in the heat of the moment and just killed the mood... it was shit
Yes!!! Instant mood killer!! I'm sorry I have to ask, why did your partner laugh?
The constant questioning and talking while we were having sex , now ex (Not for this reason lol ) just started laughing with what I answered her and just killed the mood
Oof. That doesn't sound good. Maybe she thought she was just being cute
I think you should talk to him about it first.
I told him upfront I didn't like that he laughed and he apologized, but he was still laughing which made me even more annoyed.
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I'm kind of shy 🙈
Yeah, I find that odd, even in porn when there is dom/sub stuff and they treat it like a joke, it's a turn off to me.
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