Why do guys like to get blowjobs? If getting blowjob is so important , why don't guys get it from other guys?

[owntheworld]

[TCredo]

lol I am assuming you are directing the 2nd ques to straight guys :)

I find giving or getting oral sex to be amazing intimate and erotic - it's not just the awesome physical feelings involved but everything to do with the nature of the act. Someone wants to give the other person pleasure by using their mouth - it's just awesome. I love giving oral sex as much as getting for all of those reasons too.

In terms of getting bj's, I feel a little bit bad (slight joking lol) for everyone who had to follow my college girlfriend lol... we dated for over 5 years and she gave the most amazing bj's - I mean just amazing amazing. And she loved doing it so over the 5+ years I got countless ones from her. I certainly enjoy every bj I've ever gotten but only one who got close to what she could do was a transgender woman I spent about a year with - she was right up there with my old college girl :)

Will also add that if given one choice to make, I'd pick giving oral pleasure over getting as I very much enjoy providing that type of pleasure :)

Thanks for the fun question and memory triggering lol :)

[TCredo]

Thanks for the MHO :)

[wagsingle]

I like getting them from both guys and girls. Never got one from a shemale yet, but I'm sure I would enjoy it if they are good at it.

[TCredo]

Excuse the unsolicited suggestion... but outside of some dying porn niches, the term "shemale" is considered derogatory - so unless you are approaching someone who advertises (i. e. escort service) as shemale, you would stand a better chance using transgendered woman instead of shemale.

[wagsingle]

@TCredo That's debatable. I hear other lgbt persons use it as self ID at times. Read this article for other views on these terms and some peoples choice to self id with them. slate.com/.../...r-or-an-identity-who-decides.html As far as the reference in the article to "offending" some bullshit "LGBT conservative" trying to reinforce gender binary on us, I'm with the author... fuck conservatives for pushing there crap on everyone else.

[TCredo]

Hi and yes all fair points - and there are as many opinions on the topic as voices it seems which is cool - and yes an overriding approach is best if find out what each individual prefers. I would point out that article, while interesting, is from 2014 which in transgender rights time is eons ago. I'll adjust my initial suggestion, I wouldn't use that term unless you know the intended person prefers or is ok with it. I know quite a few transgender women (each in their 20's or early 30's who fwiw didn't start transitioning until after that article). I know they would take offense. I'm not condoning snowflakeness or judging etc just find it's always smart to avoid offending especially in a first impression situation as often first impressions linger.

[Katie1964]

I can only speak to what Hubby has told me.
Why do guys like to get blowjobs?
Because it feels amazing physically and makes him feel loved by me.

If getting blowjob is so important , why don't guys get it from other guys?
Because he is married to me, he is straight and I apparently give the best blow jobs he has ever received.

[Regmorus]

troll question, but nicely put! The evolution did that guys want blowjobs from women.

[circumstances]

Blowjobs feel good, but I only like to get them if the girl is enjoying herself. If she isn't into it, I don't want it. Blowjobs are not "important." I also have no interest in getting a blowjob from another man.

[SarahsSummer]

Guys do get it from other guys, but those guys are called homosexuals and are attracted to people of the same sex. For those men who are heterosexual, they are only interested in sexual intimacy with those of the opposite sex. Does this make sense to you?

[Tommie21]

Blow jobs are so intense if a lady really knows what she is doing! I think much of it is the feeling that your woman is paying special attention to you. Not all women give blow jobs to every date they have. Some women do it because they feel it is expected, while others reserve fellatio for the guys they consider a hunk, and some women won't do it no matter what. Guys don't go around giving other guys blow jobs unless their gay! That is kind of a goofy question but I suppose some women really don't know.

[WhiteShoulder]

Same reason girls like getting licked

[mnthan7]

Perfect answer

[MrSlim]

A vagina or anus is a one trick pony. A month can offer a nearly infinite amount of sensations. Guys get blowjob's from guys all the time, it's called being gay or bi. I'm not gay so girls only for me.

[danman27]

Blowjobs are amazing, you get the warm, wet, soft experience much like a vagina, but then you also get the suction sensation at the same time.
Many guys do get it from other guys.

[foxrider77]

Well after seein some reviews they do get it from other guys.

[NightFalcon333]

Same question as “why do girls like it when we lick & suck her clit?”, the answer is also the same : it feels good

.. and why don’t we get it from another guy? Uhhh.. because of the double standards I guess? Non-lesbian girls can kiss / suck on each other nipples / even grind their pussies without being judged as lesbian, meanwhile 2 men simply holding hands already considered as gay.

[MannySimms]

We do. And they're MUCH more satisfying.

[MackToday]

Because that would be puke inducing on a level that's hard to explain. Anyone should know that.

[JimmyInSpace]

If girls like food so much, why don't they just eat their own turds?

[winterfox10]

It's kind of a dominance thing. Men don't really want to be sexually dominant over other men... Not as appealing. Plus, women's mouths are very pretty, soft, wet, warm places. I've never met a dude that I thought that about

[ZiZi_Bell]

I'm not disagreeing with you, just sharing my experience, but blowjobs tend to make me feel like the dominant one. Lol When I'm giving a blowjob I pretty much have complete control of what's going on.

[winterfox10]

@ZiZi_Bell that's what makes oral so interesting; the power dynamics are so complicated. I have heard other women say the same thing

[ZiZi_Bell]

The power dynamics of sex in general are fascinating. Lol

[MannMitAntworten]

From other guys? I don’t see the rational.

[worldscolide]

Because that's gay.. Most men aren't gay. Same could be said for women that like to be eaten out.. If they like it so much why don't they go to other girls and do it... Because most women aren't gay..

[RLovesD7792]

first I don't like blowjobs they hurt to get them and second because guys a lot of guys are straight and aren't gay

[RLovesD7792]

That's like asking why doesn't a woman eat another woman's pussy out if she's straight

[wagsingle]

If a blow job hurts, the giver doesn't know what they are doing. I've never had one hurt.

[BobbyC65]

Same reason for girl's.
Why do girl's like to getting their pussie's sucked and licked? If getting their pussie's sucked and licked is so important , why don't girl's get it from other girl's?

[WhereAmI]

That's just gross. That's like asking another girl to mow your lawn. 😂

[FatherJack]

Never , ever liked them , NOT for me , so not all guys !!