Why do people like to sext?

Question

what im saying is that doesn't it suck that you're turned on and shit and then you think like "shit, i wish i could actually do it to that person" it seems kinda like a bummer dont it? 😂

Answer 1

ecfresh | 4.6K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

It’s fun, it’s stimulating, it’s interactive, and it can get people off. Granted some people are boring, but if someone is creative and open sexually then texting is great and sexy. Plus you could do it as a part of foreplay with your SO.

Think about men and women. Generally men are more visual thus the popularity of porn. However women enjoy sexual stories more thus romance novels. So imagine how much you can turn on a woman by creating her own interactive romance novel where she is the star? Words can turn her on and they would be your words.

Answer 2

Red_Arrow | 9.7K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

Guys masturbate all the time and usually have either porn or a mental image in mind. Having a person to do that with and often with pictures is better than without. Though most women are more into the text, many also like the pictures. In any case, if you are saying it is not something to do because you are not actually fucking the person, then you are saying that you never masturbate.

Answer 3

Apple1996 | 5.8K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

It can be fun if you like the person but yeah it is kind of a bummer since you can't acutally fuck them

Answer 4

jgirl99 | 1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 7

Depends on who you are sexting and why

chriscdi

1 y
i dont think it really depends because at the end of the day y'all dont get to do it together lol
jgirl99

1 y
Its a little different If you're doing it with a committed partner. If ur doing it online, its anonymous, and ultimately a fantasy
chriscdi

1 y
well if this partner is long distance then the chances of meeting up are pretty low too tho
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jgirl99

1 y
Nope. Im in a ldr rn. We see each other every few weeks
chriscdi

1 y
im talking about long distance, not a couple hundo miles away lol
jgirl99

12 mo
That is long distance
jgirl99

12 mo
Its different in a relationship, cause u should have the intent to meet each other irl eventually. Sexting with randos online is just to get off